• The Raccoon That Changed My Life
    Jul 27 2025

    In this episode, I share a personal story about how an unexpected visitor—a raccoon—transformed my mindset and helped me find peace during one of the darkest times in my life.

    At a point when I felt lost, ugly, and disconnected, this wild creature became a symbol of resilience, adaptability, and balance. Tune in as I talk about the power of life’s signs and how sometimes, it’s the most unexpected things that can bring clarity and guide us toward growth.

    Key Takeaways:

    • The Power of Adaptability: Like the raccoon, we all have the ability to adapt, no matter the circumstances.

    • Resilience in the Face of Chaos: Resilience isn’t about perfection; it’s about bouncing back and finding peace in the chaos.

    • Embracing Life’s Signs: Life sends us signs in the most unexpected forms. Recognizing them can unlock a path toward clarity and inner strength.

    • Self-Reflection and Change: Just as I saw a shift in my own mood with the return of Rocky, we can all find ways to improve our mindset and well-being by paying attention to what life presents to us.

    Pain Points Addressed:

    • Feeling lost or stuck in life.

    • Experiencing inner chaos or mental instability.

    • Struggling with finding peace or direction.

    • The challenge of adapting to life’s unpredictable circumstances.

    Solutions/Key Takeaways:

    • Learn how adaptability can bring you peace.

    • Recognize life’s signs as opportunities for growth.

    • Embrace resilience and inner strength during tough times.

    • Understand the transformative power of self-reflection and being open to the unexpected.

    If you’ve had an unexpected sign or moment of clarity like mine, I want to hear about it.

    Drop a comment, share your story, or shoot me an email at info@chichitalks.com.

    Let’s embrace the lessons life has for us together. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

    #Resilience #LifeLessons #RaccoonStory #FindingPeace #MindsetShift #Adaptability #PersonalGrowth #SignsFromTheUniverse #LifeCoaching #SelfReflection #Transformation

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    3 mins
  • Why 'Millionaire Mindset' is Motivational Masturbation
    Jun 21 2025
    In this episode, I'm calling out the biggest bullsh*t phrase in business advice: "millionaire mindset." This overused, meaningless buzzword has infected every corner of personal development, and it's time someone said what we're all thinking. I break down why this term is complete garbage, what "mindset" actually means when you strip away the guru nonsense, and give you real frameworks for wealth building that go beyond wishful thinking. Get ready for some unfiltered truth about cognitive architecture, wealth systems, and why the truly successful don't rely on motivational mantras to make money. Key Takeaways:
    1. "Millionaire mindset" is a diluted, meaningless phrase that reduces complex wealth-building to magical thinking and positive affirmations without any actual strategy or systems.
    1. Real wealth thinking is about cognitive architecture - developing systematic mental frameworks like "opportunity recognition software," "risk assessment protocols," and "value creation instincts" that help you make strategic decisions consistently.
    #MillionaireMindsetMyth #WealthBuilding #EntrepreneurMindset #BusinessStrategy #UnfuckablePodcast
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    3 mins
  • Silent Authority: How to Control the Room Without Saying a Word
    May 27 2025

    In this powerful episode, Kimberly Ann Hawes explores the 7 silent triggers that define the UnF🍸ckable mindset.

    From the art of stillness to the whisper effect, she unpacks the non-verbal tools that allow women to own any space they enter—without chasing attention or raising their voices. If you've ever wanted to master quiet confidence, this is your blueprint.

    Prepare to shift how you move, speak, and show up.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Stillness creates presence and quiet dominance

    • Pausing your response gives you authority

    • Subtle eye contact is a psychological power move

    • Social proof doesn’t need to be loud—elite name-dropping works

    • Lowering your voice increases attention and impact

    • Status is signaled best without labels

    • Silence, when mastered, becomes your greatest ally

    #UnfuckableMindset #SilentPower #KimberlyAnnHawes #PowerMoves #FeminineAuthority #ConfidenceWithoutWords #HighValueWoman #QuietConfidence #EmotionalIntelligence #BossEnergy #PodcastForWomen #StillnessIsPower

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    4 mins
  • African Time & Building a Business on My Own Rhythm
    May 23 2025

    In this episode of Six Figures My Ass, I dive into the misunderstood truth behind African Time and how I unknowingly built my entire lifestyle and business around an ancestral rhythm that actually works.

    I share how I went from feeling guilty about my natural flow — waking up late, working during my creative hours, and ignoring the clock — to honoring my spiritual schedule and building businesses that support that.

    This is for anyone who’s ever been called lazy, unmotivated, or “not serious” — when in reality, your timing is sacred.

    Two Key Takeaways:

    1. Time doesn’t have to be linear or rigid to be productive. African Time is rooted in presence, alignment, and energy — and it's a model for sustainable success.
    2. You can build a six-figure business without following hustle culture rules. There are proven ways to create digital income, design your day, and build your life around your own rhythm.

    This episode helps creatives, late bloomers, and spiritual entrepreneurs finally release the guilt of not fitting into 9-to-5 systems and gives them a new framework for building wealth and freedom on their own time — rooted in ancestral wisdom, not capitalism.

