• What Is Intergenerational Trauma?
    Mar 12 2026

    Intergenerational trauma is trauma that didn't start with you. We explore this and much more as we dive into what intergenerational trauma looks like in your life and relationships.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    FREE Couple Guide on "Getting to the Root of the Problem"

    https://traumafreerelationship.com/getting-to-the-root-guide


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    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.


    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    30 mins
  • Finding Solid Ground: Building a Secure Sense of Self for Disorganized Attachment
    Mar 5 2026

    In this episode, we will discuss the challenges of disorganized attachment from within the perspective of those who identify with this pattern, as well as those who may be in a relationship with someone who fall into this category.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    FREE Get to the Root of the Problem eBook

    https://traumafreerelationship.com/getting-to-the-root-guide


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq



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    32 mins
  • Lost Connection: Self-Soothing for Anxious Attachment
    Feb 26 2026

    In this episode we discuss how to self-soothe when feeling like connection is lost between you and your partner.


    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.


    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    29 mins
  • Calming Together: Co-regulation for Avoidant Attachment
    Feb 19 2026

    In this episode we discuss the greatest challenge for avoidant attachment - co-regulation. Learn what causes avoidant attachment and practical steps to learn how to reach out for others in times of need.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    28 mins
  • Listening Without Being Defensive
    Feb 12 2026

    In this episode we discuss how to listen without being defensive, and how to notice when others are.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    33 mins
  • Moving Towards Secure Attachment as an Adult
    Feb 5 2026

    In this episode we discuss how to move toward a secure attachment as an adult, knowing that it is a practice, not a destination.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    32 mins
  • Moving From Self-Blame to Self-Compassion
    Jan 29 2026

    In this episode we discuss how to move from a inner critic of self-blame, to a more compassion sense of self.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    26 mins
  • Why Healing Trauma Requires Relationships
    Jan 22 2026

    Join us in this episode to discover why trauma requires relationships. Spoiler alert, we are talking about healing, corrective relationships that help us co-regulate.


    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

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    30 mins