What's up, Real Humans! On this episode, Tristan chats with his favorite human, Nancy Reyes Frazier, aka Real Human #6. They have been married for almost eleven years and met as graduate students at Dallas Theological Seminary. In the episode, they explore her formation in music and theology. She is working to complete her dissertation about first-century commensality and the apostle Paul's Christological imagination.

This is understandably a two-part episode. In part 2, Tristan wraps up his conversation with Nancy as she shares her experience as a Mexican American female in theology and provides insights and encouragement for those who want to follow in her path.

Hope you enjoy!

Nancy's Bio

Nancy Piedad Reyes Frazier’s research interests are found at the intersection of theology and cultural phenomenology, particularly as it relates to Christology, revelation, and communal ethics.

Listen and Watch Nancy

www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcGu-TMqKco

Read Nancy

www.sacredrootsministry.org/spiritual-classics/the-interior-castle

www.fathommag.com/stories/the-new-mestiza

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What’s up Real Humans! In this episode of the Real Humans Podcast, Tristan speaks with Real Human #5, Ayorkor Adjei (@ayorkor_adjei) about how using sign language early in her life prepared her for a future of working to bridge the gap between the hearing and the Deaf.

Ayorkor spent the first 11 yrs of her life in the Bronx, NY. During this time, she learned sign language from her older brother, who is hard of hearing, so that they could communicate with each other. This makes her the sibling of a deaf adult or SODA.

Fast forward, now she utilizes her ASL interpreting skills in various settings, such as religious, theatrical, musical, educational, medical, Video Relay Service (VRS), and conferences. She particularly comes alive when interpreting music in Christian worship settings.

Ayorkor’s passion comes through as we dive deep into what it was like for her growing up with a sibling who is hard of hearing, jump roping double-dutch (her other passion), and how she is working to help hearing parents connect and build relationships with their children who are deaf or hard of hearing.

We laugh a lot in this episode. So get ready! Enjoy the conversation.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Ayorkor’s early experiences in the Bronx

• Growing up with a sibling who is hard of hearing

• The nickname that has followed her into adulthood

• Her Ghanian mom advocating for her brother in the American healthcare system

• Acculturation and Codeswitching (in the deaf and hard of hearing community…YES!)

• Personal and professional costs of pursuing her passion

• The importance of parents having expectations for their children with disabilities

• How God has used Ayorkor in ASL work

Resources

Instagram: www.instagram.com/ayorkor_adjei/

Website: www.shineandsignforchrist.com

National Association for the Deaf: https://www.nad.org/

Deaf Action Center of North Texas: https://dactexas.org/

Center for Deaf and Hard of Hearing Education: www.in.gov/health/cdhhe/

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What’s up Real Humans! On this close-out episode, Tristan wraps up his time with Real Human #4, Dr. Eva Bleeker, aka "Chaplain Eva". She goes deeper into the powerful impact of narrative-oriented care in her academic research, chaplaincy care, and teaching. Chaplain Eva also shares how engaging her own story or narrative wreckage equipped her to walk alongside others in hospitals, in the classroom, and in life.

Guest Bio

Chaplain Eva is a board-certified professional chaplain with a decade of experience in acute care hospitals and an assistant professor at Denver Seminary. Her research sits at the intersection of pastoral care, narrative identity, and practical theology. She holds a Master of Science in Narrative Medicine from Columbia University, two Master of Arts degrees from Dallas Theological Seminary (Christian Education and Media and Communication), and a doctorate from Baylor University. Through her teaching, Chaplain Eva aims to integrate pastoral theory, empirical data, and the biblical text.

In this episode, you will hear:

• The intersection of her research interests and Life Story

• The importance of narrative wreckage catchers

• Redemptive/Reparative themes in care work

• Leading a new generation of stopping church hurt

• Moving into the academy during a season of discouragement

• What not to tell yourself

This episode is dedicated to the Rev. G. William “Bill” Bryan (1936-2018)

voice.dts.edu/article/bill-bryan-tribute

Connect with Chaplain Eva

evableeker.com/

Resources

• Ronda Cooper - The Story Catchers

• Dan McAdams

• Dr. Arthur Frank - The Wounded Storyteller, narrative wreckage

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What's up, Real Humans! How do you voluntarily enter into human suffering and provide hope and healing? On this episode, Tristan is joined by Real Human #3 Dr. Eva Bleeker, aka Chaplain Eva to discuss her experiences of chaplaincy, passions in research, and serving students in the academy. We talk about all the things! So much so, that I ran out of time for Zoom (Free version). Check out part 2!

Guest Bio

Chaplain Eva is a board-certified professional chaplain with a decade of experience in acute care hospitals and an assistant professor at Denver Seminary. Her research sits at the intersection of pastoral care, narrative identity, and practical theology. She holds a Master of Science in Narrative Medicine from Columbia University, two Masters of Arts from Dallas Theological Seminary (Christian Education and Media and Communication), and a doctorate from Baylor University. Through her teaching, Chaplain Eva aims to integrate pastoral theory, empirical data, and the biblical text.

This episode is dedicated to the Reverend Chaplain G. Bill Bryan:

https://voice.dts.edu/article/bill-bryan-tribute/

In this episode, you will hear:

• Chaplain Eva's origins and narrative
• Her pioneering role and influence
• Her view on self-donation in caring for people
• The costs and fulfillment associated with caring for people
• Race, Injustice, Authority, and Equity in caring for people

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What's up, Real Humans! How do you recovering from your mother being murdered? On this episode, Tristan is joined by Real Human #2 De’Drain (Day-drin) Mitchell to discuss his experience of domestic violence and how his faith helped him to navigate from despair to hope.

Guest Bio

De’Drain is currently the student ministry leader at Harvest Fellowship Baptist Church and enjoys watching his students grow in their knowledge and understanding of Jesus Christ. He is also the Founder and Owner of Kenosis Brand. Through his company, De’Drain unites profit and purpose by offering premium T-shirts where 10% of profits are donated to survivors of domestic violence, and college students are provided writing and tutoring services.

Real Humans Real Quote: "My mom was preparing me for life without her."--De'Drain Mitchell

In this episode, you will hear:

• Domestic violence (DV) story from a male survivor's perspective
• Statistics about DV to give you context
• How secrecy can be toxic for your relationships
• Patterns of destructive coping
• Tips and resources for navigating DV

Connect with De'Drain

⁠https://kenosisbrand.square.site/

Supporting Resources

⁠Besser van der Kolk - www.nicabm.com⁠

⁠Lydia Brownback - lydiabrownback.com⁠

⁠Brene Brown - brenebrown.com

Episode Credits

Intro and Outro Music

⁠https://pixabay.com/music/beats-fun-life-112188/

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What's up, Real Humans! On this Intro episode, I chat with my friend, Real Human #2, Dave Largent. Dave shares his thoughts on the future of elder care, leading Boomers through the COVID pandemic, and how he approaches self-care.

Guest Bio

Dave is married to Cindy. They have two sons, Samuel and Stephen. Dave roasts his own coffee beans and loves to cook, hike, read, and to spend time with people. Dave is the Pastor of Autumn Leaves Senior Living Center in Dallas.

Watch and Listen to Dave

voice.dts.edu/chapel/jesus-christ-and-him-crucified/

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