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how to stop comparing yourself and become your own IT girl

how to stop comparing yourself and become your own IT girl

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In this episode of The Wavy Pod, Lucia shares her observations as a content creator, noting the detrimental cycle of comparison leading to jealousy, burnout, and a lack of originality. Lucia argues for the importance of embracing one's uniqueness and generating content from a place of authenticity rather than imitation.


She stresses the significance of appreciating one's current life, utilizing jealousy as a tool for self-growth, and breaking free from the victim mindset to take control of one's happiness and success. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Lucia guides listeners on how to be their own 'It girl' by focusing on self-appreciation and genuine self-expression.

The episode wraps up with actionable journal prompts to assist listeners in reflecting on their unique qualities and envisioning their ideal future selves, free from comparison.


✨ P.S. please excuse the sound as we were having technical difficulties and my mic stopped recording 🥲


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Chapters 〰️

00:00 Intro

01:17 The Vicious Cycle of Comparison, Jealousy, and Burnout

03:51 Embracing Your Unique Potential and Letting Go of Scarcity Mindset

06:00 Transforming Jealousy into Inspiration and Gratitude

08:04 The Reality of Social Media vs. Real Life

09:23 Breaking Free from the Comparison Trap

12:18 Creating Your Own Path: Authenticity and Self-Belief

13:41 Overcoming the Victim Mindset and Embracing Abundance

18:07 The Power of Gratitude and the Lucky Girl Syndrome

19:20 Journal Prompts for Self-Reflection and Growth

21:24 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

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