    #AfricanTime #SixFiguresMyAss #SoulLedBusiness #AntiHustleCulture #AlignedEntrepreneur

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    6 mins
  • Soft-Spoken, Strong Aura: How to Own the Room Without Raising Your Voice
    May 18 2025

    Cappie in the City is where quiet power meets city energy. In this episode, Soft-Spoken, Strong Aura, I explore how to speak with grace, authority, and presence—without ever needing to raise my voice.

    From intentional pacing to powerful language shifts, this guide helps women use their voices as instruments of confidence and calm leadership.

    Whether you're walking into a meeting, setting boundaries, or simply practicing presence, this episode shows you how to embody elegance through every word.

    Top Takeaways
    • Speaking slowly and intentionally can instantly boost presence and authority.

    • Language upgrades like “Thank you for your patience” shift the tone from apologetic to empowered.

    • Silence isn’t weakness—it’s a strategic tool for calm, confident communication.

    • Mirror practice helps reinforce self-belief, posture, and boundary-setting in real time.

    • You don’t need to be loud to be powerful. You just need to sound like you belong.

    #SoftSpokenStrongAura

    #FeminineEnergy

    #VoiceOfPower

    #ElegantConfidence

    #CappieInTheCity

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    6 mins
  • Rewriting Your Mondays
    May 12 2025

    In this episode of Rewriting Your Mondays, we unpack the real reason Mondays feel so heavy—and it’s not your alarm clock.

    If you’ve ever opened your eyes on a Monday and instantly felt dread, this episode is your wake-up call to reclaim your peace, your power, and your pace.

    We explore how to Zen the F*ck Out without quitting your job or booking a one-way ticket to Bali (unless you’re ready). Instead, you’ll learn how to shift your energy with micro-rituals, powerful prompts, and the mindset that transforms chaos into calm.

    Spoiler: Becoming Unfuckable starts with calming your Mondays.

    Visit Unfuckable and click the Zen tab for more.

    #MondayMotivation #ZenTheFuckOut #Unfuckable #MindsetReset #PeaceOverProductivity #CalmNotChaos #SelfCareSunday #EnergyShift #RitualsThatHeal #EmotionalWellness #RewritingYourMondays #SoftLife #SpiritualDiscipline #MindfulLiving #HealingVibes

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    3 mins
  • Corny but Powerful: The Phrase That Changed Everything
    Mar 22 2025

    In today’s short but powerful episode, we begin with an uplifting audio clip that introduces a simple yet transformative daily practice: repeating the phrase “I believe something wonderful is going to happen to me.” It might sound a little corny, but the impact? Undeniable.

    Kimberly dives into the power of intentional language and how setting your expectations at the start and end of each day can completely shift your energy, perspective, and outcomes. From unexpected blessings to subtle shifts in mindset, you’ll hear how this one belief can lead to small miracles and moments of alignment throughout your day.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • A simple affirmation that can shift your entire day
    • Why your mindset is the foundation for manifestation
    • How expecting good things changes how you show up in the world
    • Personal insights into aligning your thoughts with the outcomes you desire

    Try This Challenge: Tonight before bed and again tomorrow morning, say: “I believe something wonderful is going to happen to me.” Then pay attention. Notice the shifts. Journal about what happens. You might be surprised at what unfolds.

    Mentioned in this Episode:

    • Daily affirmation practice
    • Subconscious programming
    • Law of expectation

    Connect with Kimberly: Instagram | TikTok | Website | Newsletter

    If this episode inspired you, share it with someone who needs a little boost of belief today—and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

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    4 mins
  • The Unfuckable Journey – Starting Late, But Starting Strong
    Mar 11 2025

    In this episode: We’re diving deep into the idea of starting your journey later in life and why it’s never too late to become unfuckable. If you’ve ever felt like you’re playing catch-up, healing from trauma, or just trying to survive while others were thriving, this episode is for you. We’ll talk about how to acknowledge your strength, redefine success, and build an unfuckable mindset that will make you unstoppable.Key Takeaways:

    1. You’re not behind. While others were free to grow, you were fighting to survive. That’s not your fault—your path was harder, but it made you stronger.
    2. Redefine success. Forget societal timelines. Your success doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You get to define what it means for you.
    3. Start small, but start now. You don’t need a 10-step plan. Just take one step forward. Then another. Progress, not perfection.
    4. Build your unfuckable mindset. Shift from survival mode to thrival mode. Stop apologizing for your past and focus on what you can control.
    5. Surround yourself with the right people. Not everyone deserves a seat at your table. Find people who lift you up and believe in your potential.
    6. Embrace the journey. Starting late isn’t a disadvantage—it’s an opportunity. Every setback is just a setup for a comeback.

    Quotable Moments:

    • "Your survival shows your strength. Your resilience is your superpower."
    • "You’re not late to life—you’re right on time for yourjourney."
    • "Every setback is just a setup for a comeback."

    Resources Mentioned:

    • The Unfuckable Code: A mindset shift from survival to thrival.
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    6 mins