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The Real Connect

The Real Connect

By: Tamika Carlton
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The Real Connect is your go-to podcast for building relationships that mean something. The Real Connect Podcast is hosted by relationship expert and advocate Tamika Carlton; each episode goes beyond the surface to explore what it truly takes to connect with yourself, others, and with purpose. If you’re ready to create relationships that uplift every part of your life, this podcast is about real talk, actionable insights, expert advice, and relatable stories to guide you to the best romantic and platonic relationships.Tamika Carlton Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Sis, You're Not The Only One Holding It Together
    Jun 18 2025

    If you’ve ever tried to show up fully as a Black woman, for a Black woman, or in a world that often doesn’t know what to do with your truth, this episode is for you.


    This special compilation from Season 1 of The Real Connect Podcast brings together some of the most honest, layered, and revealing moments of the season. It’s about the relationships that shaped us, the boundaries that saved us, and the healing we’re still figuring out in real time.


    You’ll hear stories about work, family, mentorship, and survival all which tackles what it feels like to grow up unseen, navigate leadership without support, and relearn how to trust yourself after being burned. It’s about connection, but not the polished kind. The kind that’s earned. Fought for. Chosen.


    This episode is a reminder: you don’t have to hold it all alone. We’ve been there too.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. What happens when Black women stop shrinking and start sharing


    2. How to tell the difference between love and control


    3. Why healing isn’t a final destination but a daily practice


    Watch. Reflect. Pass it on.

    This space was made with you in mind.


    🔗 Watch, subscribe, and leave a comment if this spoke to you!


    🎧 Stay Connected:

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights on everything relationships! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    Visit Tamika's: https://www.tamikacarlton.com to stay connected.


    Connect with the guests:

    Portia James on Instagram: instagram.com/missportiajames

    Vincent Tobias Bell on Instagram: instagram.com/vincenttobiasbell

    Logan Bailey-Perkins: instagram.com/friendlyphilosophy

    Riana Malia: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rianamalia/


    00:00 Introduction: Connecting with Black Women

    00:21 Understanding the Audience

    00:30 Challenges Faced by Black Women

    01:32 Personal Experiences and Mentorship

    04:16 The Importance of Vulnerability

    05:31 Family and Relationships

    10:29 Health and Crisis

    14:30 Career and Personal Growth

    18:22 Forgiveness and Healing

    20:49 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Growth


    #TheRealConnect #BlackWomenRelationships #EmotionalBoundaries #SelfWork #VulnerabilityIsCourage #Season1Recap #RealConversations

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    22 mins
  • Leaving Seattle, Choosing an HBCU, and Getting Real with My Husband | Tamika Carlton
    Apr 30 2025

    In the final episode of Season 1 of The Real Connect podcast, Tamika Carlton breaks the fourth wall in a brand new format, answering unexpected, unfiltered questions from her husband, Logan. From love and personal growth to major life pivots, nothing is off-limits. Logan brings the heat with topics Tamika didn’t see coming, including her decision to leave Seattle for an HBCU and how that bold move reshaped her entire journey. It’s raw, real, and the perfect way to close out the season.


    Key Takeaways:


    1. How moving away from Seattle and attending an HBCU transformed Tamika’s perspective on life and community.

    2. The role of unexpected challenges in personal growth and resilience.

    3. What it takes to maintain authenticity while navigating relationships and big life changes.


    After you listen, let us know what you think. Like, comment, and share your thoughts!


    🎧 Stay Connected:Follow Tamika on Instagram: / tamika_carltonjbp Follow Jeofroi on Instagram: / _jeofroi Follow Roy on Instagram: / roycareyware Follow Jeffrey on Instagram: / alistjeff 📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: https://www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction and Opening Thoughts

    01:00 Welcome to the Real Connect Podcast

    01:19 Logan's Questions Begin

    01:55 The Seattle Foundation

    03:01 Experiences at Virginia State

    03:39 Cultural Differences and Growth

    07:48 Building and Maintaining Relationships

    11:07 The Importance of Stepping Out

    13:48 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    15:56 Conclusion and Call to Action


    #TheRealConnect #TamikaCarlton #HBCUJourney #SeattleToHBCU #BlackLove #SeasonFinale #AuthenticConversations #PodcastLife #SpotifyPodcast #YouTubePodcast #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #LifeTransitions #UnfilteredTalks #CouplesInConversation


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    16 mins
  • From Friends to Founders | Jeofroi | The Fashion Brand Everyone’s Watching
    Apr 23 2025

    What happens when two creative souls meet, click, and decide to build something real together? On this episode of The Real Connect Podcast, Tamika Carlton sits down with Jeffrey Taylor and Roy Carey, the authentic force behind the rising fashion brand Jeofroi.


    We get into the heart of how their fashion partnership was born from a college connection to building a brand rooted in loyalty, admiration, and vision. This episode is full of laughs, real stories, and gems for anyone dreaming big, building brands, or seeking deeper partnerships.


    We talk about:


    Why authentic partnerships create lasting success, how to build a fashion brand with purpose (and not lose yourself in the process), and the real truth behind working with someone you love and admire.


    📌 Key Takeaways:


    1. Be yourself and build from there.

    2. The right partner elevates both the vision and the vibe.

    3. In fashion and life, it’s all about staying grounded and connected.


    This one’s for the entrepreneurs, dreamers, and creators who know that connection is the real flex.


    🖤 Let’s get into it.


    🔗 Watch, subscribe, and leave a comment if this spoke to you!


    🎧 Stay Connected:

    Follow Tamika on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamika_carltonjbp

    Follow Jeofroi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jeofroi/

    Follow Roy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/roycareyware/

    Follow Jeffrey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alistjeff/

    📩 Join The Connect—a free weekly newsletter with real insights! https://www.tamikacarlton.com/newsletter

    🌍 Visit Tamika’s Website: https://www.tamikacarlton.com


    00:00 Introduction and Excitement for the Episode

    00:58 Meet Jeffrey and Roy from Jeofroi

    01:36 The Hilarious First Meeting

    04:25 Building a Strong Partnership

    06:25 Starting Jeofroi

    14:43 Navigating the Fashion Industry

    22:03 Balancing Emotions in Business

    23:27 The Power of Authenticity

    26:42 Vision for the Future

    30:36 Rapid-Fire Questions

    35:28 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude


    #TheRealConnect #Jeofroi #FashionBrand #AuthenticPartnerships #FashionEntrepreneurs #BusinessWithHeart #JeffreyAndRoy #TamikaCarlton #RealConversations #BuildingTogether #BrandStorytelling

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    38 mins
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