Hello hello! Back with a new ep and this time it's a mix of a few things. I answer a question from a listener about an ex watching his Instagram story. Then, I begin a conversation about the heavy and loaded topic of casual sex and what does that look like when we decenter men from the equation?

Most of this episode is dedicated to talking about decentering men: a practice (and/or lifestyle) that calls for women (not exclusively women though) to center themselves and their needs and deprioritize catering to patriarchal demands. Listen now!

I'm back!! March was a wild month, but very excited to get things going again. I talk about whether or not I might be emotionally unavailable after all (and what my therapist had to say about that) plus I answer a listener question about whether or not they should move to a new city for a better chance at finding love. Listen now and enjoy!

This episode is a dive into ~manifestation~ and how it can relate to the previous episodes about "quitting" dating. Reframing the narrative! Plus, a few quick updates and more.

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Here's the rest of the conversation! Diving into the topic of "quitting" dating -- what that means, and why it's not as bleak as it sounds. Maybe. Listen to part one if you haven't yet, then immediately get into this!

I gabbed too much on this one. It's a loaded topic!! So I've made it into two parts. Referencing an August 2024 article from Atlantic "The People Who Quit Dating" I dive into what this means and my personal relation to it. Next part will be posted in a couple of days.

Back for a more productive 2025! Expect weekly episodes moving forward and if not, still a lot more frequent!!! For this week's episode, I dive into the movie Babygirl and how much it bugged me! But this is less about the movie itself and actually a wider conversation about how women are almost always portrayed as sexually submissive in mainstream erotic media.

Lots to catch up on! I give some personal life updates, then get into a message I recieved that has more to do with the previous episode about fatness in dating, and THEN get into the rise of the 4B Movement. Listen now!