• Jesus and the Samaritan Woman at the Well (John 4) | When Speaking Up Changes Everything
    Aug 14 2025

    In this Bible study of John 4:1–42, discover how Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well turned shame into purpose — and why speaking up can change everything!


    They thought she was too far gone.

    Too shamed to be seen.

    Too disqualified to make a difference.


    But when Jesus met her at the well, everything changed.In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) walks through one of the most powerful encounters in Scripture — the moment a silenced, shunned woman found her voice and sparked a revival in a whole town!

    Whether you feel overlooked, disqualified, or stuck in silent survival mode, this is your reminder: Your past does not cancel your purpose — and your breakthrough is on the other side of your voice!

    📖 Scripture Reference: John 4:1–42 (NIV)

    🎥 What’s inside:

    • Why Jesus had to go through Samaria — and why that matters for you

    • How shame keeps women silent — and how to break free

    • Why your story matters, no matter how messy it’s been

    • Why your voice is a weapon against the darkness

    • The lasting impact of one woman’s testimony

    • A call for every woman to speak up and step into her God-given authority

    Timestamp

    0:00 - Introduction

    2:26 - Main Scripture: John 4:1–42 (NIV)

    6:09 - Start of the Message

    6:22 - Part 1 — Through Samaria — Against All Odds

    8:11 - Part 2 — The Unexpected Encounter

    14:15 - Part 3 — The Conversation That Shouldn’t Have Happened

    18:08 - Part 4 — The Conversation No One Expected

    20:58 - Part 5 — The Worship Revelation

    24:32 - Part 6 — The Messiah Moment

    27:40 - Part 7 — The Water Jar Drop

    30:42 - Part 8 — The Power of Personal Testimony

    33:15 - Part 9 — What If Shira Never Spoke?

    37:30 - Part 10 — Where Do You Fit In?

    44:12 - Declaration Time

    45:05 - Prayer

    48:05 - Closing Words

    🕊 For the woman listening:God didn’t design you for invisibility. You were made in His image — with voice, value, and volume. It’s time to stand, speak, and step into the purpose He’s been preparing for you all along.Watch now and be reminded: Nobody ever saw her coming… but God did.

    👋 Welcome to To Run or Not to Run with Patty Pat! Where scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood, and women shine and break free!

    New episode every Thursday at 11AM EST

    PattyPatsJourney.com

    📲 Don’t have a Bible? Download the free YouVersion Bible App — it’s what I use too!

    #JesusAndTheSamaritanWoman #John4 #WomenOfTheBible #SpeakUp #BibleStudyForWomen #ChristianEncouragement #PattyPat #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRun

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    50 mins
  • How God Turns Jealousy Into Promotion | What to Do When You’ve Been Betrayed
    Aug 7 2025

    They betrayed you.

    They threw shade behind smiles.

    But God will still raised you up!

    In this powerful follow-up, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) walks through the second half of Joseph’s story — from pit to promotion — and uncovers what it really means when jealousy fails but purpose still prevails!

    We’re talking betrayal, redirection, and the kind of favor that doesn’t ask for permission.

    What’s inside:

    • Why a setback doesn’t cancel your purpose

    • Why breakthrough often feels like breakdown on the way up

    • Why success attracts sabotage — and how to stand firm when it does

    .• A word of healing for the woman who was dropped, dismissed, or doubted

    • And how to walk in favor — even when it ruffles feathers

    If they left you in the pit, but you’re still standing — this word is for you.

    Watch it through.

    Leave knowing:

    God’s not done. He’s just getting started with you!

    Timestamp

    0:00 - Introduction

    2:52 - Main Scripture (Genesis 39:1–23 )

    6:43 - Start of the Message

    6:57 - Part 1 — Favored… Even in Slavery

    9:34 - Part 2 — Because The Attack Often Comes for the Appointed

    16:05 - Part 3 — Dreams in the Dark

    21:14 - Part 4 — When Kings Start Asking for You

    24:03 - Part 5 — From Prisoner to Prime Minister

    29:44 - Part 6 — The Bowing Begins

    35:07 - Part 7 — Jealousy’s Grip, God’s Grace

    43:34 - Declaration Time

    44:25 - Prayer

    46:56 - Closing Words

    👋 Welcome to To Run or Not to Run with Patty Pat! Where scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood, and women shine and break free!

    New episode every Thursday at 11AM EST

    PattyPatsJourney.com

    Don’t have a Bible?

    Download the free YouVersion Bible App — it’s what I use too!

    #JealousyInTheBible #ChristianDiscernment #BiblicalWisdom #SpiritualGrowth #WomenOfFaith #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRun #GodWillElevateYou #HealingFromBetrayal #PurposeAfterPain

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    49 mins
  • How to Spot Silent Jealousy and Guard Your Peace | You’re too Blessed and It’s Bugging Them
    Jul 31 2025

    🔥 When Jealousy Looks Like Love | The Story of Joseph They smiled.

