Who said adults can't also play?

This week, Erica and Milah are joined by Michael Hollice, founder of The Play, the largest ethical play party on the West Coast, to talk all things sexual health, testing, and why playing as an adult doesn’t have to be taboo.

The three chat about what it means to explore pleasure with honesty, curiosity, and consent at the center. From destigmatizing STI testing (seriously, just pee in the cup) to navigating ethical non-monogamy and threesomes that don’t end in tears (or texts from your ex), this episode is a real one. Whether you're lifestyle-curious or just want to strengthen your "no," this conversation reminds us that sexual freedom starts with self-awareness.

You can expect to hear:

6:00 – Erica and Milah debate if Lola Bunny is actually Black (deep cartoon discourse)

15:00 – Michael’s cheating confession and how it sparked a journey into open love

22:00 – The awkward (and honest) truth about first threesomes

30:00 – STI testing: how to do it, why it matters, and yes, there’s a rectal swab

40:00 – Consent: how to say no and mean it with love

52:00 – Why play parties aren’t just sex parties—and how The Play sets a new standard

1:08:00 – Learning to say no without guilt (and why most of us were never taught how)

1:30:00 – DIBS: Desires, Intentions, Boundaries & Sexuality—the real pregame

Share this with a friend who thinks "sex parties" are just for freaks, and remind them: there’s power in knowing your status, healing in being honest, and freedom in simply playing.

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