In this episode, Elizabeth invites you into a gentler rhythm of summer, one that’s not defined by packed calendars, family vacations, or Instagram-worthy plans. Instead, she explores what it means to reclaim summer as a childless woman and lean into a slower, more intentional pace.

From backyard mornings to feel-good K-dramas (need to know a good one? Send Elizabeth a DM and she'll give you recs!), Elizabeth shares what her version of summer joy looks like, and why giving yourself permission to rest isn’t laziness...it’s radical self-love. Whether you’re craving ease, healing, or simply a season that feels good for your soul, this episode reminds you that your summer gets to look like yours. No guilt, no pressure Just presence.

What you’ll hear:

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• Why summer can look different (and freeing!) for those without kids
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• How to embrace ease instead of productivity
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• Ways to reclaim childlike joy through simple pleasures
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• The healing power of doing “nothing” and choosing slow living
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• Why K-dramas are Elizabeth’s new favorite mental escape (with recs!)
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• Encouragement to release the “shoulds” and follow what feels good
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In this episode, Elizabeth sits down with her husband, Victor, for a raw and vulnerable conversation on Father’s Day. This is a day that carries quiet complexity for those navigating life without children and inside this episode, what starts as a casual check-in turns into a heartfelt exchange about grief, identity, societal pressure, and the silent ways men often carry loss.

Victor opens up about how Father’s Day really feels for him, what it’s like to grieve without clear rituals or community, and the emotional weight of letting go of a dream he never thought he’d have to release. Together, they reflect on shared grief, gender differences in emotional processing, and how this journey continues to evolve over time.

Whether you’re walking this path with a partner or solo, this episode offers insight, connection, and comfort in knowing that you are not alone—and that grief, while it may never fully disappear, can soften with time.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• A vulnerable, unscripted conversation about the emotional impact of Father’s Day
• How men process childlessness differently than women—and why it’s often invisible
• Why it’s important to acknowledge “silent grief”
• Reflections on guilt, identity, and healing as a couple
• The power of honest conversations in relationships

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In this heartfelt solo episode of By Chance, Elizabeth opens up about the tender reality of being in an emotional in-between space. She had a different topic planned—but instead, she chose to show up exactly as she is. No sugarcoating. No pretending. Just real talk about the loneliness, the inner questioning, and the quiet doubts that surface in the messy middle of life. If you’ve been feeling a little off lately or wondering if you’re doing enough, this episode is here to remind you: you are not alone.

You’ll hear:

• Why life doesn’t always feel like sunshine and joy, even after beautiful experiences
• What it means to let things be messy instead of trying to fix them
• How emotional fog and creative burnout show up (and how to name it)
• The reality of working from home, running a business, and feeling isolated
• What small rituals can ground you during tough seasons
• Why rest, prayer, and gentle self-compassion matter more than ever
• A loving reminder that this, too, shall pass

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In today's episode, Elizabeth shares a powerful reflection that surfaced during a recent tapping meditation. As she continues to embrace the transitions of midlife and the complexities of a child-free path, she opens up about the subtle yet profound fears many may carry—ones that often go unspoken. From the fear of being alone to wondering about legacy, invisibility, and connection, Elizabeth gives these emotions a voice in hopes of releasing their quiet grip and creating space for peace, clarity, and possibility.

What you’ll learn:

• What tapping meditation is and why it’s especially powerful for emotional release
• The surprising fears that surfaced around being child-free
• How acknowledging quiet fears can shift your mindset
• Why giving language to internal emotions can help you move forward
• The beauty of redefining completeness and fulfillment

Questions answered in this episode:

• What is tapping meditation (EFT) and how does it work?
• How do subconscious fears impact healing and growth?
• What kinds of fears are common for women navigating life without children?
• Can naming your fears really change how you feel?
• What does a meaningful, child-free life look like beyond the traditional narrative?

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Elizabeth's husband Victor joins her behind the mic in this episode to share highlights from their recent cruise through the beautiful Croatia! From the stunning Adriatic coastline to meaningful conversations with new friends, this episode is a heartfelt reflection and reminder of what it means to explore the world as a childless couple, the immense and healing joy of intentional travel, and the unexpected comfort of meeting others on similar paths. With laughter, gratitude, and a few noodles in tow, they recount how Croatia exceeded all expectations.

What you’ll learn:

• How small-group travel fosters deeper, more intimate connections
• What it’s like to travel with friends as a couple without children
• Reflections on aging, activity, and redefining the future as a childless-by-chance couple
• The power of meeting like-minded travelers from around the world
• Why shoulder-season travel is often the best-kept secret
• Balancing group dynamics with personal exploration on a cruise
• How travel has shifted from an escape to a source of healing and perspective
• Emotional takeaways from spontaneous connections, including with another childless woman
• The benefits of traveling with parents who don’t center every conversation on their kids
• Why Croatia’s natural and historical beauty left such a lasting impact

Questions answered in this episode:

• What makes a small cruise ideal for couples without children?
• How does travel look different when you’re childless by chance?
• What’s it like to travel with friends who are parents but still prioritize adventure?
• How can travel help you process grief, growth, and purpose?
• What does Croatia offer that surprised Elizabeth and Victor the most?