    They hugged you.

    They clapped — kinda.

    But deep down, their heart couldn’t handle your glow.

    📖 In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down the story of Joseph and his brothers — and what it teaches us about betrayal that hides in plain sight.

    We’re talking fake support, silent jealousy, and the subtle signs that someone’s celebrating… but secretly seething.

    🎥 What’s inside:

    • Why favor makes some people fumble

    • How jealousy disguises itself as friendship

    • The moment Joseph got sold — and didn’t see it coming

    • Discernment tips to protect your peace without paranoia

    • A word of healing for the woman who’s been envied, excluded, or misunderstood

    • And how to keep shining… even when it ruffles feathersIf you’ve ever been side-eyed for your success, this word is for you.

    Watch if your wins made the room go quiet.

    Leave knowing: You didn’t do anything wrong.

    They just couldn’t handle your calling.

    Timestamp

    0:00 - Introduction

    3:11 - Main Scripture (Genesis 37:1–28 )

    6:49 - Start of the Message

    7:41 - Part 1 — Jealousy Has Childhood Roots

    11:41 - Part 2 — Comparison Is the Breeding Ground

    18:31 - Part 3 — When to Speak and When to Zip It, Sis

    22:25 - Part 4 — The Plot Always Starts with a Thought

    24:13 - Part 5 — Jealousy Doesn’t Just Observe… It Acts

    25:55 - Part 6 — Jealousy Sells What It Should’ve Protected

    28:31 - Part 7 — It Could’ve Gone Another Way

    32:51 - Declaration Time

    33:37 - Prayer

    35:48 - Closing Words

    👋 Welcome to To Run or Not to Run with Patty Pat — scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood — and women shine and break free!

    Tag a sister who needs this message!

    🗓 New episode every Thursday at 11AM EST

    🌐 PattyPatsJourney.com

    📲 Don’t have a Bible? Download the free YouVersion Bible App — it’s what I use too!

    #JealousyInTheBible #ChristianDiscernment #SpiritualWisdom #WomenOfGod #BiblicalDiscernment #ChristianEncouragement #PatriciaCalixte #ToRunOrNotToRun #JealousyHealing

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    38 mins
  • How to Spot — and Protect Yourself from — People You Trust Who Shouldn’t Be Trusted | Discernment
    Jul 24 2025

    🔥 They Look Safe… But They’re a Setup | Christian Discernment for Women

    You thought it was love.

    Or loyalty.

    Or just a rough season.

    But deep down… something in your spirit kept whispering:“This connection isn’t safe.”

    In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down one of the most dangerous forms of betrayal — the one that comes wrapped in familiarity.

    We’re going deep into Jesus and Judas — and what it reveals about spotting red flags in people you trust.

    👀 This video is for you if:

    • You’ve ever overstayed in a relationship out of guilt

    • You felt the tension… but called it “love” or “loyalty”

    • Someone close betrayed you — and no one saw it coming

    • You’re tired of second-guessing your spiritual discernment

    • You want to walk away without feeling like the villain

    ⏱️ Timestamps:

    0:00 – Intro

    2:41 – Main Scripture (John 13:18–30 NIV)

    5:37 – Start of the Message

    6:19 – Part 1 — Familiar ≠ Safe

    12:38 – Part 2 — When Peace Leaves the Room, Don’t Downplay the Discernment

    16:51 – Part 3 — Jesus Knew. Jesus Spoke. So Should You.

    24:30 – Part 4 — When It’s Time to Let Go - Let It Go Without Guilt

    28:20 – Part 5 — Discernment Is Not Discrimination

    30:26 – Part 6 — Guard your heart and leave without bleeding

    32:57 – Declaration Time!

    33:31 –Prayer

    36:45 – Closing Words

    💬 QUICK TEST:If the Holy Spirit raised a red flag — and your brain said,"But they’re family or I’ve known them for so many years... but they mean well..."This message is for you.

    🎬 Watch now — because clarity isn’t cold-hearted.It’s survival, sis.

    TAG a sister who needs this word And don’t forget to catch Part 2 — it’s coming in next Thursday!

    👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Patty Pat —Where scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood —and women shine and break free!

    📅 New episode every Thursday at 11AM EST

    Want to know more about my journey or connect further? You can visit PattyPatsJourney.com

    Don’t have a Bible? You can download the free YouVersion Bible App — it’s what I use too! Available in multiple versions and languages, with daily plans to help you stay in the Word!

