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By Chance Avenue - Sacred Conversations Around Being Childless, by Chance

By Chance Avenue - Sacred Conversations Around Being Childless, by Chance

By: Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss
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Hi friend! If you are a woman who does not have kids by chance, not by choice, this message is for you. If you had an inner desire to be a mother but never came to reality, this show is for you. If you got married at a later stage in your life, or if you are single and you never had the chance to even try, this is for you. If you were a mama at some point and suffered a loss, this is for you too. And if you want to feel like you are a part of a community alongside other women who have walked a similar path, who understand you, who see you and feel you, this is where you belong. This show is called By Chance Podcast, a space for sacred conversations with women who don't have kids by chance, not by choice. We will have conversations with brave women who share their stories with grit and resilience. We'll also bring on different guests who will help us continue to grow and guide us in our healing journey. I will share with you tools that helped me thrive over the last 20 plus years, even when I battled years of depression and anxiety. Each week, I will bring you an episode that will be a reminder that our struggles, fears, and joys are universal threads that bind us all together. This show will be heartwarming, vulnerable, fun, and educational. I'm Elizabeth Tiglao Gus, your new friend and podcast host. I am a woman who has overcome 10 years of infertility struggles, including three years of failed adoptions. So trust me when I say, I see you. I am also a social entrepreneur and a life coach, focusing on helping women thrive rather than just survive. I help women who are ready to transform their lives, empower themselves to live with purpose and radical self love. If you are ready to be part of this community, come with me. Together let's celebrate life and being a woman without being defined by the rule of motherhood. And my hope is that you will feel seen, heard, and feel less alone when you tune in. Now it's time. Let's go. Let's go.Copyright 2025 Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • 84. What Support Looks Like in Survival Mode
    Nov 25 2025

    In this heartfelt episode, host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss shares a personal reflection on the importance of simplicity and gentle self-care during challenging times. She discusses her current season of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion, and emphasizes the necessity of support, both from others and oneself. Elizabeth offers practical examples of how small acts of kindness and self-compassion can make a significant difference when life feels overwhelming. This episode serves as a reminder to slow down, prioritize self-care, and acknowledge that it's okay to not have everything together.

    • A Gentle Check-In
    • Navigating Emotional Seasons
    • The Nature of Support
    • Survival Mode Realities
    • Self-Care and Simplicity
    • Permission to Be Imperfect
    • Closing Thoughts


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    IG: @bychanceavenue

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    9 mins
  • 83. Why the Words and Labels We Choose Matter on This Childless Journey
    Nov 18 2025

    In this heartfelt episode, host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss discusses the influence of labels and language on our self-perception and identity. Inspired by a podcast episode with Mel Robbins, Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of choosing empowering words to describe personal experiences, particularly for women without children. She explores how subtle shifts in language can change our emotional and physical responses, advocating for a mindful approach to self-description and storytelling. Elizabeth shares personal insights and encourages listeners to redefine their narratives to foster growth, healing, and a sense of possibility.

    • Introduction and Mel Robbins' Influence
    • The Power of Labels and Words
    • Personal Reflections on Labels
    • Impact of Labels on Identity and Health
    • Shifting the Narrative
    • Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    Connect with Elizabeth:

    IG: @bychanceavenue

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    15 mins
  • 82. The Things I Wish People Knew About This Childless Journey
    Nov 11 2025

    In this episode, host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss explores the nuanced experiences of women navigating life without children. By sharing personal reflections and common societal challenges, she covers topics such as feelings of invisibility in social settings, the assumption that children provide security in old age, and the deep grief that can accompany childlessness. Elizabeth also addresses the power of community, the importance of redefining family and coping mechanisms, and finding peace and validation within oneself. Listeners are reminded that they are not alone and that their experiences and stories are valid and significant.

    Introduction: The Shared Journey of Childlessness

    Addressing Common Questions: Who Will Care for You?

    Feeling Invisible in Social Settings

    Navigating Conversations That Circle Back to Kids

    Coping with Grief and Finding Healing

    Finding Connection and Understanding

    Conclusion: You Are Not Alone


    Connect with Elizabeth:

    IG: @bychanceavenue

    Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance

    Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest!

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    19 mins
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