Welcome to the Security Series! In this episode, we're diving deep into a surprising truth: while releasing the need for external approval is crucial, healthy relationships are absolutely fundamental to understanding and experiencing true love and security. It’s not about being "mushy" or self-indulgent; it's about becoming your own ally and building a foundation of inner strength.

We discuss how love, like any vital resource, needs to flow. When it's hoarded or kept in isolation, it stagnates and ultimately dies. Just as an economy needs the flow of money, your emotional well-being needs the flow of give and receive love. This is why the idea of "love yourself" isn't about being alone; it's about being in a position to love and be loved by others, learning what that truly looks like from those around you. We'll explore Dr. Henry Cloud's insights on how we learn love from our earliest relationships and how allowing others to see your flaws and still like you can teach you to like yourself.

But what if you didn't have those strong examples growing up, or you find yourself isolated now? Don't worry, we've got you covered! We'll share actionable advice on how to find healthy relationships that will bolster your security and well-being.

• Why security is about being comfortable and loving yourself, not about self-indulgence.
• The crucial role of others in learning to give and receive love.
• The danger of isolation and how it stunts emotional growth.
• "Green Flags" to look for in healthy friendships: authenticity, the ability to celebrate others, a general slant toward positivity and gratitude, and resilience.
• Where to look for these supportive relationships, including healthy churches and community groups.
• "Red Flags" to watch out for: dependency, consistent negativity, and a habit of quitting.

1. Make a list of "green flag" people in your life to reach out to.
2. Contact them within the next week to start a conversation.
3. Identify any "red flag" relationships that might be holding you back and consider how to create healthy boundaries.

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