    #ChristianDiscernment #GuardYourHeart #JesusAndJudas #SpiritualClarity #WomenOfGod #ToRunOrNotToRun #PattyPat #PatriciaCalixte #BiblicalBoundaries

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    38 mins
  • That’s Not Judgment — It’s Discernment | How to Spot Red Flags in Every Area of Life
    Jul 17 2025

    🛑 Still second-guessing that off feeling in your spirit?

    Sis… this isn’t paranoia — it’s protection. And the Holy Spirit? He’s not whispering just to make small talk.

    In this spicy, scripture-packed Part 1 of our new Discernment series, we dive into the truth most people won’t say out loud:

    You’re not judging. You’re discerning!

    And ignoring that divine inner warning? That’s how good women get caught in bad situations — at work, in friendships, in ministry, and yes… in love too.

    What’s Inside:

    • What King Solomon's wisdom teaches us about clarity

    • How to tell the Real from the Fake when the tears start flowing

    • Why you keep overriding your spiritual alarm (and how to reboot it)

    • The difference between discernment and condemnation (👀 Big one!)

    • A step-by-step checklist to train your gut without guilt


    📖 Main Scripture: 1 Kings 3:16–28 (NIV)

    Plus: Hebrews 5:14, Proverbs 4:7, Matthew 12:33, and more.

    This video is for the woman who:

    • Loves God but keeps getting blindsided

    • Is tired of babysitting dysfunction in silence

    • Needs to hear: “Sis, you’re not being mean. You’re being wise.”

    This one's packed, sis — so follow along or jump to the part you need most:


    Timestamp

    0:00 - Introduction

    2:05 - Main Scripture

    4:50 - Start of the Message

    5:11 - Part 1 — Real Discernment Doesn’t Get Played

    7:23 - Part 2 — Discernment Is Your Self-Defense Kit

    11:04 - Part 3 — Discernment Comes with a Backbone

    16:13 - Part 4 — Red Flags Are Warnings, Not Assignments

    21:48 - Part 5 — Smart Women Still Get Played When They Shush the Alarm

    27:53 - Declaration Time

    28:33 - Prayer

    31:24 - Closing Words

    💬 QUICK TEST:If the Holy Spirit raised a red flag…and your brain said “Don’t be judgmental…”—this message is for you.

    Hi! I'm Patricia Calixte. Welcome to To Run or Not to Run with Patty PatWhere scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood — and women shine and break free from non-sense!

    ⏯️ Watch now. Because clarity? It’s not just a vibe — it’s your survival kit.

    TAG a sister who needs this wordAnd don’t forget to catch Part 2 — it’s coming in hot next Thursday July 17th!

    #ChristianWomen #BiblicalDiscernment #RedFlags #ChristianEncouragement #SpiritualClarity #ToRunOrNotToRun #PattyPat #HolySpiritWisdom #WomenOfGod #PatriciaCalixte

    Want to know more about my journey or connect further? You can visit PattyPatsJourney.com

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    33 mins
  • That’s Not Love — It’s a Red Flag | How to Let Go of Who God Didn’t Send
    Jul 10 2025

    🛑 Still Praying Over a Man Who Drains Your Peace?

    Sis… that’s not your kingdom husband — that’s a red flag in disguise.

    In this no-fluff, scripture-packed message, I’m not here to judge — I’m here to help you see.

    You’ll learn:

    • How to spot red flags — and stop romanticizing them

    • The emotional toll of staying where God never sent you

    • What godly love really looks like — hint: it doesn’t drain you

    • Why soul ties and survival-mode relationships are not your assignment

    And most of all — why it’s time to stop calling it “faith” when it’s really fear of being alone.

    📖 From Samson and Delilah to Ruth and Boaz, we’re setting the record straight — and your standards back where they belong: in God’s hands, not in guilt.

    It’s time to break free, Sis.

    Because love from God? It doesn’t cost your peace.

    👋 I’m Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat), and welcome to To Run or Not to Run — the space where scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood, and women rise, break free, and walk boldly in their worth!

    Let’s leave the knockoffs behind and make room for the man God actually planned for you.

    Timestamp

    0:00 - Introduction

    2:00 - Main Scripture

    5:16 - Start of the Message

    5:50 - Part 1 — What Real Love Looks Like

    9:08 - Part 2 — Red Flags Aren’t Tests. They’re Warnings.

    13:02 - Part 3 — You Don’t Fix Red Flags—You Move

    16:13 - Part 4 — Soul Ties: They’re Grip, Not Grace

    19:00 - Part 5 — Real Love Covers Weakness, Not Red Flags

    21:47 - Declaration

    22:31 - Prayer

    24:31 - Closing Words


    Want to know more about my journey or connect further? Visit PattyPatsJourney.com

    📲 Bible App I use: YouVersion

    📌 Hashtags:

    #RedFlagsInRelationships #ChristianEncouragementForWomen

    #SpiritualDiscernment

    #SoulTies

    #ChristianDatingAdvice

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    #KingdomLove

    #JesusAndBoundaries


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    26 mins
  • Where Does God Actually Live? (It's Not Where You Think)
    Jul 3 2025

    🙋🏽‍♀️ “Where is God when I actually need Him?”

