Tips to Stay Calm During Darker Days: Pause Negative Thoughts and Lift Your Mood

Feeling low-energy or weighed down as the days get shorter? Many women notice their mood dips and negative thoughts spiral during the darker months — even when life “looks good.”

In this episode of Choose Happy with Marie, I share: ✨ Why seasonal changes can affect your mindset and amplify your inner critic ✨ A personal story about noticing my own seasonal dips and how I regained calm ✨ A 1-minute Choose Happy reset to pause negative thoughts ✨ 3 practical tips to lift your energy, focus, and emotional resilience

Plus, grab my free guide to help you notice a common negative belief that may be holding you back from living your happy life, and try a simple 1-minute reset plus printable Choose Happy affirmation cards. 👉 Click HERE

Stay lighter — even on the darker days.

Cheers, Marie

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Hello,

What if the missing piece to your happiness isn’t doing more, but finally believing you’re enough as you are?

In this episode of Choose Happy with Marie, I’m diving into strengthening your self-worth. Because when your self-worth is solid, happiness stops being something you chase and starts being something you live.

I’ll share: ✨ Why self-worth is the foundation of lasting happiness ✨ 3 practical ways to strengthen your self-worth starting today ✨ Real-life examples you can relate to (and try in your own life)

By the end of this episode, you’ll have simple, actionable steps you can take to start valuing yourself more, doubting yourself less, and moving toward the happy, aligned life you deserve.

And don’t forget—this week’s members-only email includes a powerful affirmation to help you put today’s message into practice.

Become a member to receive weekly resources, affirmations, and tools to support your journey.

Cheers,

Marie

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Hello,

We made it to the Season 3 finale of Choose Happy with Marie! In this special episode, I reflect on the biggest lessons from this season, share listener testimonials, and celebrate the incredible community we’ve built together. You’ll hear inspiring stories from listeners who are choosing happy in their daily lives, plus a sneak peek at what’s ahead in Season 4.

Catch up on these listener-favorite episodes before Season 4 begins!

Episodes referenced by theme:

Affirmations

• Ep. 89 | How Can I Stop Being So Negative? Use Positive Affirmations
• Ep. 105 | From Self-Doubt to Self-Worth
• Ep. 113 | How to Use Affirmations with Prayer

Fresh Starts & Resets

• Ep. 92 | 3 Ways to End the Year on a Positive Note
• Ep. 94 | Add This Habit to Your Morning Routine to Help You Live a Happy Day

Negative Thinking & Mindset Shifts

• Ep. 87 | 3 Steps to Remove Unwanted Memories from Your Mind
• Ep. 99 | Negative Thought Patterns that Trigger Fear
• Ep. 114 | 3 Ways to Break Free from Negative Thinking

Cheers,

Marie

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Feeling stuck in negative thinking? Overwhelm, self-doubt, and spiraling thoughts can make even simple tasks feel impossible. If you’ve been looking for ways to regain mental clarity, calm, and confidence, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we explore practical mindset strategies and share a powerful affirmation to help you stop spiraling thoughts, build emotional resilience, and feel more focused and in control in your everyday life.

If you’ve been longing to shift your mindset, quiet self-doubt, and step into living your life with clarity, ease, and confidence, these tools are designed to help you feel empowered, confident, and ready to choose happiness every day.

Cheers,

Marie

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👉 Free Gift: Daily Choose Happy Ritual Start and end your day with calm, confidence, and happiness! This one-page, printable guide includes a quick morning practice, an evening reflection, and three printable affirmation cards from my Choose Happy Card Deck. Perfect for busy days, even if you already have the deck. Get your free copy here: Daily Choose Happy Ritual — Boost Confidence & Happiness

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Hello,

Are you tired of letting other people’s moods ruin your day or drain your energy?

In this episode, I’m sharing practical ways to protect your energy, stay grounded, and keep your day on track — even when someone else’s emotions try to pull you off course. You’ll discover how to respond instead of react, maintain your focus, and create the intentional day you want, no matter what’s happening around you.

