Merry Christmas, my lovelies, and welcome to my very first Christmas special!

This episode is a little gift from me to you: a cosy, cheeky Christmas story with a very Harley Rabbit twist. I wrote it because I know the holidays can be magical… but they can also be overwhelming, lonely, or complicated. Especially for so many in this community who are queer, kinky, poly, or neurospicy.

So think of this as your tiny refuge from the chaos. Something warm, playful, and just for you.

Curl up, get comfy (no kids allowed!), imagine a crackling fire, and let Aunty Harley read you “A Very Adult Christmas.” 🔥

If you want more festive kink inspo…

Check out Episode #106, where I share 12 different Christmas-themed kinky activities to spice up your holidays.

From our sponsor:

This episode is proudly sponsored by Nothosaur, who make some of the most gorgeous fantasy toys on the planet — hand-sculpted, body-safe, customisable, and perfect if you’re planning to treat yourself to something very special this year. Whether you’re into dragons, beasts, tentacles, or something perfectly monstrous… they’ve got a creature ready to join you under the tree. Visit nothosaur.com.

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If you’ve ever wondered why so many smart, capable, high-performing women melt into a puddle the moment someone takes control… this episode is going to hit home.

Today I’m joined by the incredible Julieta Chiara for a conversation that goes straight to the heart of why ambitious, high-functioning women crave the chance to finally let go.

We unpack the deep psychological reasons so many of us who “run the show” in our everyday lives are drawn to dominance and submission. That moment where your brain finally switches off… the delicious relief of not making decisions… the thrill of being overpowered in a way that feels chosen, safe, and wildly sexy.

Julieta and I talk about the internal battle between being competent, self-led adults and the part of us that fantasises about surrender. We explore psychological kink, degradation, rope, CNC, subspace — and how all of these can become powerful pathways into rest, intimacy, and embodiment for women who otherwise never stop thinking.

If you’re a high-achieving woman who struggles to relax, who secretly wants someone to take the reins, or who feels confused about what “submission” really means… this episode will feel like someone finally translated your inner world into words.

Mentioned in this episode:

Empowered Submission Academy

Nawa Foundations

Nawa Flow

Heart of Dominance (book)

Existential Kink (book)

From our sponsor:

This episode is proudly sponsored by Nothosaur, who make some of the most gorgeous fantasy toys on the planet — hand-sculpted, body-safe, customisable, and perfect if you’re planning to treat yourself to something very special this year. Whether you’re into dragons, beasts, tentacles, or something perfectly monstrous… they’ve got a creature ready to join you under the tree. Visit nothosaur.com.

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It’s officially December, which means two things:

1. Christmas chaos is upon us, and
2. I am absolutely going to find ways to make it kinky.

In this week’s episode, I’m sharing 12 fun, creative, and very naughty ways to sprinkle a little extra spice into your holiday season. Some are playful, some are sensual, some are downright filthy — and most of them work just as well if you’re partnered or solo, and some even work for long-distance.

I didn’t expect Christmas and kink to be such a perfect combination… but once you start thinking about it, they pair beautifully. Kink is playful, cosy, connective, and full of imagination — which is exactly what this time of year is supposed to be.

Whether you try one or all twelve, these ideas are designed to bring some fun, play, and pleasure back into a season that can be… a lot. Even if you adore Christmas, it’s still busy, emotional, and chaotic — so think of this as your little permission slip to create a moment of joy for yourself.

If you end up trying any of these (or inventing your own twist), please tell me! I love hearing what you get up to.

Mentioned in this episode:

Harley's tentacle toy review on Fetlife

From our sponsor:

This episode is proudly sponsored by Nothosaur, who make some of the most gorgeous fantasy toys on the planet — hand-sculpted, body-safe, customisable, and perfect if you’re planning to treat yourself to something very special this year. Whether you’re into dragons, beasts, tentacles, or something perfectly monstrous… they’ve got a creature ready to join you under the tree. Visit nothosaur.com.

Curious about one-on-one coaching? Book a free Connection Call with Harley at harleyrabbit.com

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Hey friends, Harley here!

This week we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and surprisingly historic corners of fetish culture: tentacle erotica. From centuries-old Japanese artwork to modern fantasy toys, this genre has far more depth and erotic imagination than most people realise.

In this episode, I explore:

• The surprising origins of tentacle erotica in Japanese shunga art
• How censorship laws helped shape the genre
• Why tentacle fantasies feel so erotic for so many people
• The many forms of tentacle creatures — from ocean beings to aliens and plant tendrils
• How to explore this fantasy safely and shame-free
• And my first impressions of Nothosaur’s Alla tentacle toy

Explore fantasy toys at nothosaur.com.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Article referencing the Dream of the Fishermans Wife by Hokusai - https://blog.alltheanime.com/hokusais-tentacles/
• Tencicle art by Kitao Shigemasa (1739-1820) https://www.bonhams.com/auction/21861/lot/256/kitao-shigemasa-1739-1820-circa-1782/
• ‘Diver and Octopuses‘ Series ‘Picture Book: Lust of Many Women on One Thousand Nights (Ehon chiyo-dameshi)’, c.1786. https://shungagallery.com/katsukawa-shuncho-shunga-diver-octopuses/
• Urotsukidoji: Legend of the Overfiend (1989) film (heavy content warning) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108461/
• Harley's tentacle inspired audio fantasy "The Blue Flower" on Fetlife
• Harley's X-rated Fetlife review of Nothosaur's Alla XL

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In this episode, I chat with Kingsley from Nothosaur, the fantasy toy company turning imagination into art. From dragons and wolves to tentacles and alien lovers, Nothosaur creates beautifully crafted silicone toys inspired by fantasy creatures — each with its own character, backstory, and personality.

