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Why Love Feels So Hard with CPTSD (And How to Change That)

Why Love Feels So Hard with CPTSD (And How to Change That)

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Does love feel overwhelming, triggering, or just plain scary? If you have Complex PTSD, your nervous system might be treating intimacy like a threat, even when you desperately want connection.

In this episode, I break down why CPTSD makes love feel so complicated, what's actually happening in your nervous system when someone gets close, and the real (messy, non-linear) path to trusting love again.

You'll learn:

  • What CPTSD actually is and how it's different from PTSD
  • Why your body goes into alarm mode when someone shows you genuine love
  • How childhood attachment wounds show up in adult relationships
  • Practical steps to start rewiring your nervous system for safety in love
  • What to do when you get emotionally triggered by your partner
  • How to support someone you love who has CPTSD

This episode is for you if:

  • You pull away when someone gets too close
  • You're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop in relationships
  • You know you deserve love but your body doesn't feel safe receiving it
  • You love someone with trauma and want to understand how to help

Whether you're struggling to accept love yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a bit of hope and concrete tools for healing.

Resources mentioned:

Original blog post: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/a-cptsd-therapist-shares-tips-to-accept-love-as-a-complex-ptsd-survivor

PTSD vs CPTSD: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/ptsd-vs-cptsd-trauma-therapy

Free Attachment Guide: https://www.subscribepage.com/attachment-style-guide

Connect with the Reclaim Therapy Team: https://www.reclaimtherapy.org

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