When the world seems heavy and hard, your first instinct may be to play it safe, retract and just survive, but in this episode we are pulling up the weeds of limiting beliefs and planting the seeds of abundance! Join your hosts, Calvalyn Day and Elizabeth White as we explore the concept of the poverty mindset, how limiting beliefs and scarcity thinking can hinder personal and financial growth. They emphasize the importance of recognizing one's worth, negotiating effectively, and understanding the cultural influences that shape our financial beliefs. The conversation also highlights practical steps to shift from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance, encouraging listeners to value their time and contributions while fostering open communication in relationships.

Key Takeaways

· We are living through an unprecedented time financially.

· We are not poor; we have access to abundance.

· Limiting beliefs can affect various areas of life, not just finances.

· The tragic gap exists between what we believe is possible and what is actually possible.

· Self-worth impacts what we charge for our services.

· Fear can hinder financial decisions and negotiations.

· Cultural influences shape our financial mindset and beliefs.

· Time is a valuable resource that should not be wasted on unpaid labor.

· Practical steps can help shift from a poverty mindset to an abundance mindset.

· Open communication in relationships is essential for negotiating worth.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Technical Shenanigans

00:49 Understanding the Poverty Mindset

02:55 Limiting Beliefs and Scarcity Thinking

05:49 The Tragic Gap: Potential vs. Belief

08:45 Valuing Yourself and Your Services

11:46 The Impact of Fear on Financial Decisions

14:45 Cultural Influences on Financial Mindset

17:28 The Importance of Internal Conversations

20:46 Negotiating Worth in Relationships

23:30 The Role of Time in Financial Decisions

26:32 Practical Steps to Shift Mindset

29:32 Conclusion and Call to Action

poverty mindset, abundance, limiting beliefs, financial decisions, self-worth, negotiation, cultural influences, personal growth, entrepreneurship, time management

In this episode of the Love You to Life podcast, hosts Elizabeth White and Calvalyn Day delve into what happens when you are faced with a change...whether you want it or not. They discuss the various life transitions that can prompt individuals to seek a new direction, such as job loss, becoming an empty nester, or experiencing grief. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these pivotal moments as opportunities for growth and reinvention rather than setbacks. Elizabeth and Calvalyn share personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate these changes, encouraging listeners to embrace their evolving identities and make space for new possibilities.

The hosts also highlight the significance of self-reflection and the need to create mental and emotional space for clarity and confidence in decision-making. They introduce practical strategies for listeners to explore their feelings and aspirations, including reframing their thoughts and asking empowering questions. The episode concludes with a reminder that it's never too late to embark on a new journey, and that every experience, even the challenging ones, contributes to personal growth and resilience.

Takeaways

'How do we make space for your second act?'

'It's not too late.'

'What would help me to feel happier?'

'You are not starting from zero.'

'Your nervous system is tired of hearing you say yes.'

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

01:15 Defining the Second Act

02:38 Life Transitions and Opportunities

07:42 Making Space for Change

17:36 Reframing Your Thoughts

26:48 Survival Skills vs. Thriving

35:20 Embracing New Opportunities

39:50 Final Thoughts and Reflection Guide

Keywords

second act, personal growth, life transitions, self-reflection, empowerment, job loss, empty nest, grief, identity, reinvention, midlife, change, transition, growth, layoff

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We are pulling no punches in 2026, because we are holding your hand and telling you all the things that you need to leave behind in order to get where you are meant to be this year. In this episode of the Love You to Life Podcast, join your hosts Calvalyn Day and Elizabeth White to talk about the things we would say if we were not worried about hurting your feelings. We are bringing our authentic selves to this conversation that is filled with hard hitting truth, room for reflection and exactly what you need to make sure that you get to love your own life.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction: Excitement for 2026

01:01 Leaving Behind Spiritual Warfare Excuses

06:18 Comfort That Costs Us Our Future

10:36 Obedience in Prayer and Action

14:05 Releasing Expired Assignments and Loyalties

16:22 The Burden of Loyalty

18:54 Family Traditions and Financial Stability

20:30 Prioritizing Your Own Family

22:49 Loyalty to the Past vs. Future

25:25 Grieving the Old Season

29:38 Embracing New Beginnings

personal growth, accountability, mental health, self-improvement, 2026 goals, letting go, family dynamics, spiritual growth, habits, self-reflection

The first one was so much fun, we had to do another one! We’re talking current events and TikTok shenanigans in this episode of the Love You to Life podcast. This month we shared our love of comment checking, the value of supporting black owned businesses and some ways we are planning to enjoy more experiences in 2026. As usual, there will be laughs, lessons and lots of ways to love your life.

Key Takeaways

· Social media comments can often be more entertaining than the original content.

· It's important to support black-owned businesses and travel experiences.

· Feminine energy is about being in flow and receiving.

· Job commitments should be viewed like leases, not mortgages.

