Episodes

  • Gotta buy jocks, gotta cry in the shower
    Oct 10 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah are feeling the eclipse energy, rogue chin hairs, and pending emotional housework. From cup-filling weekends and horse-riding fantasies to crying in the shower, there’s the whole spectrum of chaos, catharsis, and questionable anatomy chat you’ve come to rely upon.

    They pay tribute to the late, great Nigel Latta, who left his final legacy, Lessons on Living, as a parting gift the girls are loving. They also tackle the hot topics of leggings liberation, discovering the ultimate comfy undies, and lava lamps in regrettable places. Matty’s prepping for her first DJ gig, and the pair are fizzing about their upcoming live show with Chelsea Winter for the stacked goodie bags, big laughs, and still getting to claim eight hours of sweet sleep.

    Come for the giggles, stay for the life hacks, and remember, only fruit in your gob...

    ***TICKETS ARE SELLING NOW for the Untidy girls going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.***

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Lessons on Living by Nigel Latta
    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Preorder Nourish by Chelsea Winter
    • Wear Nala underwear
    • Bimby & Roy underwear
    • Videris Lingerie
    • Underlena lingerie

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    43 mins
  • We digress ... with Brodie Kane
    Oct 3 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah are joined by the powerhouse that is Brodie Kane, journalist, broadcaster, podcaster, author, marathon runner, army reservist, and the force behind her own media company. She’s lived a thousand lives already, and she’s not slowing down.

    Naturally, they traverse frank chat about IBS in new relationships, the delicate art of introducing farting around your partner, and why returning an axe to Bunnings is a surprisingly fraught experience. Between the poo chat and laughter, Brodie also shares what redundancy taught her, how she built Brodie Kane Media from scratch, and why backing yourself is the only way forward.

    The trio get into her memoir ‘Woman Uninterrupted’, her love of endurance sport, her relationship with her legendary mum, Jo, and the joy and madness of finding love for the first time in her late 30s. Brodie’s radical honesty is all hilarity and heart, making this episode feel like a long-awaited catch-up with your most unfiltered mates.

    ***TICKETS ARE SELLING NOW for the Untidy girls going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes, and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.***

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Brodie Kane Media
    • The Girls Uninterrupted
    • Kiwi Yarns
    • Woman Uninterrupted – Brodie Kane
    • Solo Girls Run Club
    • Brodie Kane on Instagram
    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Preorder Nourish by Chelsea Winter

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • We love to do. And we also love to not do.
    Sep 26 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah come in hot with raging blemishes, burning thighs, and the eternal struggle between doing and not doing.

    Hannah kicks things off with a surprisingly accurate sojourn into Medical Corner, while Matty recounts her painful pursuit of running a 12K with the girls, raising money for Big Brothers Big Sisters, and winning the battle of her own internal dialogue in the process, if not the race itself.

    They talk about the joy of seeing your progress, the radical act of rest, and why sometimes balance is a myth. Plus, updates on their Untidy LIVE with Chelsea Winter, Pilates Partner cameos, and the kind of goodie bags that make grown women weak at the knees.

    ***TICKETS ARE SELLING NOW for the Untidy girls going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.***

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Preorder Nourish by Chelsea Winter

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    35 mins
  • Best bits: Hayley Holt (Live) – Shame spirals and salsa lessons
    Sep 22 2025

    A live show hits different ... In this mini episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah take you back to their live, sell-out show with Hayley Holt on stage in the winterless north of Warkworth. Get a taste of the vibe, the honesty, and what it feels like to be part of the audience. Hayley talks about her ‘Hard-out Holt’ party days and hear the room scheming her return to dance teaching as the conversation spirals into plans for local salsa classes and pole dancing, whether she likes it or not.

    This is what it feels like to be in the room with us – laughing, nodding, maybe squirming along as we spill the tea ... If this feels like a bit of you, come hang out with us at our next live show! We can’t wait to see you there.

    ***TICKETS ARE SELLING NOW for the Untidy girls going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.***

    All the links you need:

    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Listen to the full episode: Alcohol, baby loss & finding love with Hayley Holt on Spotify
    • Listen to the full episode: Alcohol, baby loss & finding love with Hayley Holt on Apple
    • Find Hayley’s book ‘Second Chances’ here.
    • Follow her on Instagram @theholtbolt.

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    10 mins
  • Your beautiful brain with Dr Sarah McKay
    Sep 19 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah are back with neuroscientist, Dr Sarah McKay, author of The Women’s Brain Book, Baby Brain, and Brain Health for Dummies, to flip the script about our brains in midlife. Are we really the dysfunctional crones the social narrative would have us believe?

    They dig into why we forget words, lose our keys, stumble through brain fog, and rage-sweat at night. Sarah explains these aren’t signs of a slow decline, but instead a time of transformation to something better. She reveals the good news that our brains are moving towards their peak in adaptability, strategic thinking, wisdom, and cognitive flexibility in midlife. This is your permission slip to celebrate the dawn of confidently giving less f*cks!

    They discuss the vital basics to achieve longevity, the unsexy role of hearing in brain health, and why physically putting your phone in exile makes you sharper. Sarah shares the good news that we can actually celebrate the beauty of our changing brains.

