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What happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?

In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them.

You’ll hear:

• Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she had in her twenties
• How fantasy, age play, and Core Desires can help you stay connected to the younger part of yourself
• What men can do to genuinely support and desire women as they age
• The powerful role kink plays in transcending physical age and reconnecting with play, innocence, and turn-on

Whether you're in your 20s or your 60s, this episode is a celebration of growing into your sexuality—not out of it.

🔗 Links + Resources

• ✨ Vote for Turns Out I’m Into It in the Australian Adult Industry Awards
• Recommended listening: #83 What if you Could be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas
• Recommended listening: #47 Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! Interview with DaddaG

Journaling / Discussion Prompts

• What age do I feel when I’m having sex?
• How has my sex life changed in the last 5–10-20 years?
• What do you, or could you find attractive about older women, if you look beyond the cultural lens?

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In this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attracted to masculine men is something to be ashamed of.

Inspired by a scene in Beastars (an anime on Netflix), I unpack what it means to celebrate masculine power without excusing harm. We talk about violence, tenderness, emotional maturity, and why the sexiest men are often the ones who could fight—but don’t need to.

From MMA rings to Formula One tracks, this is a heartfelt and primal love letter to healthy masculinity—and an invitation to let men be tigers again!

📚 Resources Mentioned:

• Beastars – anime series on Netflix (Season 1)
• Men, Women & Worthiness by Brené Brown (short audiobook on Audible)
• @harley_rabbit on Instagram – DM TIGERBITE to join my close friends circle
• SubscribeStar After Show – for bonus reflections and behind-the-scenes thoughts

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Do you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned on, but nothing’s happening down there. Or maybe you feel ashamed, confused, or frustrated when your desire doesn’t match what your partner (or you!) expect.

In this episode, Harley Rabbit introduces the dual control model, a powerful framework from the world of sexology that could change the way you think about arousal forever.

You’ll learn how your sexual accelerator and brakes work, and how understanding these systems can help you navigate issues like low desire, erectile difficulties, body shame, and performance anxiety with more compassion, clarity, and confidence.

Journaling Prompts:

📝 Do I know what my core desires are? Am I getting them met in my sex life?
📝 Are there any external or internal threats pressing on my brakes right now? Can I do anything about them?

Resources Mentioned:

• Emily Nagoski’s Book: Come As You Are
• Previous Episode: #83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas

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