Summary

In this conversation, Dr. Steve Yacovelli, also known as the Gay Leadership Dude, discusses his new book 'Your Queer Career' and how it builds upon his previous book 'Pride Leadership'. He explains that 'Your Queer Career' is a collection of real questions he has received from queer and ally leaders, and he provides strategies and advice for navigating various workplace situations. The book is organized around the six competencies of authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationships, and culture. Dr. Yacovelli emphasizes that the book is not only for queer individuals, but also for allies who want to be better leaders and better understand the LGBTQ+ community. In this conversation, Dr. Steve Yacovelli discusses his book 'Pride Leadership' and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community and beyond. They explore the importance of authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationship-building, and culture in leadership. They also discuss the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in the workplace and the need for more inclusive leadership. Dr. Yacovelli shares personal experiences and highlights the significance of creating safe spaces for queer individuals to discuss their career experiences. The conversation concludes with information on how to connect with Dr. Yacovelli and access his resources.

Takeaways

• Dr. Steve Yacovelli's new book 'Your Queer Career' builds upon his previous book 'Pride Leadership' and provides strategies and advice for navigating workplace situations.
• The book is organized around the six competencies of authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationships, and culture.
• 'Your Queer Career' is not only for queer individuals, but also for allies who want to be better leaders and better understand the LGBTQ+ community.
• The book includes reflective questions at the end of each chapter to encourage readers to apply the concepts and strategies to their own workplace situations.
• Authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationship-building, and culture are key pillars of effective leadership.
• LGBTQ+ individuals still face challenges and discrimination in the workplace, and it is important to create safe spaces for them to be their authentic selves.
• There is a need for more inclusive leadership programs and education, both in academic institutions and workplaces.
• The book 'Pride Leadership' can be a valuable resource for individuals of all backgrounds, providing insights and lessons on leadership and inclusivity.

The conversation highlights the importance of resilience and self-awareness in navigating career challenges and finding the right fit in the workplace. To connect with Steve and learn more about Pride Leadership and his latest book, "Your Queer Career" you can go to http://www.topdoglearning.biz You can also find him on LinkedIn where he shares is fabulousness to world: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steveyacovelli If you want to follow Steve on Instagram you can catch him @thegayleadershipdude If you loved this episode be sure to like, comment and share. Don't forgot to subscribe to the podcast and our new YouTube Channel for the video recording. Find us on social media @josemiguellongo on Instagram. @coachingformillennials on TikTok

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background 06:40 Writing and Recording the Books 12:26 The Leader Circle and Networking 21:43 Introduction and Uploading the Book 27:18 Legal Protections and Workplace Challenges 31:25 Statistics on LGBTQ+ Individuals in the Workplace 35:58 Focus on the Six Pillars of Leadership

Keywords

queer career, leadership, workplace, authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationships, culture, Pride Leadership, LGBTQ+, authenticity, courage, empathy, communication, relationship-building, culture, inclusive leadership, workplace challenges, safe spaces

Episode 120: Overcoming Job Search Rejection

Hey everyone, and welcome back to Coaching for Millennials where we talk about all things career, success, and navigating those tricky life transitions. Today, we're diving into a topic that I know so many people struggle with – and I've struggled with it myself – the overwhelming sense of rejection and frustration that comes with a difficult job search.

If you feel like you've sent out hundreds of resumes, maybe gotten a few interviews, but those offers just don't seem to materialize, you're not alone. I'm going to break down exactly why job search rejection can be so soul-crushing, what you can do to manage the emotional side, and those actionable steps to improve your chances and stay in the game.

Segment 1: Why Job Rejection Hurts So Bad

• Personalization: It's easy to feel that a rejection is a judgment of YOU, not just your skills or fit for the specific job.
• Loss of Control: The job search often feels like you aren't in the driver's seat, and that compounds when you're faced with rejection.
• Ego Bruising: Let's face it, your career is tied into your self-worth, and rejection can sting that pride.

Segment 2: Coping Strategies for Rejection

• It's NOT personal (most of the time): Companies have countless reasons for not choosing you, many totally unrelated to your talent.
• Give Yourself Time to Feel: It's okay to be disappointed, even angry. Vent to a trusted friend, go for a run, scream into a pillow. Then, time to refocus.
• Focus on Controllables: You CAN'T control hiring decisions, but you CAN control the quality of your applications, your effort, your skills development.
• Small Wins Matter: Did you tailor a cover letter especially well? Celebrate it! Small wins keep your momentum alive.

