Episodes

  • FAMILY SCANDALS

    FAMILY SCANDALS
    Dec 23 2025

    This week, the girls are wishing you a very merry Christmas Eve Eve and celebrating with a lineup of festive chaos. They’re diving into your biggest holiday pet peeves, the top dishes that should be on every seasonal table, and some piping-hot family scandals to sip on with your hot chocolate. There’s a lot of ground to cover — from potlucks with absolutely no rhyme or reason to hiding a family member’s true identity — making this the perfect mix of cozy, dramatic, and completely unhinged holiday energy.


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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • HOLIDAY HOT TAKES

    HOLIDAY HOT TAKES
    Dec 16 2025

    This week, Jaci and Chelsey debate your hottest Christmas takes, because the holiday is approaching fast and there is so much to discuss. You sent in everything from whether strangers — or even straight-up enemies — should be welcomed into festive gatherings for the sake of holiday cheer, to whether wish lists are turning gift-giving into a consumerist chore instead of something magical. With plenty more cozy controversy sprinkled in, this episode is all about questioning the traditions we’ve accepted and deciding what actually makes the season feel meaningful.



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    58 mins
  • THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME

    THE GIFT THAT HAUNTS ME
    Dec 12 2025
    This week, the girls are chatting about the best part of this season — the gifts — until they’re not so great anymore. They dive into your submissions about the worst presents you’ve ever received, and we’re not just talking about a $5 gift card to a store you’d never step foot in. There are gag gifts gone wrong, destroyed family heirlooms, and even stories involving dead pets… yes, you read that right. This episode will make you feel genuinely grateful if all Santa brings you this year is coal.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Nurture Life: head to NurtureLife.com/WWS and use code WWS for 55% off your first order PLUS free shippingStoryworth: Right now, save $15 or more during their Holiday sale when you go to storyworth.com/whatwesaid.Columbia: Head to columbia.com to get your hands on an Amaze Puff jacket for the holidays—they’re tough on cold, soft on you.Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your ordeWayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home for the holidays.Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?

    WHO’S IN THE RIGHT?
    Dec 9 2025

    The girls are tackling the dilemmas you sent in and deciding who stands where. Things start strong with a classic inconsiderate brother-in-law and quickly spiral into wedding dodgers, family thievery, and a friendship situation so confusing it practically needs a flowchart. The lines between right and wrong will get blurred, but one thing’s for sure: the Valley girls are always correct.


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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA

    SISTER-IN-LAW DRAMA
    Dec 2 2025
    This week, the girls are diving into the worst kind of chaos - sister-in-law drama. From stealing the spotlight at someone else’s big moment to blowing through their husband’s money for a scandalous getaway, these listener write-ins prove that girls really can do it all… sometimes in the worst possible ways. Buckle up, this one gets messy.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Aura Frames: Go to auraframes.com and get $35 off with code WHATWESAID. Squarespace: Go to Squarespace. com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Skims: Shop our favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com. And if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for everyone on your list - the SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com.Clean Simple Eats: Visit CleanSimpleEats.com and use code WHATWESAID10 at checkout for 10% off your FIRST order PLUS free shipping. DripDrop: Go to dripdrop.com and use promo code WHATWESAID for 20% off your first order.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME

    MY FRIEND CONFESSED THEY LOVE ME
    Nov 28 2025
    It's your favorite time of the month, the advice column is here! Our girls are diving into everything from holiday homesickness (or… is it nostalgia? seasonal depression? honestly, who knows) to handling pushy family members around religion, jealousy when friends start having babies, and what to do when someone keeps copying your every move. They also unpack a very tangled friends-with-benefits situation and plenty more listener dilemmas that prove adulthood is basically one long string of “wait… how do I handle this?” conversations.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Kendra Scott: Visit kendrascott.com/gifts and use code WWS20 at checkout for 20% off ONE full-priced jewelry item. Tia Health: Book an appointment today at asktia.com/wws. Gruns: Visit gruns.co and use code WHATWESAID at checkout for up to 52% off your first order. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, our listeners can get free steak in every box for a year PLUS $20 off your first box when you go to ButcherBox.com/whatwesaid. Wayfair: Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Laundry Sauce: During our Black Friday/Cyber Monday Signature Sale, you’ll save up to 40%, get $75 in free gifts, and free shipping at LaundrySauce.com. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • THE NICEST THING EVER

    THE NICEST THING EVER
    Nov 25 2025

    Get your tissues ready this Thanksgiving, because the annual tearjerker is back. This week, the girls are reading your heart-melting submissions to “the sweetest thing someone’s ever done for you,” and honestly, we’re not okay. From strangers stopping to help on the side of the road to partners setting the bar sky-high, and even real-life heroes showing up at the perfect moment, this episode is pure serotonin. It’s a much-needed reminder that kindness is alive and well — and if the Valley girls teach you one thing this week, it’s to never lose hope in humanity.


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    tough on cold, soft on you.


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    56 mins
  • HE GHOSTED ME

    HE GHOSTED ME
    Nov 18 2025
    The girls just can’t seem to let Halloween go — but this week’s topic is a different kind of ghosting. 👻 From one-night stands to full-blown engagements, they’re diving into your wildest stories of people who vanished without a trace. Whether it’s vague texts, sudden disappearances, or awkward run-ins after the fact, no one is safe from this digital Irish goodbye. It’s funny, chaotic, and just the right amount of petty — the perfect way to officially close out spooky season.// WHAT WE ARE WEARING/MENTIONING // https://shopmy.us/shop/whatwesaidpodcast SHOP OUR MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/what-we-said !!! FOLLOW US !!!INSTA: @WHATWESAID, @JACIMARIESMITH, @CHELSEYJADECURTISTIKTOK: @CHELSEYJADECURTIS, @JACIMARIESMITHYOUTUBE: WATCH WHAT WE SAID, CHELSEY JADE, JACI MARIE// SPONSORS // Amazon: Shopping at Amazon is a safe, authentic, and trustworthy experience. If you receive a suspicious communication, make sure to verify orders in your Amazon account and report it at amazon.com/ReportAScam. Betterhelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/WHATWESAID today to get 10% off your first month.Squarespace: Go to Squarespace. com for a free trial, and when you’re ready to launch, squarespace.com/WHATWESAID to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Download the Rocket Money app and enter my show name What We Said in the survey so they know we sent you! Ritual: Get early access for our Black Friday sales for 40% off your first month at ritual.com/WHATWESAID Quince: Go to quince.com/whatwesaid for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    1 hr and 16 mins