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By Chance Avenue - Sacred Conversations Around Being Childless, by Chance

By Chance Avenue - Sacred Conversations Around Being Childless, by Chance

By: Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss
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Hi friend! If you are a woman who does not have kids by chance, not by choice, this message is for you. If you had an inner desire to be a mother but never came to reality, this show is for you. If you got married at a later stage in your life, or if you are single and you never had the chance to even try, this is for you. If you were a mama at some point and suffered a loss, this is for you too. And if you want to feel like you are a part of a community alongside other women who have walked a similar path, who understand you, who see you and feel you, this is where you belong. This show is called By Chance Podcast, a space for sacred conversations with women who don't have kids by chance, not by choice. We will have conversations with brave women who share their stories with grit and resilience. We'll also bring on different guests who will help us continue to grow and guide us in our healing journey. I will share with you tools that helped me thrive over the last 20 plus years, even when I battled years of depression and anxiety. Each week, I will bring you an episode that will be a reminder that our struggles, fears, and joys are universal threads that bind us all together. This show will be heartwarming, vulnerable, fun, and educational. I'm Elizabeth Tiglao Gus, your new friend and podcast host. I am a woman who has overcome 10 years of infertility struggles, including three years of failed adoptions. So trust me when I say, I see you. I am also a social entrepreneur and a life coach, focusing on helping women thrive rather than just survive. I help women who are ready to transform their lives, empower themselves to live with purpose and radical self love. If you are ready to be part of this community, come with me. Together let's celebrate life and being a woman without being defined by the rule of motherhood. And my hope is that you will feel seen, heard, and feel less alone when you tune in. Now it's time. Let's go. Let's go.Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • 62. How to Do Summer Differently When You Don't Have Kids
    Jun 24 2025

    In this episode, Elizabeth invites you into a gentler rhythm of summer, one that’s not defined by packed calendars, family vacations, or Instagram-worthy plans. Instead, she explores what it means to reclaim summer as a childless woman and lean into a slower, more intentional pace.

    From backyard mornings to feel-good K-dramas (need to know a good one? Send Elizabeth a DM and she'll give you recs!), Elizabeth shares what her version of summer joy looks like, and why giving yourself permission to rest isn’t laziness...it’s radical self-love. Whether you’re craving ease, healing, or simply a season that feels good for your soul, this episode reminds you that your summer gets to look like yours. No guilt, no pressure Just presence.


    What you’ll hear:



    • Why summer can look different (and freeing!) for those without kids


    • How to embrace ease instead of productivity


    • Ways to reclaim childlike joy through simple pleasures


    • The healing power of doing “nothing” and choosing slow living


    • Why K-dramas are Elizabeth’s new favorite mental escape (with recs!)


    • Encouragement to release the “shoulds” and follow what feels good




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    IG: @bychanceavenue

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    18 mins
  • 61. How My Husband Feels About Father’s Day Without Kids
    Jun 17 2025

    In this episode, Elizabeth sits down with her husband, Victor, for a raw and vulnerable conversation on Father’s Day. This is a day that carries quiet complexity for those navigating life without children and inside this episode, what starts as a casual check-in turns into a heartfelt exchange about grief, identity, societal pressure, and the silent ways men often carry loss.

    Victor opens up about how Father’s Day really feels for him, what it’s like to grieve without clear rituals or community, and the emotional weight of letting go of a dream he never thought he’d have to release. Together, they reflect on shared grief, gender differences in emotional processing, and how this journey continues to evolve over time.


    Whether you’re walking this path with a partner or solo, this episode offers insight, connection, and comfort in knowing that you are not alone—and that grief, while it may never fully disappear, can soften with time.


    In this episode, you'll hear:

    • A vulnerable, unscripted conversation about the emotional impact of Father’s Day
    • How men process childlessness differently than women—and why it’s often invisible
    • Why it’s important to acknowledge “silent grief”
    • Reflections on guilt, identity, and healing as a couple
    • The power of honest conversations in relationships


    Connect with Elizabeth:

    IG: @bychanceavenue

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    28 mins
  • 60. When Life Feels Messy and Real Talk About Hard Times
    Jun 10 2025

    In this heartfelt solo episode of By Chance, Elizabeth opens up about the tender reality of being in an emotional in-between space. She had a different topic planned—but instead, she chose to show up exactly as she is. No sugarcoating. No pretending. Just real talk about the loneliness, the inner questioning, and the quiet doubts that surface in the messy middle of life. If you’ve been feeling a little off lately or wondering if you’re doing enough, this episode is here to remind you: you are not alone.

    You’ll hear:

    • Why life doesn’t always feel like sunshine and joy, even after beautiful experiences
    • What it means to let things be messy instead of trying to fix them
    • How emotional fog and creative burnout show up (and how to name it)
    • The reality of working from home, running a business, and feeling isolated
    • What small rituals can ground you during tough seasons
    • Why rest, prayer, and gentle self-compassion matter more than ever
    • A loving reminder that this, too, shall pass

    Connect with Elizabeth:

    IG: @bychanceavenue

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    9 mins

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