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A Woman's Playbook for Dating

A Woman's Playbook for Dating

By: Chavonne Lee
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Take your dating game to the championship level with "A Woman's Playbook for Dating" - a podcast blending the strategies of NFL football and the dating game. New episodes every Sunday!

Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/a-woman-s-playbook-for-dating--6033561/support.Copyright Chavonne Lee
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Episodes
  • Episode 13: Game Quarters - Pacing the Plays in Love
    Jul 20 2025
    Episode Summary:In this episode of A Woman’s Playbook for Dating, we break down the four quarters of a football game as the perfect metaphor for pacing your love life. From kickoff chemistry to commitment clarity, each quarter represents a key stage in how relationships develop — or fall apart.If you’ve ever rushed into love, stayed too long in confusion, or ignored the score while hoping for a comeback, this episode will help you slow down, play smarter, and trust your internal clock.Love is a long game — and you’ve got the playbook to win it.

    What You’ll Learn:
    • The emotional dynamics of each “quarter” in a dating relationship

    • Why the first quarter is about curiosity, not commitment

    • How to use halftime to reflect and recalibrate

    • The role of consistency and clear communication in quarters two and three

    • When to make it official — or walk away — in the fourth quarter

    • How to stay present and protect your peace through each phase

    Key Quotes:
    • “You don’t win a championship in the first quarter — and you don’t win love there either.”

    • “If you're stuck in the second quarter with no progress, it's time to check the scoreboard.”

    • “The right person will match your pace, not rush your clock or delay the play.”

    Power Takeaways:
    • ✨ Don’t confuse early chemistry with long-term compatibility

    • ⏱️ Halftime is powerful — pause and reevaluate, don’t push through blindly

    • 🧠 Play with awareness, not just emotion

    • 🏆 Real love takes all four quarters — pace like a pro

    📲 Join the Squad:📸 Loved this episode? Screenshot and share it on Instagram — tag us @Womansplaybookfordating

    🗣️ Got a franchise fail or win? DM us or email womensplaybook4dating@gmail.com with your dating dilemmas — you might be featured in a future “coach’s challenge”!

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    12 mins
  • Episode 12: The Franchise Player - What Makes Him Worth the Contract
    Jul 13 2025
    Episode Summary:In this power-packed episode of A Woman’s Playbook for Dating, we’re breaking down the real definition of a franchise player — not just someone who scores big in the beginning, but someone worth building your whole relationship game around.We’re separating the highlight reels from the real deal, showing you how to recognize emotional maturity, consistency, and commitment — and reminding you that YOU are the franchise, too.Stop handing out long-term contracts to temporary players. Let’s draft better, date smarter, and protect our hearts like we’re running a championship team.

    What You’ll Learn:
    • What actually makes someone a franchise player in dating

    • The difference between chemistry and character

    • Why consistency > charm when it comes to commitment

    • 7 signs you’ve got a man worth building with

    • How to stop romanticizing potential and start recognizing patterns

    • Why knowing your own worth is step one to attracting someone who’s ready to match it

    Key Quotes:
    • "Franchise status isn’t earned in the first quarter — it’s proven over all four."

    • "Stop giving franchise energy to men who don’t even show up for practice."

    • "Franchise women don’t chase players — they build teams."

    Power Play Questions:Ask yourself:
    • Does he show up consistently — even when it’s not easy?

    • Is he emotionally mature, or just good at conversation?

    • Does this relationship feel peaceful or performative?

    • Am I showing myself franchise-level love?

    📲 Join the Squad:📸 Loved this episode? Screenshot and share it on Instagram — tag us @Womansplaybookfordating

    🗣️ Got a franchise fail or win? DM us or email womensplaybook4dating@gmail.com with your dating dilemmas — you might be featured in a future “coach’s challenge”!

    ⭐ Don’t forget to follow and leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts🎧 Listen Now On:Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Amazon Music | Stitcher🔔 Hit Follow so you never miss an episode of game-winning dating advice.

    Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/a-woman-s-playbook-for-dating--6033561/support.
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    10 mins
  • Episode 11: Navigating the Playing Field
    Jul 6 2025
    In this episode of A Woman’s Playbook for Dating, we’re swapping player positions for field positions — breaking down what different parts of the football field represent in the world of dating. Whether you’re stuck at the 50-yard line in the “talking stage,” pacing the sideline in a situationship, or one yard from the end zone wondering what’s taking so long, this episode is your map for knowing where you stand — and how to move forward with clarity and confidence.Because dating isn’t just about who you're seeing — it’s about where you’re standing on the field. And today, we’re calling plays that get you into the end zone.

    What You’ll Learn:
    • How the 50-yard line represents early-stage situations that feel like more than they are

    • Why the Red Zone can be a trap if you confuse proximity with progress

    • What to do when you're stuck at the Goal Line with someone scared of commitment

    • How the Sideline shows up in situationships — and how to get off the bench

    • Why the End Line isn't failure, but an opportunity to reset

    • How hitting the Goal Posts (small wins, strong boundaries) builds momentum

    Power Takeaways:
    • If you don’t know where you stand on the field, you can’t move the ball forward.

    • Don’t confuse activity with progress — proximity to the end zone isn’t the same as scoring.

    • Walking away from the wrong field is often the strongest play you’ll ever call.

    • Field goals count too — protect your peace, enforce your standards, and celebrate every step.

    📲 Join the Team:📸 Share your favorite quote or takeaway from this episode on Instagram and tag us: @womansplaybookfordating
    🗣️ DM us or email womensplaybook4dating@gmail.com with your dating dilemmas — you might be featured in a future “coach’s challenge”!
    ⭐ Leave a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it helps more MVP women like you find the playbook.

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    12 mins

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