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This Is What You’ve Been Craving All Along

This Is What You’ve Been Craving All Along

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Are you in midlife, perimenopause, or menopause and wondering why you feel stuck, numb, or unsure what you really want?


You’re not alone — and it’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or “too old to change.”


In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason so many smart, sensitive women in midlife feel disconnected from their desires — and why clarity, confidence, and aliveness are so hard to access when you’re stressed, overextended, or running on empty.


We’ll talk about:

  • The hidden hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause that change how women relate to desire, goals, and self-trust
  • How a lifetime of people-pleasing and self-abandonment starts (often between ages 11–13) and why it intensifies until midlife
  • Why feeling “stuck” or “indecisive” is often a nervous system survival strategy — not a personal flaw
  • How your body protects you from disappointment by shutting down desire (and how to gently reopen it)
  • Why chasing achievement won’t fulfill you if you skip the deeper work of aliveness
  • The role dopamine plays in wanting vs. having — and how to use it to feel more alive right now


If you’re ready to stop running on autopilot, stop waiting for the next big achievement to make you happy, and start reconnecting to a life that feels rich, vibrant, and aligned, this conversation is your roadmap.


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