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Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how couples typically handle it, and whether being on your period is always a hard pass or if there are ways to still play within certain boundaries.

Dan and Lacy dive into the topic with their usual no-BS approach. They talk about some of the “home remedies” you should definitely avoid, as well as legitimate options that can help delay your cycle if timing is critical. They also break down how different couples approach intimacy during a period, and why it’s far more common — and accepted — than many people think.

At the end of the day, it all comes down to comfort, communication, and consent. Whether you’re navigating your first event or you’ve been in the lifestyle for years, this episode offers practical advice and reassurance around a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough.

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Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him.

Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultural norms, expectations, and moral frameworks shape the way people view non-monogamy, and how those ideas are evolving.

They also explore the many different ways couples and singles engage in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), from swinging to open relationships, and how individuals navigate identity, communication, and connection within those spaces.

Whether you’re curious about the psychology behind the lifestyle or looking to better understand the broader social landscape of ENM, this episode offers a thoughtful and engaging conversation that challenges assumptions and expands perspectives.

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Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-packs online to a very different reality in person, they’re wondering: how do you handle it? Do you call people out? Ask for verification pics or videos? Or just move on?

Dan and Lacy dive into the growing disconnect between online profiles and real-life expectations, sharing their thoughts on vetting, setting boundaries, and protecting your time and energy. They talk about practical ways to verify who you’re talking to without killing the vibe, and how to navigate those awkward moments when reality doesn’t match the hype.

Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with real-world advice on spotting red flags, avoiding disappointment, and keeping your experiences fun, sexy, and drama-free. Don’t miss this honest conversation on catfishing, AI, and the new reality of online connections.

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Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off.

After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy after watching some friends get busy at Dance & Play before deciding to call it a night.

The next day finally brings sunshine and warm weather, leading to a much-needed pool day before Glow Night. After the pool party, Daphne literally risks it all to sneak away and hook up with Dan before the night’s festivities. Dan begins feeling a little off physically but still pushes through the night, which eventually ends with a late-night jungle solarium playroom adventure.

By the next morning Dan is feeling terrible but manages to power through the Swing Nation meet-and-greet before spending the rest of the day in bed. That leaves Lacy flying solo to the fetish dinner, where friends gather for a night of bold outfits, playful spankings, and kinky entertainment before she heads to the top deck to officiate the wedding of Electric Pleasures DJ Sophie Vor.

From wild parties to sickness and everything in between, it’s a raw and hilarious look at the highs and lows of one unforgettable cruise adventure.

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Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties | Episode 99

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, they hear from a listener who is preparing to attend a BYOB lifestyle event and has a lot of practical questions. What kind of drinks should you bring? Do you need a bag to carry them? Are you expected to haul your drinks around all night? And while we’re at it… can you stash your toys in the same bag?

Dan and Lacy break down how BYOB events are extremely common in the lifestyle and explain the different ways these parties are structured. Some events provide mixers while guests bring their own liquor, while others require you to bring everything you’ll want for the night. They also talk about practical tips like finding ice, managing your drinks throughout the evening, and the best ways to keep things simple without feeling like you’re carrying a full bar around with you.

Whether you’re heading to your first house party or a BYOB hotel takeover, this episode is packed with helpful tips and real-world advice to help you show up prepared and ready to enjoy the night.

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Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat | Episode 234

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 1 of their latest adventure aboard the legendary Bliss Cruise.

The trip kicks off in Ft. Lauderdale with a high-energy pre-party hosted by Topless Travel before everyone sets sail for a week at sea with thousands of lifestyle couples. Day 1’s theme? Pirates. But before the real fun could begin, Mother Nature had other plans. Unseasonably rough seas, cold weather, and a rocking ship had plenty of cruisers battling seasickness as the voyage got off to a chaotic start.

Despite the rocky conditions, Dan and Lacy still managed to make their way to the playroom and keep the party going. Along the way, they share the behind-the-scenes moments from the first night onboard — including how the cold weather, rough seas, and even a surprisingly heated disagreement about hair care nearly derailed the trip before it really got started.

Whether you’ve been on a lifestyle cruise before or are curious what the first day at sea is really like, this episode is packed with funny moments, honest reflections, and a behind-the-scenes look at how this wild adventure began. Don’t miss Part 1 of the Bliss Cruise recap.

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Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means “It’s time to wrap this up and go.” She wants to know: Do Dan and Lacy use something similar? And is this a common practice in the lifestyle?

Dan and Lacy dive into the idea of secret signals, code words, and subtle check-ins between partners. They discuss why some couples love having a private communication system and how it can create a sense of security. But they also get honest about how these systems can sometimes backfire, leading to confusion, mixed messages, or even hurt feelings if not clearly defined and agreed upon beforehand.

They share their perspective on what actually works, what to think about before implementing secret communication, and why clarity and conversations matter more than clever signals.

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Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 233

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. With a strong interest in the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyle communities, she brings both professional expertise and an open-minded perspective to the conversation.

Together, they dive into common — and not so common — allergies people can experience during sex. From well-known sensitivities to condoms and lubricants to lesser-discussed reactions like semen allergies, they break down what these reactions can look like, how to recognize them, and what steps people can take if they suspect something isn’t right.

They also touch on vaginal dryness — why it happens more often than people think, and simple ways to address it. Dr. Stoehr offers practical guidance on when something is normal, when to make adjustments, and when it might be worth having a conversation with a medical professional.

Whether you’re active in the lifestyle or just want better information about sexual health, this episode is packed with expert insight, myth-busting clarity, and empowering education to help you feel more confident and comfortable in your experiences. Don’t miss this honest and informative discussion that bridges sexual health and non-monogamy.

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