You’ll learn:

• How to recognize when you’re absorbing someone else’s energy
• Simple ways to reset and realign your mood quickly
• How to stay intentional and keep your focus on how you want to feel and show up

Cheers,

Marie

Become a Choose Happy Member:

If today’s episode resonated with you, I’d love to invite you into the Choose Happy community.

👉 Free Gift: Daily Choose Happy Ritual Start and end your day with calm, confidence, and happiness! This one-page, printable guide includes a quick morning practice, an evening reflection, and three printable affirmation cards from my Choose Happy Card Deck. Perfect for busy days, even if you already have the deck. Get your free copy here: Daily Choose Happy Ritual — Boost Confidence & Happiness

More Links & Resources: 👉 BECOME a Choose Happy Member: https://choosehappywithmarie.com/

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👉 JOIN the Choose Happy Facebook Community: Click here 👉 Instagram: @choosehappywithmarie

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Hello,

What if the roles you’ve been playing are keeping you from true happiness? Learn how to let go, break free from negative thinking, and reclaim your happiness.

In this episode of Choose Happy with Marie, we explore how clinging to old roles—like being the always-available partner or constantly putting everyone else first—can keep you trapped in negative thinking and self-doubt. You’ll hear practical ways to recognize what no longer serves you, release limiting expectations, and create space to confidently lead your life with clarity, happiness, and authenticity.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to identify roles and expectations that hold you back
• Ways to break free from negative thinking tied to old patterns
• Reflection prompts to help you release old roles and reclaim your happiness
• Bonus: Choose Happy affirmation to support your mindset shift

Subscribe so you never miss an episode, and share with a friend who’s ready to step into their authentic happy life. For more tools and free resources to support your journey, visit choosehappywithmarie.com

Cheers,

Marie

Become a Choose Happy Member:

If today’s episode resonated with you, I’d love to invite you into the Choose Happy community.

👉 Free Gift: Daily Choose Happy Ritual Start and end your day with calm, confidence, and happiness! This one-page, printable guide includes a quick morning practice, an evening reflection, and three printable affirmation cards from my Choose Happy Card Deck. Perfect for busy days, even if you already have the deck. Get your free copy here: Daily Choose Happy Ritual — Boost Confidence & Happiness

More Links & Resources: 👉 JOIN the Choose Happy Facebook Community: Click here 👉 LEARN more about Choose Happy: https://choosehappywithmarie.com/ 👉 SHOP the Choose Happy Affirmation Card Deck: Click here 👉 Instagram: @choosehappywithmarie

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Hello,

Are you feeling stuck in a loop of self-doubt, overthinking, or negative self-talk that leaves you drained and unmotivated? Negative thinking can become a habit, but it’s one you can unlearn with the right tools and a little daily practice.

If you’re ready to stop letting those inner critics run the show and start creating a life that feels aligned and happy — without overhauling everything at once — this episode is for you. I’m sharing gentle, proven strategies you can use today to shift your thinking and open the door to more confidence, calm, and clarity.

These strategies will help you interrupt unhelpful thought patterns, replace them with grounding truths that actually feel believable, and design your environment so positivity becomes your default. They’re simple enough to remember in the moment, yet powerful enough to create lasting change.

Cheers,

Marie

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Are affirmations and prayer the same thing—or can they work together to support your mindset and spiritual growth? In this episode, I’m answering a question I hear often from members: "Can I use affirmations if I already pray?"

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The key difference between affirmations and prayer—and how they complement each other
• Four practical steps to integrate affirmations into your spiritual routine
• A mini guided practice to help you start blending prayer and affirmation today

Looking for an affirmation to support your prayer practice? I’m sharing a powerful one this week exclusively with my email community. Join here: https://choosehappywithmarie.com/

More Links & Resources: 👉 JOIN the Choose Happy Facebook Community: Click here 👉 LEARN more about Choose Happy: https://choosehappywithmarie.com/ 👉 SHOP the Choose Happy Affirmation Card Deck: Click here 👉 Instagram: @choosehappywithmarie

Support the Show: 👉 Leave a REVIEW – If this episode supported you, please leave a 5-star review. It helps more women discover Choose Happy and reclaim their joy. 👉 SUBSCRIBE – Don’t miss what’s next. Tap follow so you’re always first to hear new episodes.