• The Wounds We Mistake for Love
    Oct 30 2025
    In this episode of The New Ashla Podcast: Embracing the Shadow through Self Mastery, Mike and Justin delve into the complexities of toxic relationships and the healing process that follows. They explore the dynamics of love, attachment, and the impact of core wounds on our relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-respect, responsibility, and the gradual journey of healing. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences, identify their core wounds, and take actionable steps towards self-discovery and healing. The episode concludes with affirmations and exercises designed to support personal growth and emotional well-being.New Ashla Links:Get the book here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://a.co/d/4ADHZyA⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/NewAshla⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/JustinVGates⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@justinvgates?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@KnightsofAwakening⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@TemplumLumis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.newashla.com⁠⁠TakeawaysHealing from a toxic relationship is about returning to yourself.Toxicity in relationships is often a dynamic, not just one bad person.Our psyche is designed to avoid being the 'bad guy' in our own stories.Love can become survival, complicating relationship dynamics.Trauma bonds create cycles of affection and withdrawal.Confusion often thrives in toxic relationships, distorting reality.Taking responsibility is key to reclaiming power in relationships.Respect for oneself and others is crucial in healing.Healing is a gradual process of self-discovery and integration.No one is beyond redemption; healing is possible.Keywordstoxic relationships, trauma bonds, healing after heartbreak, emotional healing, core wounds, attachment styles, inner child healing, shadow work, codependency, emotional abuse recovery, self-discovery, self-trust, self-worth, self-love, emotional intelligence, boundaries, letting go, nervous system healing, somatic healing, healing journey, trauma recovery, relationship recovery, self-respect, self-awareness, emotional health, psychology of love, spiritual awakening, healing from narcissistic abuse, emotional triggers, conscious relationships, trauma informed healing, mental health, self empowerment, heartbreak recovery, mindfulness, self reflection, personal development, relationship trauma, understanding attachment, emotional regulation, nervous system regulation, healing the inner child, emotional resilience, overcoming toxicity, reclaiming your power, personal transformation, spiritual growth, forgiveness, self compassion, healing patterns, love addiction, abandonment wound, worthiness, self acceptance, growth mindset, relationship patterns, inner work, authenticity, trauma healing podcast, psychology podcast, healing podcast, self help podcast, spiritual podcast, personal growth podcast
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  • Stop Living Halfway: The Dangers of Half Measures
    Oct 28 2025

    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Justin Gates and Michael Perry discuss the concept of 'half measures' and how they impact various aspects of life, including personal goals, relationships, and professional commitments. They explore the costs associated with half-hearted efforts, the importance of clarity, responsibility, and courage, and the need for patience and decisiveness. The conversation emphasizes the significance of integrity and truth in fostering genuine connections and achieving personal growth. The hosts also highlight the dangers of inflexibility and the value o fguidance in navigating life's challenges. The episode concludes with affirmations and actionable steps for listeners to move from half measures to full commitment in their lives.

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    Takeaways

    Don't settle for half measures in life.

    Half measures can hold us back from true fulfillment.

    Clarity and discipline are essential for growth.

    Responsibility requires courage and commitment.

    Truth is vital for authentic relationships.

    Integrity is the antidote to half measures.

    Patience is an investment in long-term success.

    Decisiveness is key to overcoming hesitation.

    Flexibility allows for growth and adaptation.

    Guidance from others can illuminate our path.

    Keywords

    half measures, commitment, responsibility, clarity, courage, truth, integrity, patience, decisiveness, guidance

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    56 mins
  • Are They a Narcissist — or Just Hurt? The Real Difference No One Talks About
    Oct 23 2025

    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Mike and Justin explore the complex topic of narcissism, discussing its spectrum from healthy to unhealthy behaviors. They delve into the different types of narcissists, including overt and covert, and the impact of these behaviors on relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy, accountability, and self-awareness in understanding and navigating narcissistic dynamics. They also highlight the significance of healing from narcissistic relationships and the role of compassion in fostering healthier connections.


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    Takeaways

    Narcissism exists on a spectrum, from healthy to unhealthy.

    Overt narcissists are loud and attention-seeking, while covert narcissists often play the victim.

    Healthy narcissism can promote self-advocacy and self-respect.

    Gaslighting is a common tactic used by narcissists to manipulate others.

    Empathy is crucial in understanding narcissistic behaviors and their impact.

