Does accepting a check from Mom and Dad mean surrendering control of your entire wedding? John and Nicole rip into the ultimate “Big Day” power struggle—money strings, guest-list guilt, dress disputes, and whether you actually owe your parents anything once you’re grown. If you’re planning a wedding—or arguing about one—prepare to pick a side.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00  Obligations 101: why John says you owe only spouse and children3:30  Parents footing the bill: blessing, bribe, or both?7:45  Setting boundaries early vs “bridezilla” accusations10:50  Big bash vs intimate vows: whose dream wins?14:40  Guest-list guilt trips—inviting cousins you’ve never met18:25  Budget bombs: $50 k for one day or invest it instead?22:10  “This is my day,” says Mom—narcissism or inclusion?26:35  Traditions people hate but still follow (dress, speeches, seating)31:00  Divorced parents & step-families: navigating nuclear drama35:45  Saying “no” gracefully—scripts that stop manipulation39:20  Post-wedding regrets & lessons the internet never tells you41:15  Rapid-fire takeaways & next-episode teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.