Think your teen is just being lazy? Think again.

Procrastination isn’t laziness—it’s often rooted in fear, emotional overwhelm, or high expectations.

In this episode, host Aaron speaks with counsellor Paul Lim to unpack why teens struggle to get started. Paul explains that procrastination is a symptom, not the root—often tied to self-doubt and pressure.

He challenges parents to reflect: could our own fears or need for control be shaping the parent-child dynamic? When we project anxiety, we risk turning parenting into a transactional or controlling relationship.

To truly support our children, we must first work on ourselves.

Tune in to learn how to break the cycle and build trust, connection, and healthy habits that last.

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