    Healing from narcissistic relationships requires self-awareness and boundaries.

    Compassion does not mean tolerating toxic behavior.

    The most traumatized individuals often become the best healers.

    Chemistry in relationships does not guarantee compatibility.

    Recognizing narcissistic traits can help in setting healthy boundaries.


    Keywords

    narcissism, covert narcissism, overt narcissism, healthy narcissism, malignant narcissism, gaslighting, manipulation, emotional abuse, trauma bonds, relationships, empathy, self-awareness, healing, toxic behavior, self-love, boundaries, ego, insecurity, control, projection, psychology, self-trust, accountability, shadow work, emotional intelligence, personal growth, trauma recovery, toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, codependency, mental health, self-worth, emotional healing, spiritual growth, red flags, self-reflection, self-discovery, inner work, awakening, transformation, mindfulness, toxic dynamics, awareness, trust, honesty, authenticity




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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Confronting the Monsters Within: The Path of Healing
    Oct 21 2025
    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, hosts Justin Gates and Michael Perry delve into the concept of the 'monsters within'—the fears, shame, anger, and hatred that reside in our hearts and minds. They explore how these internal struggles can paralyze us, distort our perceptions, and hinder our growth. Through discussions on accountability, the importance of facing our fears, and the transformative power of truth and connection, the hosts provide insights and exercises aimed at helping listeners confront and heal from their inner demons. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-discovery, compassion, and the courage to embrace our imperfections as part of the human experience. Mike and Justin explore the themes of deception, greed, and attachment, discussing how these shadows impact our authenticity and integrity. They emphasize the importance of facing these shadows, transforming them into teachers, and cultivating generosity and connection as pathways to personal growth and freedom.New Ashla Links:Get the book here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://a.co/d/4ADHZyA⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/NewAshla⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/JustinVGates⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@justinvgates?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@KnightsofAwakening⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youtube.com/@TemplumLumis⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.newashla.comTakeawaysThe real monsters are within us, not external.Fear, shame, and anger are daily struggles we face.Naming our fears diminishes their power.Confusion can distort our reasoning and actions.We are responsible for our inner world.Shame thrives in isolation and secrecy.Anger can be a signal for change, not a destructive force.Hatred consumes and isolates us from others.Forgiveness is essential for healing and growth.Connection with others is vital for overcoming shame. Deception allows us to ignore our inner truths and the realities around us.Every lie we tell fractures trust, both with ourselves and others.Authenticity is essential for personal well-being and community health.Greed and attachment disguise themselves as needs for security and love.True wealth is found in connection and generosity, not in possessions.Facing our shadows is a path to transformation and healing.Generosity is the spirit of a knight, embodying compassion and loyalty.We must question commonly held beliefs and be open to new information.The shadows we face are not enemies but guides to our healing.Self-trust is crucial; the soul knows the truth, even if the mind deceives. Chapters00:00 The Monsters Within Us08:54 Fear: The Paralyzer21:49 Shame: The Silent Destroyer32:29 Breaking the Silence of Shame37:52 Transforming Anger into Understanding42:53 The Power of Forgiveness46:20 Deception: The Masked One56:13 The Importance of Truth and Integrity01:01:58 The Shadows of Greed and Attachment01:08:15 Generosity: The Path to Freedom01:17:53 Transforming Shadows into Teachers01:22:23 Reframing Our Shadows01:29:59 Final Thoughts and AffirmationsKeywordsmonsters within, fear, shame, anger, healing, self-discovery, inner wisdom, accountability, transformation, redemption, deception, integrity, authenticity, greed, attachment, generosity, truth, self-awareness, personal growth, emotional healing
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    1 hr and 30 mins
  • Tools of the Mystic With Allyson Perry-Turner
    Oct 16 2025

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    Website: https://unstitchedmuse.wixsite.com/unstitched-muse

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    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Michael Perry, Justin Gates, and Allyson Perry-Turner explore the mystical tools of Reiki, astrology, and tarot. They discuss the growing popularity of these practices, the misconceptions surrounding them, and how they can be used as tools for personal growth and healing. Allyson shares her journey into these modalities, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and self-discovery.

