Why are we so obsessed with the dark side of life? From true crime and horror movies to disaster documentaries and haunted house tours, morbid curiosity is everywhere - but what does it actually say about us? In today’s episode, we explore the psychology of morbid curiosity - why we’re drawn to frightening, disturbing, and even grotesque content, and how this strange pull might be more adaptive than we think.

We discuss:

• What morbid curiosity really is, and how it shows up in daily life
• The four types of morbid curiosity (and which ones you might lean toward)
• How personality traits like openness and sensation seeking shape our preferences
• Why some people find comfort in horror, and others find control in true crime
• The evolutionary and neurological roots of this phenomenon
• How morbid curiosity can turn maladaptive (and where the line is)

Whether you're deep into Reddit rabbit holes or just wondering why you can't look away from crime scene documentaries, this episode is for you. We explore the fascinating science behind fear, survival, and our cultural obsession with darkness - and why it might say more about our strength than our weakness.

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Ever wondered why everyone seems to break up just before 28? Or why your friend who was just about to settle down with her boyfriend of 7 years is suddenly single and wanting to go out clubbing again? Or why you suddenly realised your long term relationship wasn't for you, and found yourself in Europe or on 4 dates in a row the next week? It's because of post long-term relationship puberty: a term that describes the rapid personality change that takes place in people who have been in a relationship for most of their 20s, but suddenly find themselves single in their late 20s, ready to make up for lost time. In today's episode we describe the end of long-term relationships in our 20s, including:

• The 7 year itch
• Why we suddenly realise someone isn't right for us
• The growth that happens after a breakup
• Why people settle in their 20s
• The pros and cons of single life vs. dating life
• How to not go back to your ex
• How to embrace your single era

Listen now!

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It is our 300th episode and 4 YEARS since The Psychology of your 20s first began. To celebrate, I'm releasing one of my most requested topics ever that has nothing to do with psychology: how do you start a podcast? More broadly, why is it a good idea? What do I wish I'd known when I'd started? How much does the gear cost? What happens if no one listens? All your burning questions on my journey and where to start will be covered (along with a few tears of gratitude), thank you for 300 episodes and giving me the best job ever!

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What happens when the people who were supposed to guide and nurture us were never taught to emotionally grow up themselves? In today’s episode, we dive into the psychology of emotionally immature parents - their behaviours, their blind spots, and the lasting impact they can have on our sense of self and emotional well-being.

We discuss:

• How to spot emotional immaturity in parents
• Where it can come from, and links to attachment theory
• The impact on your identity, boundaries, and adult relationships
• Why detaching with kindness can help
• The guilt, grief, and tension that often comes with this dynamic
• How to begin healing and reparenting yourself

If you’ve ever felt like the parent in your own family, or found yourself stuck in a cycle of seeking validation from someone who just can’t give it - this episode is for you.

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If you're like me, there are always a million things on my 'To Do' or 'Should Do' list and they seem to take up all my time and attention. What ever happened to just having FUN! Being silly. Being joyful. Being delighted. In today's episode we're going to talk about why your life feels boring and exactly HOW and WHY you should be prioritising fun experiences over serious, important ones. We talk about:

• Why fun is easier to achieve than happiness
• The real health benefits of having more fun
• The 3 types of fun
• 4 tips to have more fun in daily life
• Why acting like a child may make you live longer + so much more

Listen now and have fun!

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We often take our health for granted in our 20s, but this is one of the most crucial moments for investing in your long term wellbeing. Despite that, it's often hard to know what to do and where to start, so today we have on Dr Mark Hyman to discuss the best things you can do for your health during this decade, including:

• The power of sleep
• How to curb your nicotine addiction
• When to drink, when not to drink
• The truth about processed food and how much should we be eating
• The value of social connection
• The next wave of mental health treatment

Listen now!

You can find Dr Mark Hyman here: https://drhyman.com/

Function Health: https://www.functionhealth.com/

Dr Hyman's podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@drmarkhyman/videos

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*please note the views of guests are not necessarily shared by those of our host. We invite open discussion and differing viewpoints, experiences and information.

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Being an assertive communicator is so much more than just being demanding or confident, it comes down to our emotional ease, how we hold ourselves, how we make others feel, how we frame even the smallest of questions. It's also not something that is taught to us and if it doesn't come naturally, we have to learn on our own. In this episode I break down the FIVE scientifically proven ways to be a more assertive communicator, including:

1. The power of the pause
2. How assertive communicators use their body
3. Self authoring language
4. Visualisation! Visualisation! Visualisation!
5. How to leverage the Dunning-Kruger Effect

Plus 7 rapid fire tips you may or may not know! Happy (assertive) listening!

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Have you ever opened up, shared something real, and then immediately regretted it? That post-overshare spiral—the “why did I say that?” dread—is what we call a vulnerability hangover. In this episode, we dive deep into the psychology behind why vulnerability can feel so physically and emotionally intense, even when it’s necessary, honest, and healing.

We explore:

• The two types of vulnerability hangovers (and why both are valid)
• Why alcohol, trauma dumping, and people-pleasing make it worse
• How shame and past betrayals shape our fear of being seen
• The neuroscience behind your emotional "come down"
• What to do the day after you said too much
• How to make vulnerability a tool for connection—not something to fear

Plus, we answer listener questions on post-therapy crashes, drunk confessions, and how to stay open even when it’s hard. If you’re sitting with a case of the cringe, this episode is for you.

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