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Swinging Isn’t What You Think: Busting the Biggest Lifestyle Myths | Episode 228

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down Swinger Myths vs. Reality and tackle some of the biggest misconceptions about the lifestyle.

They dive into common myths like “everyone has to hook up,” “only certain body types are welcome,” and the idea that you must look or perform a certain way to belong. Dan and Lacy explain how much choice, autonomy, and diversity actually exist in the lifestyle, and why pressure to participate or fit a mold is one of the biggest misunderstandings outsiders—and even newcomers—have.

Drawing from real-life experiences, they talk about how confidence, communication, and comfort matter far more than appearance or expectations. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle or already part of the community, this episode helps strip away the stigma and replace it with honest, no-BS insight into how things really work.

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Tuesday Talks: When the Camera’s Off — What Our Sex Life Really Looks Like | Episode 92

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid Tuesday Talks listener question.

This week, they hear from Nikki and Randy from Missouri, a couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 22 years and have successfully balanced their home life with their lifestyle journey. They’re curious how Dan and Lacy manage the attention that comes with hosting events, creating OnlyFans content, and being openly sexual in public spaces—while still maintaining a healthy, grounded relationship and personal sex life at home.

Dan and Lacy share an honest perspective that might surprise many listeners: despite the visibility, parties, and content creation, they don’t swing or hook up with strangers nearly as much as people assume. They explain how the lifestyle is actually just a small part of their overall sex life—not the center of it—and why protecting intimacy, connection, and boundaries at home matters more than chasing every opportunity. It’s a refreshing reminder that there’s no “right way” to live the lifestyle, and that balance looks different for every couple.

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New Year’s Eve Unfiltered: Tears, Tension & Turning It Around | Episode 227

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their wild trip to ALT for the Open Instinct New Year’s Eve Hotel Takeover, sponsored by their brand-new project, Electric Pleasures.

They arrive early with Dan handling sound and lighting production to set the vibe, while Lacy wastes no time having her own kind of fun, spending the day connecting with fans and filming spicy content. As the weekend heats up, they link up with friends for a steamy OnlyFans collab—until the night takes a sharp turn. A miscommunication explodes into a very public falling out between Lacy and her best friend on the dance floor, bringing tears, tension, and real emotional fallout to what was supposed to be a nonstop party.

After a much-needed reset over lunch with close friends, Dan and Lacy pull it together and dive back in. Dan takes over the DJ booth, turning the dance floor electric while enjoying plenty of attention behind the decks, and Lacy fully lets loose. The weekend wraps with bodies tangled, energy high, and an orgasm-filled group finale that proves once again this lifestyle isn’t just about the highs—it’s about navigating the chaos, the passion, and the messy moments in between.

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Tuesday Talks: Bush, Bare, or Somewhere in Between? Grooming in the Lifestyle | Episode 91

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks listener question—this time tackling a topic a lot of people wonder about but don’t always ask out loud: body hair in the lifestyle.

This week’s text comes from The Sexy Scientists, who are gearing up for their first lifestyle takeover and feeling curious (and maybe a little anxious) after hearing other podcasts talk about men getting Brazilian waxes. While he’s already well-trimmed, he wants to know what’s actually “normal” when it comes to male body hair in the lifestyle. Dan shares how he keeps things manscaped, and Lacy weighs in on her personal preferences.

Dan and Lacy dive into how grooming trends have evolved, why there’s been a noticeable resurgence of hair lately, and how preferences vary wildly from person to person. The one thing that never goes out of style? Good hygiene. Whether you’re smooth, trimmed, or natural, this episode breaks down how confidence, cleanliness, and communication matter far more than following any one trend.

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Body Positivity Uncensored — Our 2026 Reset | Episode 226

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for a real, no-BS conversation about something everyone thinks about but few talk about honestly — body positivity. And spoiler alert: it’s about a whole lot more than a number on a scale.

Dan and Lacy break down what body positivity really means to them, exploring how it shows up both physically and mentally, and how confidence, and emotional health play just as big of a role as appearance. Lacy opens up about navigating body image as a public figure and content creator on OnlyFans, while Dan shares his own perspective on self-worth and accountability.

They also talk about shifting the focus from looks to long-term health, sustainability, and showing up as your best self — not just for today, but for the future. From supporting each other to setting realistic goals, this episode is about growth, honesty, and holding yourself (and your partner) accountable as they head into 2026 and beyond feeling stronger, healthier, and more confident than ever.

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Tuesday Talks: How Do You Swing with a Teen at Home? | Episode 90

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks listener question.

This week, they hear from Kristen, who, along with her partner, is new to the lifestyle and navigating a unique challenge: having a teenager at home. She wants to know how couples can travel, attend clubs, and explore the lifestyle without raising suspicion from a curious or snoopy teen.

Dan and Lacy share practical strategies for discretion, planning trips, setting boundaries, and protecting privacy — while also stressing the importance of having a thoughtful plan if that conversation ever becomes necessary. From choosing the right cover stories to deciding how much (or how little) to share, they break down how to balance your lifestyle journey with real-world family dynamics.

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The Swing Nation 2025 Recap: Highs, Lows & Everything In Between | Episode 225

In this special New Year’s edition of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take a look back at everything 2025 had to offer.

Month by month, they recap the events, trips, takeovers, and unforgettable moments that shaped the year — celebrating the highs, acknowledging the challenges, and reflecting on the lessons learned along the way. From incredible community connections to personal growth behind the scenes, nothing is off the table in this honest year-end reflection.

Dan and Lacy also share what they’re most excited about heading into 2026, including new experiences, upcoming events, and the continued evolution of The Swing Nation community. Whether you were with them every step of the way or are just joining the journey, this episode is the perfect way to close out the year and kick off what’s next.

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Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — Cock Confidence in the Lifestyle | Episode 89

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from a male listener who’s struggling to connect with women at clubs and resorts.

He shares that he feels confident once things progress, but worries he’s being judged too quickly because he’s a grower, not a shower, and his softer size doesn’t reflect his fully aroused size. He’s concerned it’s costing him potential connections before he ever gets the chance to build chemistry.

Dan and Lacy talk about the pressure men can feel in lifestyle spaces, how confidence and energy matter more than anatomy. If you’ve ever felt insecure or overlooked in the lifestyle, this episode is full of real talk and practical advice to help you show up with confidence.

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