Are you ready to say yes to forever—or are you stepping into engagement without clarity? 💍Cold feet don’t start on the wedding day. They start when we avoid the hard questions in the engagement stage.In this episode, we’re sharing 9 essential questions every couple needs to ask before getting engaged. These are the questions that protect you from heartbreak, build confidence at the altar, and help you walk into marriage with peace instead of doubt.Whether you’re dating seriously, considering engagement, or already engaged and want to make sure you’re on the right track—this conversation will give you wisdom, clarity, and confidence in your next step.What you’ll learn in this episode:✅ Why confidence in marriage is really about preparation✅ The difference between chemistry and tested character✅ How to avoid cold feet by asking the right questions early✅ Why community, mentors, and prayer matter more than vibes✅ The one thing that’s worse than a breakup before engagement💡 Remember: It’s better to pause an engagement than to enter a marriage unprepared. Clarity now protects your covenant later.CHAPTERS0:00 – Why confidence in marriage comes from preparation0:40 – Welcome to the W Podcast 🎙️1:00 – The peace of asking hard questions before engagement2:20 – Why cold feet don’t have to be your story3:00 – Dating today: vibes vs. interrogation4:10 – Tested faith, tested relationships (Kobe Bryant)6:30 – Why you need at least one year of dating before marriage7:50 – Engagement isn’t just about the wedding planning8:26 – Question #1: Am I staying out of peace or fear of starting over?11:00 – Question #2: If I started from scratch, would I still choose them?13:40 – Question #3: Do I feel closer to God in this relationship?18:01 – Question #4: Have I been honest with mentors about my doubts?20:44 – Question #5: Am I settling in areas I swore I wouldn’t?24:06 – Question #6: Have we grown through conflict—or just survived it?25:03 – What happens when you avoid the hard stuff27:04 – What happens when you lean in30:28 – Question #7: Are we maturing or just managing dysfunction?35:05 – Question #8: Am I marrying their reality or my fantasy?40:59 – Question #9: If this ended tomorrow, could I say I honored God?44:59 – Why protecting your dating season matters for marriage46:01 – A breakup hurts, but marrying the wrong person is worse47:28 – Final encouragement + invitation to communityLETS CONNECT🎙️ Subscribe for more Christian dating + marriage advice💌 DM us on Instagram with your biggest takeaway: @wearejustdating 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple PodcastsChristian dating advice, talking stage questions, Christian singles, godly dating, questions to ask before dating, avoid situationships, how to know if they’re the one, emotional safety in dating, Christian relationships, dating with wisdom

There are some things that look spiritual on the surface—but they’re actually sabotaging your dating life. 😬

In this episode, we’re sharing 7 things godly people do NOT do in dating—and how you can avoid falling into these same traps. This is for anyone who loves Jesus, wants a godly relationship, but feels confused, stuck, or tired of doing it the world’s way.

Dating as a Christian can be confusing, exhausting, and honestly—lonely.You’re doing it God’s way, trying to stay pure, and trusting His timing… but deep down, you’ve got real fears, unspoken prayers, and questions that won’t go away.In this episode, we’re getting real about the silent battles and loud fears so many Christian singles face—but rarely say out loud.And we’ll share what we believe Jesus might lovingly say back to your honest thoughts.You’ll hear:• What to do when you feel unseen, lonely, or behind• How to date with vision and not just vibes• Why purity and obedience still matter (even when no one else seems to care)• What happens when you’re not honest with God, yourself, or your community• What singleness can look like when it’s on purpose and with purposeWhether you’re dating, healing, or just trying to hold onto hope—this one’s for you.You are not alone, and your season is not being wasted.🖤 Keep it real.🖤 Keep trusting God.🖤 And always—keep it fun & holy.Chapters:00:00 – Intro: When Being Holy Feels Like Being Invisible03:00 – Why Singles Feel Overlooked (Even When Obeying God)06:13 – The Ache You’re Afraid to Admit16:50 – What Jesus Might Say to Your Deepest Fears23:10 - Practical Steps to Navigate Your Emotions in a Healthy Way26:45 – Why Your Obedience Will Never Be Wasted29:20 – Final Encouragement + Prayer

We all need people to help us.

You know the relationship isn’t right.You’ve prayed, processed, maybe even postponed the conversation…But now it’s time to say it out loud—and you want to do it the right way.This episode will walk you step-by-step through how to break up at every stage of Christian dating—with clarity, maturity, and integrity. Whether you’ve only been texting or you’re weeks away from the wedding, this is your guide to ending it without guilt, ghosting, or games.God cares about how you exit just as much as how you enter.And if He’s leading you to let go, He’ll give you the words to do it with courage and care.