    The conversation delves into the practical applications of Reiki and astrology, highlighting their roles in navigating life's challenges and understanding oneself better. In this conversation, the hosts explore the profound connections between astrology, tarot, and personal growth. They discuss how astrology serves as a sacred mirror reflecting one's strengths and weaknesses, while tarot acts as a tool for intuition and self-discovery. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions and using these modalities to navigate the labyrinth of one's soul, ultimately leading to a re-storying of personal narratives through mythos. They discuss the mechanics of astrology and tarot readings, providing insights into individual readings for Justin and Mike. The conversation emphasizes the importance of curiosity, emotional awareness, and the interconnectedness of various spiritual practices. Allyson shares her offerings and the significance of one-on-one guidance in navigating these spiritual tools.


    Takeaways

    Reiki, astrology, and tarot are interconnected tools for healing.

    Curiosity drives exploration in spirituality and personal growth.

    Divination tools can help ask better questions about oneself.

    Reiki sessions focus on channeling energy for self-healing.

    Astrology provides a blueprint for understanding oneself and navigating life.

    Personal experiences with energy work can lead to profound healing.

    Astrology is not about predicting the future but understanding cycles.

    The influence of planetary movements affects collective experiences.

    Self-sovereignty is essential in personal decision-making.

    Understanding one's birth chart can lead to deeper self-awareness. Astrology highlights strengths and weaknesses, guiding personal growth.

    Tarot serves as a tool for intuition and self-reflection.

    Both astrology and tarot can help individuals understand their paths.

    It's essential to honor both strengths and weaknesses in oneself.

    Asking the right questions is crucial for self-discovery.

    Tarot can be used for shadow work and personal insights.

    The integration of astrology, tarot, and Reiki offers holistic healing.

    Mythos can help individuals uncover and rewrite their personal narratives.

    Personal stories influence decisions and interactions with others.

    Creating a new narrative empowers individuals to find purpose. Riverside is a powerful tool for recording.

    Astrology and tarot can provide deep insights into personality.

    Curiosity is essential for personal growth.

    Emotional awareness is crucial for transformation.

    Astrology influences can come from parents.

    The journey of learning is never-ending.

    Astrology readings can reveal hidden emotions.

    Tarot cards can guide decision-making processes.

    Spiritual tools should be used with integrity.

    One-on-one guidance enhances understanding of spiritual practices.


    Keywords

    Reiki, astrology, tarot, mysticism, divination, healing, spirituality, energy work, personal growth, self-discovery, intuition, self-discovery, shadow work, mythology, re-storying, spiritual guidance, holistic healing, Astro Tarot, Spirituality, Personal Growth, Transformation, Emotional Healing, Intuition, Mysticism


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  • Everyday Ritual: The Hidden Power of Presence in Our Habits
    Oct 14 2025

    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Justin Gates and Michael Perry explore the concept of ritual, emphasizing its significance in daily life and personal growth. They discuss how rituals are not just ceremonial acts but can be simple, intentional actions that bring meaning and presence to our routines. The conversation delves into the science behind rituals, their role in community and family, and practical steps to create meaningful rituals that resonate with individual intentions. The hosts encourage listeners to demystify rituals, recognizing their power to transform ordinary actions into sacred moments.

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    Takeaways

    "Rituals" are instinctual ways to add meaning to our lives.

    Mindfulness can be practiced in everyday actions like washing dishes.

    Rituals help ground us and provide a sense of safety.

    Creating rituals requires intention and presence.

    Rituals can be simple and accessible to everyone.

    Consistency in rituals is more powerful than complexity.

    Rituals are not just for special occasions; they are part of daily life.

    We can infuse ordinary actions with sacredness through intention.

    Rituals can help bridge our longing for connection and meaning.

    You don't need permission or credentials to create your own rituals.


    Keywords

    ritual, mindfulness, intention, daily habits, personal growth, community, spirituality, meaning, presence, transformation



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    41 mins
  • The Bridge Between Pain and Peace: The Art of Forgiveness With Courtney DeMatteo
    Oct 9 2025

    Free Gifts

    Radical Forgiveness worksheet

    https://radicalforgiveness.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Radical-Forgiveness-Worksheet-with-Radical-Acceptance-June-2016.pdf

