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guyslikeus

guyslikeus

By: Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
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Two friends. Two cities. Two perspectives on what it means to thrive. Guys Like Us is a podcast about the pursuit of a good life—messy, meaningful, and real. Hosted by Marc in New York and Paul in Vienna, it’s where two longtime friends reflect on life, work, relationships, and the moments that shape us. Each week, we bring a story with a point. Sometimes it’s funny. Sometimes it’s a little raw. But it always comes from a place of curiosity, honesty, and earned perspective. We believe a good life isn’t just about pleasure—it’s about presence. It’s about friendship that’s been built and maintained across continents. It’s about failures that taught us more than wins. It’s about food and wine, sure—but also doubt, joy, regret, growth, and showing up anyway. This is a podcast for people trying to live fully—whatever that means to them. One story at a time.© 2025 Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter Social Sciences
Episodes
  • guyslikeus EP04: an ode to boys' weekend and why they matter
    Aug 2 2025

    In this episode of Guys Like Us, hosts Marc and Paul delve into the significance of guys weekends, exploring the dynamics of male friendships and the importance of vulnerability in conversations. They share personal anecdotes about their own experiences during guys weekends, discussing the balance between light-hearted banter and deeper discussions. The conversation highlights the need for structured planning to ensure a successful gathering, while also emphasizing the joy and camaraderie that comes from reconnecting with old friends. Ultimately, the episode serves as a reminder of the value of male friendships and the importance of creating spaces for honest conversations.

    Key talkeaways:

    • The decline of male friendships is alarming, with many men reporting fewer close friends.
    • Guys weekends serve as a vital opportunity to rekindle friendships and bond over shared experiences.
    • The dynamics of male friendships can shift based on the length of the relationship and shared history.
    • Deep conversations often emerge later in the evening during guys weekends, revealing personal struggles and insights.
    • The ideal size for a guys weekend is around six to eight people to maintain intimacy and connection.
    • Activities during guys weekends can range from cooking and eating to watching movies and playing games.
    • Vulnerability is often a challenge for men, impacting the depth of conversations during gatherings.
    • Humor and light-hearted banter are essential for creating a relaxed atmosphere during guys weekends.
    • Planning and structure are important for ensuring a successful guys weekend experience.
    • The importance of discussing personal issues and feelings among friends can lead to deeper connections.
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    54 mins
  • guyslikeus: travelling with kids and other joys of life
    Jul 27 2025

    In this episode of 'Guys Like Us', hosts Paul and Marc delve into the complexities of vacationing with children. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the challenges of traveling with young kids, and explore the balance between adult needs and family time. The conversation covers various topics including destination choices, accommodation preferences, dining options, and the importance of being present during family vacations. The hosts reflect on their own childhood vacations and the lessons learned as parents, ultimately emphasizing the value of creating meaningful experiences with their children.

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    57 mins
  • guyslikeus: an attempt to define the good life, what is it and how to live it. to be continued ...
    Jul 19 2025

    In this episode of 'Guys Like Us', Marc and Paul explore the concept of the 'good life', discussing their personal experiences, evolving perspectives, and the balance between pleasure and purpose. They delve into the importance of prioritizing meaningful moments, the role of materialism, and the pursuit of experiences that enrich life. The conversation also touches on the tensions between individual fulfillment and collective responsibility, as well as the significance of being present in the moment. During a speed round, they examine various aspects of life, ultimately emphasizing the importance of aligning one's life with personal priorities and finding joy in everyday experiences.

    Key Takeaways

    The good life is a subjective experience that evolves over time.
    Pleasure and meaningful experiences are central to living well.
    Materialism can play a role, but it's not the sole focus of a good life.
    Friendship and community enhance the experience of the good life.
    Prioritizing moments and being present is crucial for fulfillment.
    The pursuit of pleasure should be balanced with purpose.
    Life's priorities can shift based on personal circumstances and stages.
    Experiences that challenge the intellect can be as fulfilling as sensory pleasures.
    It's important to design a life that aligns with what brings joy.
    The good life is about seeking beautiful moments and connections.

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    54 mins
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