The Support & Kindness Podcast - With Greg and Rich Episode 2: What Do You Do When You Feel Overwhelmed? Recorded: Saturday, September 13, 2025 Today Greg and Rich discussed “What Do You Do When You Feel Overwhelmed?” Episode summary Greg and Rich unpack what it feels like to be overwhelmed and share practical, compassionate strategies that work in real life - especially when you’re juggling brain injury, ADHD, family, and daily noise. They cover slowing down, prioritizing, grounding the nervous system, writing lists that actually help, shrinking big tasks, setting boundaries, delegating, and caring for the basics (food, water, sleep, movement). Greg also reads a thoughtful list of tips he received from GPT-5, which both hosts reflect on and endorse. They close with an open invitation to their free, confidential peer-led support groups held weekly. Highlights and key takeaways Slow down and prioritize: Pause, breathe, and pick the next single step.Make a simple list and sort by “must do today,” “could do this week,” and “parking lot.” Ground your nervous system: Try box breathing: inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4 (repeat 4–6 times).Use a cold-water reset: rinse hands/face or hold an ice cube for 30–60 seconds.5-4-3-2-1 grounding: name 5 things you see, 4 you feel, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste. Shrink the task: Cut big tasks in half, then in half again. Examples: “Write a report” → open a doc and write one sentence.“Clean the kitchen” → clear the sink and run the dishwasher.“Work out” → put on shoes, take a 5-minute walk. Use a 10-3-10 reset: 10 minutes: tidy one visible area or answer one small email.3 minutes: stretch, breathe, hydrate.10 minutes: focus on the single most important next step—no multitasking. Protect your inputs: Silence non-urgent notifications, close extra tabs, place your phone in another room.Use a calming playlist or white noise. Ask for help and delegate: Share bandwidth: “Could you summarize 5–10 pages?” “Can you handle dinner tonight?”It’s okay to ask early and delegate a piece, not the whole project. Set compassionate boundaries: “I don’t have capacity right now.”“I need to finish X before I commit.” Care for the basics: Eat protein + fiber, drink a full glass of water, move for 5 minutes, aim for consistent sleep. Reframe the story: “I can do this in small steps.”“Not everything is urgent. I will choose one.”Progress > perfection. End your day with a soft landing: Note 3 small wins, set tomorrow’s top 1–2 tasks, and do one soothing ritual (warm shower, tea, light reading, brief guided breathing). Noteworthy observations Overstimulation can escalate to panic or even seizures for some—slowing down isn’t optional; it’s protective.Families and teams can learn to spot early signs of overwhelm and support with simple cues like “slow down.”Delegation can be growth-building, especially for kids or teammates—assigning roles helps them step up. Greg — quotes and points Quotes: “Just the act of slowing down can make all the difference.”“Feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean that you’re failing—it means that you’re human.” (reflecting on the AI advice)“I feel lost and afraid and scared… my breathing labors. It’s just like I need some help.” Key points: Emphasizes the physical side of anxiety—tension and constriction—and how slowing down helps.Believes in writing things down as both a practical and calming step, even if the notebooks pile up.Endorses breathing as a reliable first-line tool when you’re on your own.Highlights the HALT guideline: don’t get too Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired.Reads and validates a comprehensive list of practical tips (breathing, cold water, 5-4-3-2-1, brain dump, shrinking tasks, 10-3-10 reset, protecting inputs, delegating, boundaries, basics, reframing, soft landing). Rich — quotes and points Quotes: “When I feel pressured, I freeze up… I can work myself into panic attacks or even seizures with overstimulation.”“I try and slow down and figure out what order I need to prioritize them in… take the food out so it doesn’t burn, then talk to my family member.” Key points: For TBI and ADHD, overwhelm often comes from overstimulation—multiple inputs at once.Uses both a digital list (big tasks) and a notepad (today’s tasks).Family has learned supportive signals—hands up, “slow down, Dad”—to prevent escalation.Delegation and coaching aren’t just relief valves; they build capability (his soccer coaching example of teaching players to run the offside trap). Practical toolkit from the episode Quick-start steps: Take 2–5 minutes for box breathing.Do a brain dump for 3–5 minutes; sort into “must today / could this week / parking lot.”Pick one next action and shrink it until it feels doable.Silence notifications, close tabs, and set a 20–30 minute...
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Oct 12 202517 mins