    If you’ve ever asked that, you’re not alone.

    But what if… you’ve been searching in all the wrong places?

    In this truth-filled, scripture-rich Christian encouragement video for women, we go deep into what it really means to find God — and how His real address is closer (and more powerful) than you think.


    📖 In this video, you’ll discover:

    • Why the Word isn’t just a book — it’s the living Creator

    • What it really means to give your life to God

    • How being born again is not just a label, but a spiritual transformation

    • Why AI can’t save your soul — only Jesus can

    • The shocking truth about your own heartbeat

    • What makes the Word the only supreme intelligence that never dies

    This message will challenge your thinking and revive your spirit!


    📍 Scriptures are referenced in the comments after premiere.

    👋 I’m Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat!)

    This space is for the curious, the confused, and the called — woman who wants more than surface-level faith.

    Here, we unpack the Bible, pray boldly, and get real about walking with God in a distracted world.

    ⏰ Timestamps

    (Full message breakdown so you can jump in or replay your favorite part)

    0:00 – Introduction

    1:06 – Main Scripture

    2:38 – Start of the Message

    2:55 – Part 1 – The Word Is Not Just A Book — It's The Creator

    5:18 – Part 2 – When You Give Your Life To God, You Give It To The Word

    7:28 – Part 3 – Born Again? Here’s What It Really Means

    10:55 – Part 4 – From Believing It To Living It: Word Mode Activated

    12:57 – Part 5 – There’s Only One Supreme Intelligence — And It’s Not Artificial

    18:06 – Part 6 – You Don’t Even Control Your Own Heartbeat

    20:03 – Part 7 – The Word Never Dies

    23:20 – Declaration

    23:58 – Prayer

    26:04 – Closing Words


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    And share this with someone asking where God is!


    💻 More at: PattyPatsJourney.com

    📲 Bible App I use: YouVersion

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    27 mins
  • When God Says No: How to Trust the Plan You Didn’t Pray For | Power of Prayer 2
    Jun 26 2025

    When God Says No: How to Trust the Plan You Didn’t Pray For | Power of Prayer 2


    Hello my sister and welcome! I'm Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat).

    Sis, what do you do when you prayed… hoped… cried —and God still said “no”?

    This video is for every woman who’s done all the right things — but still got the door slammed in her face.

    In this follow-up to Part 1 on persistent prayer, we’re talking about what it means to trust God’s plan when it doesn’t match your own.

    God’s silence isn’t punishment — and His “no” isn’t rejection.

    Sometimes it’s redirection. Protection. Even promotion.

    In this video, we’ll explore:

    💥 3 powerful ways to respond when the answer is “no”

    📖 The story of Paul and the thorn (2 Corinthians 12:7–10 NIV)

    🕊️ Why unanswered prayers might just be the doorway to deeper purpose

    If you’ve ever asked:

    “Did God ignore my prayer?”

    “Why would a loving God allow this?”…this message is for you.

    🕒 Timestamps:

    00:00 – Intro

    01:53 – Scripture Reading 📖

    03:20 – Christian Encouragement

    05:30 – PART 1: What to Do While You Wait?

    5:55 – 1.1 Stay Ready — So You Don’t Have to Get Ready

    6:29 – 2.2 Watch With Expectation — Not Anxiety

    7:26 – 3.3. Keep Serving — Even While You’re Waiting

    8:10 – PART 2: What If the Answer Is No? — Trusting God When It Doesn’t Go Your Way

    8:34 – 1st Truth: A “No” Doesn’t Mean Rejection — It Means Protection

    9:38 – 2nd Truth: Let the “No” Grow You

    10:43 – 3rd Truth: Worship Like It’s Already Worked Out!

    12:12 – Declarations to God ✨

    12:40 – Prayer Over You 🙏🏽

    14:50 – Final Words + A Little Love 💬


    📖 Scripture Reading : 2 Corinthians 12:6–10 (NIV)

    6 Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say.

    7 Or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me.

    8 Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me.

    9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

    10 That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties.For when I am weak, then I am strong.


    🎥 Don’t forget to catch Part 1: When God Feels Silent if you missed it!

    🛑 If this word touched you, share this with a sister who needs this truth today


    Want to know more about my journey or connect further? You can visit PattyPatsJourney.com

    #WhenGodSaysNo #FaithInHardTimes #ChristianEncouragement #PrayerLife #PatriciaCalixte

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    16 mins