🔍 You’ll Learn:✔️ How to speak up without being harsh or over-explaining✔️ Why obedience sometimes looks like letting go✔️ What to say (and what not to say) during a breakup✔️ How to walk away with clarity, not confusion✔️ Why your breakup can be a witness—not just an ending🙌 This episode is for you if:- You feel stuck in something that’s not aligned- You’re scared to hurt them but know it’s not God’s best- You’ve never been shown how to end something with wisdom- You want to break up without breaking character

Most Christian couples don’t fall apart because they don’t love God.They fall apart because they didn’t have a process.In this episode, we’re walking you through the 6 core stages of dating that almost every godly relationship passes through—from the first spark to the final stretch before marriage—and how to move through each one with clarity, wisdom, and purpose.Whether you're just catching feelings or talking about rings, this conversation will help you:✅ Recognize what season you're in✅ Avoid common mistakes that cost people peace✅ Adopt mindsets that protect your heart and honor God✅ And discern what God might be showing you—before things go too farWe also share our personal stories, the lessons we learned the hard way, and why dating with vision can change everything for your future marriage and family.🙌 This episode isn’t here to shame you—it’s here to strengthen you. If you’ve never done it this way before, that’s okay. You can start now. God is a Redeemer and He’s not done writing your story.👣 Listen in and get equipped to date differently—on purpose, with God, and for His glory.CHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Why Most Christian Couples Fail (It's Not What You Think) 01:45 - How to Use This Dating Path for Wisdom, Not Just Feelings 03:20 - Stage 1: The Spark — Chemistry vs. Clarity 06:10 - Stage 2: Intentional Talking — Getting to Know Them Without Losing Yourself 10:30 - Stage 3: Exclusive Dating — Dating With Purpose, Not Pressure 15:40 - Stage 4: Discernment — Can I Marry This Person? 20:45 - Stage 5: Engagement — Preparing for Covenant, Not Just a Wedding 25:00 - Stage 6: Final Stretch — Fighting Pressure With Peace 28:45 - Final Encouragement: You Can Date Differently—One Step at a Time

Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you’re supposed to marry them.In this episode, we break down the real difference between romantic feelings and godly love—and why strong chemistry isn’t a good enough reason to say “yes” to forever.Whether you’re currently dating, deeply in love, or trying to discern if this is your person, this conversation will help you stop settling, get clarity, and move forward with confidence.📌 In this episode, you’ll learn:-How to tell if it’s just romance or real love-Why chemistry and connection aren’t enough for marriage-What godly suitability actually looks like-The role of purpose in Christian relationships-How to avoid marrying based on feelings alone⏱️ Chapters:0:00 – Intro: Romance ≠ Real Love2:45 – Why feelings aren’t the foundation8:27 – The difference between chemistry and compatibility10:01 – What “suitability” means in a godly relationship12:40 – Purpose: what’s the real “why” behind your relationship?15:15 – Red flags when love feels right but still wrong19:40 – Closing encouragement & what to pray for clarity

Dating as a Christian? Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married—these are the things you ACTUALLY need to honor God in every stage of your relationship.✅ We’re breaking down:- What to grab during the talking stage- Must-haves for dating with purpose- Essentials for the serious/engaged season- Game-changers for married couples👀 And the best part? 👉 Most of these are on sale for Amazon Prime Day!These aren’t just cute products—they’re tools that will help you:- Stay spiritually grounded- Build healthy connection- Keep your relationship fun AND holyCHAPTERS00:00 - Intro: Everything You ACTUALLY Need to Date God’s Way 01:55 - Talking Stage: Start With God 05:05 - Dating: Fun, Boundaries & Purpose 06:52 - Serious Stage: Discernment & Depth 9:44 - Engaged: Preparing for Marriage 12:36 - Married: Keeping It Holy & Hot 14:40 - Final Recap + Closing🛒 Shop All Our Prime Day Picks:https://www.amazon.com/shop/wearejustdating/list/2784D104BJ559?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_list_d Products We Mentioned:Prayer journalsConversation cardsDevotionals for singles, dating, engaged, & married couplesRegistry must-haves (air fryer, espresso machine, cozy robes)Bible essentials + journaling toolsDate night games + memory makers