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In this episode, Elizabeth shares how she is navigating life after the hard parts—the grief, the waiting, the heaviness. She opens up about the subtle, messy, and deeply personal process of moving forward, not through radical reinvention, but by embracing curiosity, rest, joy, and simplicity. Elizabeth offers a gentle, encouraging reminder that healing doesn't have to be linear, and the next chapter doesn't need a title yet.

What you'll learn:

• Why moving forward doesn’t have to be a grand transformation
• How to embrace joy without guilt after seasons of grief or waiting
• The power of curiosity in rediscovering yourself
• Why redefining yourself is a continuous, evolving process
• Simple, meaningful ways to reconnect with your authentic self
• How to find peace in the “in-between” seasons of life

Questions answered in this episode:

• What does it mean to move forward when you’re no longer in survival mode?
• How can we navigate the “waiting room” phase of life without losing ourselves?
• What does joy look like when it's no longer tied to achievement or productivity?
• How can we build a life that acknowledges loss without being defined by it?
• What if we don’t know what the next big chapter looks like yet?

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In part two of this powerful virtual fireside chat, Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss welcomes back a heartfelt conversation with an inspiring panel of women navigating the complexities of May—especially around Mother’s Day. With honesty and grace, they explore the many emotions that come with infertility, loss, and living a childless life. Together, they share rituals, creative practices, and wisdom about honoring their stories, identities, and emotions during triggering seasons. This episode is a compassionate reminder that you’re not alone—and your path forward matters.

What you’ll learn:

• Ways to reframe and personalize the meaning of Mother’s Day
• How creativity and journaling can support grief and healing
• How boundaries help protect emotional energy during triggering times
• What it means to explore labels like “childless” and “child-free”
• How community—virtual or local—creates powerful solidarity
• Suggestions for what to do with old IVF supplies or baby items
• Why it’s okay to “lurk” in support groups before you’re ready to share
• How to gently hold multiple emotions at once: grief and joy
• Real talk on when (and how) to consider ending the fertility journey
• Personal practices and rituals to reclaim joy and calm

Questions answered in this episode:

• How do you redefine May and Mother’s Day when they’re emotionally difficult?
• What does it look like to give yourself space and permission to feel?
• How can you use creative expression—like writing, cooking, or coloring—to heal?
• What do I do with leftover IVF medications and supplies?
• How do I know when it’s time to stop trying to conceive?
• Is it okay to change my mind about my path forward?
• Why does language like “child-free” or “childless” matter to some people?
• Where can I find community if I feel alone in this experience?
• How do we keep showing up for ourselves through grief and growth?

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Connect with the Guests:

Kathleen Guthrie Woods

• Website: KathleenGuthrieWoods.com
• Instagram: @kathleenguthriewoods
• Book: The Mother of All Dilemmas (Available on Amazon)

Carrie:

• Instagram: @bloomingwithcare
• TikTok: @bloomingwithcare
• Website & Newsletter: bloomingwithcare.com

Samantha De Cosmo:

• Instagram: @sam.decosmo
• Blog: apurposeinpain.com

In this special live fireside chat, Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss hosts a raw, heartfelt conversation with three remarkable women—Kathleen Guthrie Woods, Carrie, and Sam—as they explore life without children and the unique grief, healing, and freedom that accompany this journey. Set intentionally around Mother's Day and Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode offers deep validation, honest storytelling, and a powerful reminder: you are not alone. Whether you are grieving, redefining, or simply seeking community, this space welcomes all.

What you'll learn:

• The nuances of identifying as childless, child-free, or neither—and why language matters
• Why honoring your grief is key to reclaiming joy and agency
• The challenges and misconceptions around adoption and IVF
• How Mother’s Day can feel for those without children—and ideas for creating new rituals
• How creativity (writing, cooking, coloring, and more) can become powerful tools for healing
• Tips for setting boundaries and practicing self-compassion during emotional milestones

Questions answered in this episode:

• What does it mean to be “childless by chance, not by choice”?
• How can I cope with triggering comments like “just adopt” or “you’ll change your mind”?
• Is there a “right time” to stop pursuing parenthood? How do I know?
• What should I do with IVF supplies or baby items after loss?
• How can I support myself (or others) during Mother’s Day or similar grief triggers?

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Connect with the Guests:

Kathleen Guthrie Woods

• Website: KathleenGuthrieWoods.com
• Instagram: @kathleenguthriewoods
• Book: The Mother of All Dilemmas (Available on Amazon)

Carrie:

• Instagram: @bloomingwithcare
• TikTok: @bloomingwithcare
• Website & Newsletter: bloomingwithcare.com

Samantha De Cosmo:

• Instagram: @sam.decosmo
• Blog: apurposeinpain.com