    ***TICKETS ARE SELLING NOW for the Untidy girls going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.***

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Dr Sarah McKay’s website: drsarahmckay.com
    • Dr Sarah McKay on Instagram: @drsarahmckay
    • Find Dr Sarah McKay’s books here
    • Listen the Untidy episode: The myth of ‘Baby Brain’ with Dr Sarah McKay on Spotify
    • Listen the Untidy episode: The myth of ‘Baby Brain’ with Dr Sarah McKay on Apple
    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Preorder Nourish by Chelsea Winter

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Questionable massage, going out ugly, and a LIVE show!
    Sep 12 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah surrender to the delirium of an evening recording. Hannah’s shovelling supplements into every orifice, Matty’s shovelling butter chicken into just one solitary hole, and somewhere in Christchurch, an underqualified masseuse is about to disappoint another unsuspecting client.

    Matty makes the mistake of going to a dress-up party ugly, they discuss how to deal with a sauna lurker, and whether Art could go from chest to breast.

    Most importantly, the girls are going LIVE with Chelsea Winter! Sunday, 19th October in Taranaki. Join them for big laughs, good yarns, a stacked goodie bag, and Chelsea signing her new cookbook, Nourish. Link for tickets is in the show notes and @untidypodcast bio — get in quick before they sell out.

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Get your tickets – Untidy podcast LIVE with Chelsea Winter
    • Preorder Nourish by Chelsea Winter

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    48 mins
  • Healthy Masculinity with Richie Hardcore
    Sep 5 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah are joined by Richie Hardcore, former Muay Thai champion, educator, and speaker on healthy masculinity, mental health, and preventing gendered violence. Richie works with young people, schools, and communities across Aotearoa, bringing lived experience and practical tools into spaces where these conversations are needed most.

    CONTENT WARNING: Some of this conversation may be upsetting to some listeners. This episode discusses topics including family violence, sexual violence, pornography, and toxic online influences. Please take care and choose a time and a place to listen that’s right for you.

    In this kōrero, Richie shares his personal story of growing up around family harm, how he found resilience through fighting and music, and what led him to dedicate his life to cultural change. We talk about the very real risks facing boys today, from toxic online influences to the normalisation of porn, and how parents and caregivers can better support their kids.

    We dive into what healthy masculinity actually looks like, why role models matter so much, and how we can create spaces where young people feel safe to be vulnerable, respectful, and true to themselves. It’s a big, sometimes confronting conversation, but one filled with hope and compassion.

    Whether you’re raising boys, working with young people, or reflecting on your own journey, this episode will give you insight, strategies, and a lot to think about.

    References mentioned in the show:

    • Richie Hardcore website: richiehardcore.com
    • Richie Hardcore Instagram: @richiehardcore
    • The Grace Foundation (support for people on bail)
    • The Light Project (youth, porn literacy & relationships education)
    • Before 16 campaign (advocating to delay social media access)
    • InnerBoy app (Matt & Sarah Brown / She Is Not Your Rehab)
    • Tricky Chats (resources for parents by Joe Robertson)
    • Big Brothers Big Sisters of NZ (Youth mentoring)

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • And together, we rant ...
    Aug 29 2025

    In this episode of Untidy, Matilda and Hannah begin with a good, cathartic rant. (You are encouraged to pause this episode and join them as needed.) Hannah’s having bad brain days, Matty’s wrestling tangled headphones, hectic mornings, running on fumes, and they’re both reaching for more self-compassion, or, at least, a little bit of acceptance. However, there’s something that can be done, and they’re doing it, even if it begins with a boiled egg and the last bit of dry old ham.

    Hannah relives the Kaikōura earthquake, and Matty questions whether she’s thriving, coping, or slightly falling apart. Then, your good friends have a friendly chat about a few bits of life admin worth checking that absolutely, in no way, should be confused with qualified advice. (Isn’t that what GPT is for?)

    Come, scream into a pillow together now, and we can summer in Tuscany later ...

    References mentioned in the show:

    • The Better Brain by Dr. Bonnie Kaplan & Dr. Julia Rucklidge
    • Calculator.net – Investment Calculator (used to show kids compound interest)
    • Go to: untidypodcast.com and enter your email for early bird access to live show tickets!

    If you’re enjoying Untidy, the best way to show your support is by tapping the ‘+ follow’ button in your podcast app and subscribing on YouTube! That way, fresh episodes will always be ready and waiting for you. Help us to keep building this supportive community — share an episode with a mate, and chuck us a 5-star review — it helps more people find our Untidy, unfiltered, and relatable chats. Thank you for listening, contributing and supporting this independent production! We’re grateful to have you here! — Hannah & Matty xx

    Don’t forget! Untidy is made for YOU — the people right at the heart of this steaming hot mess! Follow the show and DM us on Instagram @untidypodcast or email hello@untidypodcast.com. Your stories and ideas to help shape the show! Find us online at Untidy podcast. Find Matilda at @matootles and get your copy of The Feel Good Guide. Find Hannah at @hannahedavison and her My Big Moments children’s books at @mybigmoments. Enter code UNTIDY at checkout for 10% off your order.

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    44 mins