• What Is Attachment Anxiety?
    Dec 18 2025

    In this episode we are going to discuss attachment anxiety. Like a smoke alarm that is too sensitive, our attachment anxiety can detect danger even when we don't want it too.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    31 mins
  • How Trauma Effects Communication Style
    Dec 11 2025

    Your communication style is directly affected by the way you learned to adapt to your environment. In this episode you will learn how your attachment style developed and how to shift to a more secure style of communication.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    36 mins
  • How To Change Your Partner
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode we discuss how to change your partner by changing the system. If you react differently, it forces your partner to respond differently, thereby changing the pattern.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    32 mins
  • Trauma Bond Symptoms
    Nov 27 2025

    In this episode you will learn what a trauma bond is, how it forms to an insecure attachment, and safe steps to begin healing from a trauma bond.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq



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    31 mins
  • Healing the Inner Child
    Nov 20 2025

    In this episode you will learn to recognize the inner child, how the attachment environment shapes the inner child, and the 3 steps necessary to start working on healing the inner child.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    27 mins
  • Healing From Shame and Trauma
    Nov 13 2025

    In this episode you will discover why you experience shame from your trauma, how it shows up in your relationship, and safe techniques to help you heal from shame that was created from your relational trauma.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    28 mins
  • Mental Health & Trauma
    Nov 6 2025

    In this episode we discuss how trauma impacts our general mental health. By the end you will understand how trauma impacts our relational, emotional, physical, and cognitive health. You will also get some safe ways to improve your mental health whether you are working on your trauma or not.


    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    27 mins
  • How to Heal Trauma Through Mind Body Connection
    Oct 30 2025

    In this episode you will learn how the body stores trauma, how your nervous system shapes attachment patterns, and how reconnecting to your body helps rebuild trust and safety in your relationship.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. Hehas spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolvetheir relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more securerelationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly withme to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, securerelationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out acustomized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://shorturl.at/ar01k

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    24 mins