Segment 3: Staying Positive and Standing Out

• Targeted Applications: Quality over quantity, folks. Deeply research jobs that are a TRUE fit and customize your materials for each.
• Keywords are King: Your resume and cover letter must align with the job posting's lingo – they use software to scan these.
• Networking Power: It sounds old school, but real human connections matter. LinkedIn, professional groups, even informational interviews.
• The Skills Upgrade: Be honest – is there some training, software, or a relevant skill you could build to boost your appeal?

Show Notes

Action Items:

• Revisit Your Materials: Is your resume up-to-date and impactful? Does your cover letter clearly show why you're the ideal fit? Get ruthless editing here.
• Time Allocation: Set specific job search HOURS. Don't let it bleed into all your time and drain your energy
• Accountability Buddy: Find a friend on a similar path and check in on each other's progress.

Positive Affirmation: "I am capable. I am worthy. The right opportunity is waiting for me."

Don't let rejection define you. This is a hurdle you will absolutely jump over. For more support and resources, be sure to check other episodes of the podcast such as job searching, resume writing, and cover letter writing. And as always, keep hustling out there, you've got this! Until next time. Subscribe to the show, follow and like. Also connect with me on Social @josemiguellongo. If you're interested in investing in your future and are considering starting a side hustle, I have a great opportunity that will teach you how to make the extra mula!! Follow me on insta and TikTok @sidehustlemanifest where I share tips and tricks to make money online. PLUS my course DWA, Digital Wealth Academy is available for sale! Go snag it on my store at https://stan.store/sidehustlemanifest

Keywords

job search, rejection, emotions, focus, control, digital marketing, side hustle, networking, resume, cover letter, LinkedIn

Summary

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching for Millennials. Today we go deep into my new business venture, Side Hustle Manifest, which is a digital and affiliate marketing business. Jose Miguel shares his personal journey with digital marketing and affiliate marketing. He explains the concept of Digital Wealth Academy (DWA) and how it can help individuals achieve financial freedom. The host also highlights the value of the DWA course and the potential for earning significant income through digital marketing. He encourages listeners to take action and provides information on how to access the course. Takeaways

• Digital marketing and affiliate marketing offer opportunities for financial success and freedom.
• The Digital Wealth Academy (DWA) course provides comprehensive training in digital marketing and affiliate marketing.
• The DWA course includes modules on digital products, private label rights, and master resale rights.
• Investing in the DWA course can lead to significant income and the ability to quit a nine-to-five job.
• Taking action and committing to the DWA course can help individuals build a successful online business.

Call to Action

To learn more about how you can start your side hustle and make money with digital and affiliate marketing, download my freebie: Fast Track Guide to Digital Wealth or you can visit my site by going to stan.store/sidehustlemanifest

To take advantage of the DWA- Digital Wealth Academy Vol 2 MMR Course + Essential Bonus at the $497 price- Click Here for the Course Bundle

Be sure to give my new instagram ant tiktok accounts some love @sidehustlemanifest. Please DM or email me at info@sidehustlemanifest if you have any questions.

I can't wait to see you in the course and dreaming up your side hustle!

XO,

Jose Miguel

Chapters

#coaching, #millennials, #businessopportunity, #digitalmarketing, #affiliate #marketing, #financialfreedom, #DWA, #course, #income, #makemoneyonline #sidehustle #instagram #tiktok #sidehustlemanifest

Welcome back to another powerful episode, everyone! Today, we're diving deep into a transformative concept that can dramatically reshape your life – the interwoven nature of your mindset and the incredible potential of manifestation. If you're ready to take control of your thoughts, beliefs, and create the reality you deserve, you're in the right place. Let's get started!

Mindset: What It Is and How It Works

• Definition of Mindset: Your mindset is an established set of beliefs and attitudes that shape how you see the world. Think of it like a pair of glasses – the lenses you use determine how situations and opportunities appear.
• Mindset Matters: Your mindset impacts everything you do. It influences your motivation, resilience, the way you handle challenges, and even how you perceive yourself. If you want to change outcomes, shift your mindset first.
• Growth vs. Fixed Mindset: Research made popular by Dr. Carol Dweck suggests we often fall into one of two categories:
  • Fixed mindset: Belief that talent and ability are set, leading to avoidance of challenges and a sense of stagnation.
  • Growth mindset: Belief that you can develop and expand abilities with practice and dedication, leading to embracing obstacles and a love of learning.