Kingsley shares how the brand started in a tiny Hong Kong studio and grew into a 50-person creative team known for their wild designs and inclusive values. We talk about how toys are designed, tested, and refined (yes — real testers around the world give feedback!), how Nothosaur balances creativity with comfort, and what it means to “make toys unique and make sex free.”

Mentioned in this episode:

• Nothosaur.com
• Nothosaur on X
• @nothosaurtoys on Instagram

Sponsor:
This episode is proudly sponsored by Nothosaur — fantasy art you can feel. Each toy is body-safe silicone and fully customisable in colour, firmness, and size. Explore the collection at nothosaur.com and let your imagination run wild!

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In this episode, I speak with Kazami Sensei, one of Japan’s most respected figures in shibari and the founder of Kazami-ryu. Over a career spanning more than thirty years, he has performed and taught extensively throughout Japan and internationally, with certified schools now operating in Australia, Canada, and Hong Kong.

In our conversation, Kazami Sensei reflects on his early years of self-teaching, drawing inspiration from the late master Randa Mai, and how his own style gradually developed into what is now known as Kazami-ryu. He shares how shibari has evolved over the decades, what continues to drive his innovation, and the philosophy that keeps his practice alive after thousands of performances.

We talked about:

• How he creates such emotionally alive performances without rehearsing
• What he’s really focused on while performing (it’s not just technique)
• The evolution of shibari across three decades — from VHS tapes to global schools
• The story behind his signature L-locks and how Kazami-ryu developed
• Why his ties are always changing and improving
• How riggers can bring out their model’s beauty through awareness and intention
• And yes, the unforgettable story of the time a rope actually caught fire mid-performance 🔥

Mentioned in this episode:

Photos of his performance at the Cabaret can be found on instagram. Follow @evilgirls.hq, @miss_gen_does_rope or @das_puppy.

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You can also follow Kazami Sensei @kazamiranki_shibari

Learn more:

If you’re interested in learning Kazami-ryu, visit kazami-ryu.com for links to schools across the world.

If you're based in Australia or New Zealand, you can study Kazami-ryu through Miss Gen. Visit evilgirlshq.com.au

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Why does pain sometimes feel so damn good? And what actually makes a scene hot instead of just… well, hurt?

In this episode, I’m diving deep into the delicious world of sadism and masochism — and the three ingredients that make it work: power, attention, and surrender.

I just got back from Brisbane, where I got to do another rope scene with Deadmaxis (and yes, I asked him to show me a bit more of his mean side 😈). I also went to Miss Gen’s 10-year shibari anniversary cabaret, which was honestly breathtaking. Seeing those performances — including one by Kazami Ranki himself — gave me so much to think (and feel!) about when it comes to the psychology of pain and kink.

In this episode, I share what I discovered about:

• Why power and vulnerability create such intense erotic charge.
• How attention — not just pain — is the secret sauce behind hot S&M.
• What surrender really feels like and what makes it possible.
• Why teasing, torment, and fear can actually feel incredible.

If you’ve ever wondered how S&M can feel loving, connected, and insanely sexy all at once — this one’s for you.

Mentioned in this Episode

Deadmaxis - follow on Intragram @_deadmaxis

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This week I’m joined once again by my partner, rigger, and Dom — Slade — as we unpack our recent experience completing Kazami-Ryu Level 1, a three-day Shibari intensive right here in Townsville.

Together we share what it was really like to dive into formal rope training — the challenges, the breakthroughs, and the lessons learned from both sides of the rope.

We explore:

• Slade's lessons in persistence as an aspiring rigger
• Harley's insights on how mindset can have a major effect on pain tolerance
• The difference between playful rope and “lab-mode” learning
• How rope journaling can be a creative way to integrate learning
• When to upgrade your rope
• Navigating comparison and confidence in group learning
• The importance of having fun and being a supportive partner

This one feels like you’re sitting down with us for a casual chat about rope over a few drinks. Neither of us are experts — but sometimes that makes the experience even more relatable for those who are also new to this world.

From bleeding fingers and proud time-trials to unexpected moments of calm and connection, this episode is both an inside look at structured rope education and a love letter to the art of learning together.

Special thanks to Basanos and Angel for bringing their amazing skills and tuition to our little town!

xx Harley 🐰

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