If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why is my child pulling away from me?” or “Why won’t my teenager talk to me anymore?”—this episode is for you.

I’m sharing the story of how my own son almost cut me out of his life—and what I had to confront in myself to stop the damage and start healing our relationship. This isn’t about blame or shame. It’s about being honest with ourselves as moms about the environment we’ve created, the patterns we’ve passed down, and the trust that might’ve been broken along the way.

You’ll hear what I’ve learned from discipline styles rooted in survival, how hostility and control pushed my son away, and the exact steps I took to repair what I broke. We’ll talk about what real empathy sounds like, why “I’m sorry” isn’t always enough, and how to move from pride to peace—one honest moment at a time.

If you’re scared your child is shutting down or wants nothing to do with you, this episode will give you tools, language, and hope for what can still be rebuilt.

Next steps:

Looking for a community of support? The Legacy Changers Lounge is where I share the untaught parenting skills most of us never got. It’s not fluffy advice—it’s real tools to stop repeating old patterns and raise kids who don’t have to recover from their childhood. If you’re ready for less stress at home and a stronger bond with your kids, come join us inside.

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Read "The Real Pain of Stress: What To Do When Bubble Baths Won't Fix It." In the book, I provide the 4 steps that helped me get out of survival mode and eliminate my biggest stressors at the root cause. https://therealpainofstress.com

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Disclaimers:

This content is NOT SPONSORED.

I am not a licensed therapist, doctor, or mental health professional. The insights and strategies I share are based on my personal experiences and years of coaching. They’re meant to guide, inspire, and support your journey, but they’re not a substitute for professional advice.

If you’re experiencing mental health challenges, please seek help from a licensed therapist or healthcare provider.

I pray this blesses your home.