For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

What if one moment of clarity could save your relationship? In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs sits down with Paul, a single father whose anger was slowly pushing away the people he loved most.

When his partner said life felt like “walking on eggshells,” Paul knew something had to change — and in just a few weeks, everything began to shift. This is a story of courage, self-awareness and the power of choosing a different path.

Key Takeaways:

-Constant stress and anger can make home life feel unsafe — even when there’s no physical violence

-Awareness is the first step to change; noticing the signs in your body helps you stop before you snap

-Small changes like pausing and using calm language (“That hurt”) can radically improve communication and connection

-Many people grew up in angry households and inherited poor emotional tools — but you can learn better ones

-Real progress doesn’t happen overnight. It’s gradual, honest, and deeply worth it.

-When someone says, “I have my best friend back,” that’s the real power of anger management

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Are you telling yourself you'll deal with your anger someday? In this compassionate yet eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs breaks down the five most common reasons people avoid anger management — and why those reasons might be keeping you stuck.

If you're ready to stop making excuses and start changing your life, this episode is your wake-up call.

Key Takeaways:

-Believing “anger management won’t work” often stems from past disappointments — but the right tools can lead to real, lasting change.

-You don’t need years of therapy — just a few minutes a day with the right strategies can start to shift your reactions in as little as 21 days.

-Anger management is personal — and modern programs, like Alastair’s, combine universal principles with one-on-one support and coaching.

-The true cost of not dealing with your anger isn’t financial — it’s measured in broken trust, damaged relationships and missed opportunities.

-Even if you’re not tech-savvy, online anger programs are designed to be simple and accessible, with support every step of the way.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever poured a drink to unwind, only to find yourself angrier than before? In this eye-opening episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the often misunderstood connection between alcohol and anger.

Whether you're a casual drinker or someone who struggles with outbursts after a night out, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a practical path forward.

Key Takeaways:

-Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and impairs judgment, making you more likely to lash out in anger

-If you already have unresolved anger, alcohol can act like gasoline on a fire — intensifying aggression and conflict

-Drinking doesn’t cause abusive behavior, but it does magnify emotions that are already beneath the surface.

Recognising your personal limits and planning ahead can help prevent alcohol-fueled arguments

-If drinking regularly leads to regret or outbursts, it may be time to reconsider its role in your life.

-True change comes from looking inward — at the beliefs, habits and triggers that drive your anger — not just cutting back on alcohol.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enroll in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

What if 30 years of anger could be transformed in just five weeks?

In this powerful episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares the remarkable story of Raymond, a man whose volatile temper nearly ended his marriage — until one turning point helped him change everything.

If you've ever felt like your anger is out of control, Raymond's journey will give you hope, practical tools, and a reminder that it’s never too late to change.

Key Takeaways:

-Even deeply rooted anger can be overcome — Raymond went from yelling five or six times a day to raising his voice just once in five weeks

-Understanding that you can control your anger, rather than it controlling you, is a game-changer

-Simple strategies like taking a Time-Out and not reacting immediately can prevent arguments and rebuild connection

-Anger often has deep roots in past experiences, but healing and change are still possible at any stage of life

-Online anger management programs offer the flexibility and repetition needed to reinforce lasting change

-When you manage your anger, the effects ripple through your entire life — from your marriage to your workplace to your sense of peace.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Have you ever promised yourself you'd stay calm—only to find anger rising before you even realised it? In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs shares three powerful, easy-to-apply steps that will help you recognise, defuse and communicate through anger before it takes control.

If you're tired of the regret that follows angry outbursts, these practical tools can help you shift from reaction to intention, and start creating more peaceful moments in your relationships.

Key Takeaways:

-Anger often builds slowly—learning to recognise the early warning signs gives you time to respond instead of react.

-Your thoughts fuel your emotions; changing your self-talk helps reduce anger and increase perspective.

-Clear, respectful communication is key to resolving tension and building deeper trust in relationships.

-Expressing feelings with calm honesty can open the door to connection instead of conflict.

-These three steps—awareness, reframing and communication—can be practiced daily and lead to lasting emotional change.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

This episode dives into one of the most difficult but essential topics: understanding how abuse and violence may show up in your life—and how to end the cycle. Anger expert Alastair Duhs speaks with clarity and compassion about behaviors that cause harm, whether through words, control, silence or physical actions.

If you’ve ever questioned the impact of your anger or wondered if your actions have crossed a line, this episode offers a courageous path forward.

Key Takeaways:

-Abuse isn't just physical—it can be verbal, emotional, psychological or sexual, and all forms can leave deep, lasting harm.

-If you’ve used anger to intimidate, control or manipulate, it’s time to look honestly at your behavior and its impact.

-Alastair explains why abuse and violence are the same—because both hurt and control others, often in invisible but devastating ways.

-Taking responsibility for your actions is not a sign of weakness—it’s a brave step toward healing and change.

-True transformation begins with clarity, accountability and the willingness to break old patterns.

-Help is available, and no matter what your past has looked like, it’s never too late to build respectful, safe, and loving relationships.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

Arguments in relationships often start small but quickly spiral into deep disconnection. In this episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs reveals why conflict escalates with the people we love most—and how to stop it before it starts.

With three powerful, practical techniques, Alastair guides you to shift from reaction to response, helping you transform your most difficult moments into opportunities for connection.

Key Takeaways:

-Anger is one of the biggest obstacles to resolving conflict—but even small changes can prevent regretful blow-ups.

-Trying to “win” an argument often sacrifices what truly matters: your connection and mutual respect.

-Shifting your mindset from defending your position to understanding your partner creates space for healing and collaboration.

-The “Magic Six Hours” technique helps couples intentionally invest in their relationship, building trust before conflict arises.

-Conflict is inevitable—but how you handle it determines whether it brings you closer or drives you apart.

-Support is available if you feel stuck—you're not alone, and real change is possible.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System

For more information on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

In this heartfelt episode, anger expert Alastair Duhs explores the emotional toll of anger—not just on the people around you, but on your own sense of self.

If you’ve ever whispered an apology and still felt the weight of guilt, this episode will help you understand why anger shows up and how you can begin to break free from its grip.

Real stories of transformation offer hope, showing that lasting change begins with awareness and a simple, courageous first step.

Key Takeaways:

-Anger is natural—but when left unchecked, it can damage trust, create fear and leave emotional scars.

-Even well-intended apologies can feel empty if the deeper patterns of anger aren't addressed.

-Children are especially vulnerable to the emotional impact of anger, which can affect their confidence and sense of safety.

-Stories from real people like Nathan and Peter show that no matter your past, healing and change are absolutely possible.

-Breaking the anger cycle doesn’t require perfection—just awareness, reflection and the willingness to respond differently.

-You can begin to rebuild trust and connection with the people you love starting today.

Links referenced in this episode:

angersecrets.com — Learn more about anger management

angersecrets.com/training — Watch the free training: Control Your Anger in 7 Days

angersecrets.com/course — Enrol in The Complete Anger Management System