Welcome back Night Owls! Let's be real, the journey of intimacy post-children is like navigating a maze blindfolded. This episode peels back the curtain on the challenges and triumphs of reigniting passion, embracing body positivity after childbirth, and the delicate dance of libidos that can sometimes be out of sync. We also don't shy away from the touchier subjects, such as society's evolving views on women's sexuality and the role of adult entertainment in modern relationships. It's a heartfelt exploration of love's intricate layers, guaranteed to resonate with anyone who's ever had to balance a busy life with the need for closeness and warmth.

(00:00) - Sex and Life Updates With Wine

(07:51) - Postpartum Intimacy and Body Confidence

(13:37) - Navigating Differences in Sex Drive

(21:06) - Navigating Intimacy Post-Children

(25:22) - Nurturing Intimacy in Relationships

(33:02) - Navigating Intimacy in Relationships

(43:49) - Navigating Porn and Intimacy in Relationships

Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.

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Hey Night Owls! Join me, Bella Messina, in Episode 6 as I embark on a solo journey this Mother's Day, reflecting on the wonders and hurdles of motherhood. I'm sharing five heartfelt messages I'd send back to my first-time mum self, hoping to connect and inspire fellow mums with my experiences. It's an intimate episode, where we celebrate the essence of motherhood and the emotional transformations it ignites. From discussing the profound love that reshapes our lives to the societal pressures that accompany this new identity, this episode is an ode to mothers everywhere.

(05:20) 1. You’ll learn true love (and the challenges that come with it)

(12:03) 2. Prepare for & embrace change

(17:40) 3. Let go of ego and pride

(24:00) 4. Don’t forget your relationship

(30:14) 5. Stop creating unrealistic expectations

Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.

UPB Socials:

Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast

Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast

Facebook Community: Here

Watch on Youtube: Here

Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com

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Hey Night Owls! Welcome back to Up Past Bedtime. In Episode 5, we’re diving into all things ‘Parasocial Parenting’.

Navigate with us through the complex terrain of parenting and privacy in the age of social media. We discuss the fine line between sharing our journey as parents and protecting our children's right to a private childhood, shedding light on the thoughtful decisions we make to safeguard their experiences. Hear about the measures we take to shield their identities, from setting firm boundaries on the content we share to rejecting certain daycare apps. Our chat also takes a turn into the less visible pressures, including the weight of external judgments and the art of handling unsolicited opinions while in the public eye.

(12:49) - Parenting and Social Media Privacy

(17:55) - Setting Boundaries for Online Child Privacy

(24:49) - Navigating Parenting in the Public Eye

(34:12) - Social Media and Child Privacy

(43:32) - Privacy and Regrets in Social Media

(46:49) - Navigating Online Criticism and Recommendations

Adrian’s recommendation of the week: Royal Otis - Linger Cover

Bella’s recommendation of the week: Bridgerton Watch/Rewatch

Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.

UPB Socials:

Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast

Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast

Facebook Community: Here

Watch on Youtube: Here

Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com

Bella’s Socials:

Instagram: @bellsmessina

Tik Tok: @bellsmessina

Adrian’s Socials:

Instagram: @adrianmessina

Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.