    Cord Release (Gift from Courtney)

    https://youtu.be/22jnYODBEWA?si=JaW30Wd5hO0uijnd

    Links to Courtney

    http://courtneydematteo.com/

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61559586538820

    https://www.instagram.com/courtneyd.life.alchemist/


    In this enlightening conversation, Michael Perry, Justin Gates, and Courtney DeMatteo delve into the transformative power of forgiveness. They explore the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness, the detrimental effects of holding onto resentment, and the importance of vulnerability in the healing process. The discussion emphasizes that forgiveness is not about excusing others but about reclaiming one's own power and freedom. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the speakers highlight the connection between forgiveness, mental health, and personal growth, ultimately guiding listeners towards a path of healing and self-empowerment. In this enlightening conversation, the speakers delve into the multifaceted nature of forgiveness, exploring its significance in personal growth and emotional healing. They discuss the importance of reframing anxiety, the practice of forgiveness as a skill, and the necessity of self-compassion. The dialogue emphasizes taking inventory of relationships, recognizing triggers, and the transformative power of forgiveness in overcoming trauma. The E3 program is highlighted as a valuable resource for those seeking deeper understanding and healing. Ultimately, the conversation serves as a reminder that forgiveness is a journey, not a destination, and that self-awareness and practice are key to reclaiming one's peace and power.


    Takeaways

    Forgiveness is essential for personal freedom.

    Holding onto resentment harms both mental and physical health.

    True forgiveness is a trade in perspective.

    Forgiveness is not about excusing others' behavior.

    The act of forgiving is for your own healing, not for the other person.

    Resentment can lead to physical ailments like arthritis.

    Forgiveness allows you to reclaim your power.

    Being vulnerable is a sign of strength, not weakness.

    Forgiveness can transform your relationships.

    Awareness of your patterns is crucial for healing. Forgiveness is a practice that requires effort and intention.

    Reframing anxiety can empower individuals to change their narratives.

    Self-compassion is crucial in the journey of forgiveness.

    Taking inventory of relationships helps identify areas needing forgiveness.

    Forgiveness does not mean forgetting; it means reclaiming power.

    Healing from trauma is possible through forgiveness and self-awareness.

    Recognizing triggers is essential for personal growth.

    The E3 program offers valuable tools for emotional healing.

    Forgiveness is a journey that involves continuous practice.

    You are worthy of peace, love, and freedom.


    forgiveness, healing, letting go, emotional release, personal growth, trauma recovery, inner peace, acceptance, compassion, self-love, transformation, freedom, spiritual healing, resentment, guilt, shame, anger, grief, closure, empathy, redemption, reconciliation, peace of mind, trust, vulnerability, surrender, courage, detachment, self-forgiveness, family wounds, betrayal, relationships, heartbreak, abandonment, trauma bonds, boundaries, self-worth, inner child healing, toxic cycles, accountability, personal responsibility, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, love after pain, karma, enlightenment, ego, soul growth, higher self, divine timing, grace, awakening, the art of forgiveness, surrender, spiritual freedom, shadow work, healing journey, mindset shift, emotional resilience, radical acceptance, self-discovery, mindfulness, shadow integration, trauma healing, personal empowerment, inner peace practices, emotional mastery, healing conversations, forgiveness


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    1 hr and 42 mins
  • The Scariest Mask Is the One You Never Take Off
    Oct 7 2025

    In this episode of the New Ashla Podcast, Michael Perry and Justin Gates explore the concept of social masks and the impact they have on our identities and relationships. They discuss the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and self-awareness in breaking free from these masks. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of identity, the influence of media, and the necessity of building genuine connections. They emphasize the need for boundaries and the consequences of disconnection, while also providing practical exercises and affirmations to encourage listeners to embrace their true selves.


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    Takeaways

    Behind every social mask is a truth that we are afraid to show.

    The scariest mask is the one you never take off.

    We wear masks to hide our insecurities and vulnerabilities.

    Authenticity is about aligning our inner and outer selves.

    Vulnerability is the key to building authentic connections.

    Social media exacerbates the pressure to wear masks.

    The masks we wear can become prisons if not addressed.

    Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing the masks we wear.

    Boundaries are essential for maintaining authenticity in relationships.

    The journey to authenticity requires patience and grace.


    Keywords:
    social masks, authenticity, vulnerability, identity, self-awareness, mental health, personal growth, relationships, shadow self, emotional intelligence, self-acceptance, healing, self-expression, inner child, coping mechanisms, true self, false self, boundaries, codependency, self-worth, self-trust, intimacy, self-discovery, people-pleasing, self-protection, inner conflict, self-deception, self-growth, self-liberation, transformation, self-realization, self-empowerment, self-compassion, ego, self-reflection, spiritual growth, psychological defense mechanisms, authenticity in relationships


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    56 mins