What’s the lie you tell yourself the most? “I don’t care what people think”? “I’ll do it later”? “I’m fine”?

In this reflective rewatch of our most-downloaded episode ever, Lisa and Josh revisit The Lies We Tell Ourselves—and things hit a little harder the second time around. From quiet self-deceptions to white lies we tell our kids, this episode explores how our relationship with truth shifts over time.

👇 Chapters:
0:42 – Welcome to Brother, Sister, Whatever
1:25 – Weekly "What If": Lies as Bubbles
3:56 – Common Lies We Tell Ourselves
6:45 – "I Don't Care What Others Think"
10:52 – Time as the New Success Metric
13:32 – White Lies in Parenting
17:26 – "I Am Enough" Affirmations
21:40 – Liar Liar This-or-That Showdown

✨ Inside this episode:

• The real cost of "I'll do it later"
• Why “I don’t care what people think” is rarely true
• When it’s okay to lie to your kids—and when it’s not
• How affirmations start to feel real only after the hard work
• A final showdown of the social lies we all tell (yes, “I didn’t see your text” made the list)

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