Developing Your Mindset: Facts and Action

• Fact #1 – It Takes Work: Our mindsets are forged over time through experiences and messages we internalize. They're not set in stone. Changing them requires conscious effort.
• Fact #2 – Neuroplasticity: This is the amazing ability of your brain to reorganize itself. With repetition and focus, you literally rewire your brain for a new mindset.
• Develop It – How?
  • Challenge limiting beliefs: When you hear that inner critic ("I'm not good enough," etc.) examine the evidence. Are those thoughts really true?
  • Reframe negativity: Turn "I can't" into "I can't YET." Focus on growth, not limitations.
  • Empowering vocabulary: Choose words that reflect resilience, possibility, and ownership.

Mindset's Connection to Manifestation

• Manifestation 101: Manifestation means bringing your desires into reality, aligning your thoughts, energy, and actions for specific outcomes. It taps into the power of focused intention.
• Energy is Key: Your mindset determines your vibrational frequency. High vibes (joy, gratitude) attract positive experiences; low vibes (doubt, fear) manifest more of the same.
• Your Beliefs Create Your Reality: If you subconsciously believe you're unworthy of love, for example, amazing partners won't just appear. Your mindset sets the stage for what you manifest.

Embracing Manifestations' Power

• Why It Matters: Because you are a co-creator of your life, not just a passive observer. Manifestation empowers you, making you active in designing your ideal future.
• Busting a Myth: Manifestation is not magic. It IS about focused intention and work, but life isn't a vending machine. Sometimes, it takes unexpected twists on the way to your goal.

Manifestation: Call to Action

• Clarity is King (or Queen): Get crystal-clear on what you want, not just what you DON'T want.
• Visualize & Feel: Imagine your desire as if it's already real. Engage the emotions you'll feel when you have it.
• Inspired Action: Don't just sit around waiting. Take aligned steps towards your goals – big and small!

Show Notes

Dr. Dweck's research about the power of mindset: https://www.mindsetworks.com/science/

What I am reading: "Your Queer Career" Dr. Steven R. Yacovelli

Positive Affirmation

"My mind is powerful. I choose thoughts that uplift, inspire, and align with my highest goals. I am a magnet for all that is good."

Thanks for joining me! Remember, your mindset is your superpower. Harness it, align it with manifestation, and watch your world transform. Until next time, keep shining bright! #mindset #manifestation #growthmindset #manifest #growth #clarity #belief #life #purpose #career #passion #future #change #millennial #work #beliveinyou #coach #coaching

Hey everyone, and welcome back to Coaching for Millennials. For all of us navigating this wild ride of adulting, some days it can feel like fear is holding the steering wheel, and we're stuck in the passenger seat. But what if we could snatch that power back?

Today, we're getting down into the roots of fear, understanding where it comes from, and how we can use it as fuel for success. Let's dive in!"

Dissecting Fear: Where Does it Live?

Fear isn't all bad – evolutionarily, it kept us safe. Our modern fears: failure, rejection, the unknown, public speaking, being 'seen'. How fear manifests: avoidance, procrastination, self-sabotage. Fear, Imposter Syndrome, & Limiting Beliefs Our inner critic - it's fueled by fear. "I'm not good enough," "I'll fail" – these are FEAR talking, not truth.

Limiting beliefs hold us back from opportunities and personal growth. Courage: The Antidote It's NOT about being fearless, but acting in spite of fear. Small acts of courage build confidence – like raising your hand in a meeting! Courage lets us pivot – saying 'no', or changing careers when we're unhappy.

Strategies for Mastering Your Fears Acknowledgement:

Name your fear (it loses power in the light). Challenge your thoughts: Is this fear realistic? What's the worst that could happen? Reframing: See fear as a sign you're stepping into growth territory. Visualization: Imagine yourself succeeding despite the fear.

Call to Action

"What's ONE tiny but courageous act you can commit to this week? Maybe it's sending that job application, asking for that raise, or even just having that difficult conversation. Write it down, put it somewhere visible, and DO IT!

Key Takeaways

Fear is normal, but it doesn't have to control you. Fear often shows up as imposter syndrome and limiting beliefs. Courage is a muscle, it grows stronger with use. Small acts of courage can lead to huge shifts in your life.

Positive Affirmations

I am capable of overcoming my fears.

I choose courage over comfort.

My fears do not define me.

I am stepping into my power.

Call to Action Identify one specific fear you have.

Write down a tiny action step you can take, despite that fear Do that action within the next 48 hours Share your success stories with the show!

Connect with me at hello@coachingwithjosemiguel.com. Reach out if you're interested in a coaching package that we can customize for you.