· Concierge medical practices offer alternatives to traditional health insurance.

· Community engagement is vital for shared experiences.

· Humor can be found in everyday situations and social media.

· Guarding your softness is essential for personal well-being.

· There are always alternative solutions to challenges we face.

· Encouraging open conversations about health and wellness options is important.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome to Love You to Life Land

03:04 Navigating Social Media Reactions

05:48 Exploring Black-Owned Travel Experiences

11:51 Rethinking Job Commitments

14:53 Generational Perspectives on Employment

15:20 Heroic Acts and Humor: The Coyote Rescue

20:52 Feminine Energy: Embracing Softness in a Tough World

25:49 Navigating Healthcare: Exploring Concierge Medical Options

In this episode of the Love Your Life Podcast, Elizabeth White and Calvalyn Day discuss the importance of counting the costs associated with the life you want to live. They explore themes of personal growth, the influence of habits, the necessity of establishing boundaries, and the impact of worry on high achievers. The conversation emphasizes the need to identify personal values and the importance of being intentional about who you are becoming as you prepare for the future. They also touch on the challenges of family expectations and the significance of creating a life that aligns with one's values.

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Key Takeaways

• Count up the cost of the life you want to live.
• Stillness is a strategy for clarity and focus.
• Establish boundaries that support your growth.
• Worry is a habit that can be unlearned.
• What you avoid controls you; face your fears.
• Identify your core values to guide yourdecisions.
• High achievers often carry the burden of others'expectations.
• Parenting is about raising adults, not justchildren.
• Your destiny is not to carry your family; it'sto show them the way.
• Putting your goals on paper is the first step toachieving them.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Headlock Prayer

01:46 Setting the Stage for 2026

02:44 Counting the Cost of Life

07:13 Who You're Becoming

14:22 Embodying Your Future Self

18:43 The Cost of Worry and Influence

24:42 Attention and Energy Management

27:39 Navigating High Achiever Anxiety

30:12 Releasing Old Disappointments

32:43 Cultural Expectations and Personal Growth

35:34 The Cost of Parenting and Personal Dreams

38:27 Identifying Values for Future Success

43:01 Aligning Actions with Core Values

47:50 Creating a Life of Fulfillment

51:38 Building a Legacy of Love and Growth

Summary

In this episode of the Love You to Life podcast, hosts Calvalyn Day and Elizabeth White discuss the concept of outrageous expectations for the new year. They emphasize the importance of setting high goals, taking actionable steps towards them, and shifting one's identity to align with these expectations. The conversation also touches on the significance of gratitude, the power of receiving help, and the journey from creating vision boards to living out those visions. The hosts encourage listeners to break free from realistic limitations and embrace a life filled with possibility and abundance.

Key Takeaways:

It's time for us to get a little delulu.

Outrageous expectations lead to outrageous results.

You need to ask bigger from God.

Your gift is somebody's lifeline.

You are still a person after becoming a parent.

Fight for your life just because your life is important.

It's time for us to go from vision boarding to vision living.

You have to put yourself in a position to receive.

Gratitude plays a crucial role in receiving.

Your identity should align with your outrageous expectations.

Thanks to a viral 7 second video, your hosts, Elizabeth White and Calvalyn Day are bringing you into a behind the scenes look at how they make R.I.C.H. decisions. From the significance of taking breaks to the importance of acting on inspiration rather than impulse or obligation, you'll get a taste of how your choices can set you up for success.

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In this engaging conversation, three successful entrepreneurs share their journeys, discussing the realities of starting and growing a business. Hosts, ⁨@Calvalyn⁩ and ⁨@lovinglifewithliz281⁩ are joined by Contresse Harris of Xtreme Clean Residential and Commercial Cleaning. They emphasize the importance of mindset, community, and taking action, while also addressing the challenges and misconceptions surrounding entrepreneurship. The discussion highlights the significance of financial strategies, the need for support, and the impact of legacy in their entrepreneurial endeavors.

Three Key Takeaways:

You don't have to quit your job to start a business.

Community and support are essential for growth.

Legacy and impact should be considered in entrepreneurship.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Entrepreneurial Life

02:55 The Journey of Starting a Business

09:58 Challenges and Realities of Entrepreneurship

17:22 Mindset and the Entrepreneurial Spirit

17:59 The Entrepreneurial Mindset

19:32 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

20:41 The Importance of Pricing and Profitability

22:00 The Need for Flexibility and Adaptation

24:11 The Role of Mentorship in Business Growth

25:08 Creating a Legacy Through Entrepreneurship

26:49 Leveraging Debt for Business Growth

28:45 Diverse Experiences in Entrepreneurship

29:51 Transitioning from Side Hustle to Full-Time

33:14 Valuing All Career Paths

34:47 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

entrepreneurship, business growth, mindset, success, challenges, community, coaching, legacy, service-based business, financial strategies