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The Selfish Snob | Stepping Into Your Power

The Selfish Snob | Stepping Into Your Power

By: Dr. Onaysia Martinez | Identity Coach Life Coach Business Coach Wellness Coach Mindset Coach Empowerment Coach Power Coach CEO Coach
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This podcast is for high-achieving Latinas who have achieved success, but lack fulfillment and purpose in their lives. You’ve already got the degree, you’ve wow’ed your family, you’ve landed the ”big girl” job, but you still feel like something is missing. You did everything your immigrant parents told you would make you happy in life. You thought everything you worked so hard for was going to be ”it”, but then quickly realized that you’re in need of something more. More impact. More purpose. More fulfillment... If you’re an ambitious Latina who’s living a life that just doesn’t quite fit right anymore and you’re ready to start going outside of the box society, family, and la cultura has placed on you, then you’re in the right place! Welcome to The Selfish Snob Podcast, where I teach women just like you how to find their purpose, ditch self-doubt, and create success on their own terms. Week by week, I teach you how to reconnect with who you are beyond the expectations of others so that you can start living a more purpose-driven, fulfilling life. This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked yourself: ”Is this all life has to offer?” ”What do you do when your job doesn’t fulfill you?” ”Am I going through an early life crisis?” ”How do I set boundaries with my family?” ”How do I find a job that makes me happy?” ”Why do I feel like I’m just going through the motions in life?” ”How do I find my true calling?” ”How do I pursue my passion with confidence?” ”How do I find happiness outside of a corporate job?” ”How do I take bold steps towards my dreams?” It’s time to stop wondering ”what if” and start planning what’s next! Ready to take the first step toward a life that truly feels like it was made FOR you? Be sure to hit that follow button and tune in every Monday so we can get to work on building out your dream life, together! Let’s Connect: Website: www.luvugurl.com TikTok: @dronaysiamartinez Instagram: @dronaysiamartinezCopyright Luv U Gurl Media & Coaching 2025 All rights reserved. Career Success Economics Personal Development Personal Success Social Sciences
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  • Ep23 | Stepping Into Power: The Bold Shift You Didn’t Know You Needed
    Jul 1 2025

    What if the thing you thought was your purpose… was just the preview?

    In this raw and revealing episode of The Selfish Snob, Dr. Onaysia Martinez returns from the ROI Millionaire Summit with a fire that’s impossible to ignore—and a message that’s about to change everything. After hosting 3 sold-out brain dates and witnessing back-to-back client breakthroughs, Onaysia is pivoting—but not in the way you think.

    ✨ In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • The real reason behind the podcast’s bold new direction

    • Why pursuing purpose isn’t enough anymore

    • How the ROI Summit catalyzed a full identity shift

    • What boldness coaching is—and why high-achieving women need it

    • A sneak peek of what’s coming in Season 2 (including live coaching + guest interviews)

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re waiting for a sign, a shift, or someone to give you permission—this is it. This is your wake-up call to stop playing small, start owning your power, and go all in on the next level version of you.

    Ready to take action? Join the 100K in 100 Days Challenge and start scaling your income and impact, boldly and unapologetically.

    💥 Want a breakthrough in your business—fast? Book a Boldness Activation Call now at LuvUGurl.com

    🎧 Subscribe for Season 2, where bold truths meet big breakthroughs.

    Be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a review to help other women not only find their purpose, but find the BOLDNESS to go after what they want!

    Let's Connect!

    Instagram: @DrOnaysiaMartinez

    LinkedIn: Dr. Onaysia Martinez

    TikTok: @DrOnaysiaMartinez

    Learn more: www.LuvUGurl.com

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    13 mins
  • Ep 22 | Your Questions on Burnout, Boundaries & Becoming You—Answered By Yours Truly [Part 2]
    Jun 24 2025

    You’ve heard the story. Now it’s time to step into the strategy.

    In Part 2 of this exclusive Q&A, The Selfish Snob podcast flips the mic back to Dr. Onaysia Martinez, your go-to identity expert and CEO coach, for a no-fluff, soul-nourishing roadmap to finally stop performing—and start becoming.

    Because what you've been feeling isn't about burnout. It’s your soul begging for evolution.

    🎧 Inside this episode, we dive into:

    • The high cost of overgiving—mentally, physically, and spiritually

    • The "Should Filter": a daily mindset tool to reclaim your time and energy

    • Why your nervous system can’t fake alignment (and what to do about it)

    • A real-life client win: from generational guilt to radical freedom

    • How Dr. Onaysia’s program Her Time Now guides women from silent burnout to bold rebirth

    If Part 1 cracked you open, Part 2 will show you how to rebuild with intention, joy, and power.

    This is your permission slip, sis: To grieve the old version of you. To walk away from the roles that no longer fit. To reclaim the life that was always yours.

    Connect with Dr. Onaysia: 🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com 📲 IG, TikTok & LinkedIn: @DrOnaysiaMartinez

    00:00 Unlocking Your Inner Power 01:01 Challenging Limiting Beliefs 03:52 The Cost of Overgiving 07:34 Steps to Personal Transformation 09:35 Client Success Stories 12:37 Building a Legacy 16:41 Coaching Program: Her Time Now
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    29 mins
  • Ep 21 | Your Questions on Burnout, Boundaries & Becoming You—Answered By Yours Truly [Part 1]
    Jun 17 2025

    Ever feel like you’re living a life that doesn’t quite belong to you? Like your success looks good on paper—but your body, your energy, and your joy say otherwise?

    In Part 1 of this intimate, unfiltered Q&A, The Selfish Snob podcast welcomes a very special guest: Dr. Onaysia Martinez, Identity Elevation Expert, CEO Coach, and founder of Luv U Gurl. But here’s the twist—she’s also the host.

    In this behind-the-scenes episode, the mic turns on Onaysia as she answers YOUR questions about identity, burnout, and the cost of being the “strong one” for everyone but yourself. It’s raw. It’s real. It’s exactly what high-achieving Latinas need to hear.

    🎧 In this episode, you’ll hear:

    • Why burnout isn’t always about being tired—it’s about being misaligned

    • What identity dissonance is and how it shows up in your body

    • The moment Onaysia realized she was living someone else’s life

    • How Luv U Gurl began as a nightly ritual—and turned into a revolutionary movement

    • The biggest mindset shift that helped her walk away from a thriving clinic (and toward her calling)

    ✨ This is not just an interview. It’s a call to return to yourself.

    If you’ve ever whispered: “I don’t know who I am anymore…” “Everyone needs me—but I feel invisible…” “I’m successful, but I’m not fulfilled…”

    Then sis—this one’s for you. Be sure to tune in next week for Part 2 where Dr. Onaysia drops a serious gem and daily resource that she gives her clients to level up their identities.

    Connect with Dr. Onaysia: 🌐 Website: www.LuvUGurl.com 📲 IG, TikTok & LinkedIn: @DrOnaysiaMartinez

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    25 mins

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