"Remember, you are far more powerful than your fears. Let's keep choosing courage, and I'll be right here cheering you on. Until next time!" #millennials #genZ #genX #courage #fear #life #career # purpose #passion #impostersyndrome #saboteur #overcome

Welcome to the enlightening episode of Coaching for Millennials, where your mentor José Miguel Longo guides you to understand the resilience required in your job search, how to overcome layoffs, and embrace change positively. Working towards embracing your passion, awakening your true purpose with life design strategies, effective resume writing, and comprehensive career advice, this podcast strives to arm you with essential insights.

Throughout the episode, we bring attention to career-related fears, uncertainties, and discuss the emotional impact of job loss. Drawing from the experiences of the powerful quote, "When it comes to changing your life, if you're not scared, you're doing something wrong." , José Miguel shares his personal journey while transitioning between jobs during time of economic crisis.

This frank and relatable conversation revolves around the realities of navigating the career path in a changing world. Learn how to process and manage the emotions of job loss, understanding the importance of self-compassion. Discover how to put your skills and accomplishments under the spotlight as you delve into your next move.

Be part of discussions to build a support system, explore new opportunities, learn about considering unexpected career paths, how to be resilient, and how opening new doors to your network can offer you unexpected experiences. Understand the essence of transitioning from a negative mindset to a positive one, viewing job loss as a stepping stone rather than a pitfall.

With these enriching strategies and advice, whether you're getting back to the same industry, hunting for different job opportunities, or contemplating a field change, equip yourself for success. If you need professional support, discover how working with a career coach can turbocharge your resume, build your profile, and navigate your emotional journey.

This episode aims to inspire you to overcome adversity in your career and thrive, converting the loss into a stepping stone towards success and self-growth. So, do not let job hunting challenges defeat you; tune in and embark on your exciting career journey with renewed confidence and positivity.

Call to Action:

1. Reflect on your emotions and practice self-compassion during challenging times.
2. Assess your skills, accomplishments, and passions to identify potential career paths.
3. Build a support network of friends, family, mentors, and peers to navigate through job loss.
4. Explore new opportunities and embrace change with an open mind and positive attitude.
5. Develop a resilient mindset by reframing setbacks as learning experiences and staying persistent in your job search efforts.
6. Take action by updating your resume, optimizing your LinkedIn profile, and networking effectively

Resources Mentioned

You are a Badass- Jen Sincero: You Are a Badass 2024 Day to Day Calendar- Amazon

Quote: "When it comes to changing your life, if you're not scared, you're doing something wrong.", Thursday, March 28 #jobsearch #resilience #layoff #jobloss #career #emotionalintelligence #self-compassion #supportsystem #newopportunities #resilent #mindset #takeaction #skills #strengths #lifecoach #careercoach

Welcome to an enlightening episode of "Coaching for Millennials". Jose Miguel Longo, renowned millennial life and career coach, passionately engages us on the topic of overcoming toxicity in life and career. Based on personal experiences and practical illustrations, Jose stresses the importance of recognizing toxic behaviors and maintaining a positive mindset.

In a brave recounting of his own struggles, he delves into difficult family relationships and highlights the tough decision to walk away from toxicity. Weaving in raw emotions and humor, he transforms the narrative into an exploration of self-worth and setting boundaries amid adversity.

Transitioning from personal to professional life, Jose gives a detailed account of toxicity in the workplace. In particular, he focuses on the unique challenges faced in human resource roles and everyone's need for open dialogue about these issues. He provides practical strategies for dealing with toxic work environments, either by seeking HR support or considering a career change when necessary.

Always prioritizing mental and emotional health, this episode is a true guide on how to navigate the rough seas of life's toxicity. Prepare to be inspired and empowered to create positivity in your life and career. If you need support in understanding or implementing what's discussed, don't hesitate to reach out for coaching help. Stay tuned for more insightful content and practical guidance on personal and professional development.

Call to Action:

1. Reflect on your own life and career. Are there any sources of toxicity that you need to address?
2. Practice setting boundaries by saying no to things that drain your energy and prioritizing activities that bring you joy.
3. Reach out to supportive friends, mentors, or colleagues for guidance and encouragement.
4. If you're experiencing toxicity in the workplace, consider discussing your concerns with HR or management, and explore potential solutions such as finding a new job or pursuing further education or training.

#toxic #toxicity #work #workenvironment #relationships #family #career #life #positivity #future #wellbeing #boundaries #millennial #coach #careercoach #lifecoach