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The Leader in You

The Leader in You

By: Connect your people; transform you culture. With Dr. Lola Gershfeld
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The Leader in You podcast is brought to you by EmC Leaders, helping companies to master the art of relationships so they can spend less time on people issues and more time accomplishing their most important goals.

We combine the science of attachment and emotional connection with insight from the last 20 years to overcome workplace conflict issues, build strong team relationships, and create a connected culture.

Your host, Dr. Lola Gershfeld.


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Episodes
  • 59. The Secret to Healthy Team Relationships
    Sep 5 2025

    In this episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld reveals the secret to creating and sustaining healthy team relationships. Drawing from attachment science and the Emotional Connection (EmC) process, she shares how teams can move beyond surface-level communication to build trust, resilience, and true emotional safety.

    You’ll discover:

    • Why traditional conflict resolution misses the heart of the problem.
    • How to recognize the hidden “dance of disconnection” that derails teams.
    • The power of bonding conversations to repair and strengthen relationships.
    • Practical steps leaders can take to create safety, engagement, and collaboration.

    Whether you’re a leader, manager, or team member, this episode offers practical insights and a proven roadmap to transform the way your team relates, works, and grows together.

    The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive.

    Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team.

    CONNECT:
    Website
    Facebook
    Twitter
    LinkedIn
    YouTube Channel

    Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld:

    LinkedIn: Dr. Lola Gershfeld
    Instagram: @drlolaemc

    Connect with Polina Marian:

    LinkedIn: Polina Marian
    Instagram: @livewithfivekids

    Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and workplace conflicts. She is the author of Emotional Connection, The Connected Culture, and her latest book, ...

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    42 mins
  • 58. When Teams Miss Each Other - Breaking Free from Emotional Disconnect at Work
    Aug 21 2025

    In this week’s episode of The Leader in You Podcast, Dr. Lola Gershfeld takes on some of the most common — and challenging — questions about team dynamics and workplace relationships.

    What happens when one teammate thrives on emotional connection while another prefers to stay task-focused? How do we stop labeling colleagues as “too emotional” or “too shut down”? And what’s the one small action you can take today to infuse your team with safety, trust, and connection?

    Drawing on attachment science and the Emotional Connection (EmC) process, Dr. Gershfeld shares real-life stories, practical insights, and heartfelt wisdom to help you:

    • Recognize and break negative cycles that keep teams stuck
    • Avoid pathologizing colleagues’ coping patterns
    • Bring emotions back into the workplace as a source of strength, not weakness
    • Create powerful moments of human connection that shift team culture

    Whether your team feels stuck in conflict or simply wants to grow closer, this episode will open your eyes to the emotional music beneath every workplace interaction — and how tuning in can transform the way you work together.

    The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive.

    Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team.

    CONNECT:
    Website
    Facebook
    Twitter
    LinkedIn
    YouTube Channel

    Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld:

    LinkedIn: Dr. Lola Gershfeld
    Instagram: @drlolaemc

    Connect with Polina Marian:

    LinkedIn: Polina Marian
    Instagram: @livewithfivekids

    Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and workplace conflicts. She is the author of Emotional Connection, The Connected Culture, and her latest book, ...

    Show More Show Less
    33 mins
  • 57. Team Is Not Fine - How to Spot Disconnection and Repair It Before It’s Too Late
    Aug 15 2025

    When a team feels “off,” the damage goes deeper than missed deadlines—it erodes trust, safety, and connection. In this solo episode, Dr. Lola Gershfeld reveals how to spot the subtle signs of disconnection, shift the “emotional music” that drives team dynamics, and repair relationships before it’s too late. Learn how leaders can create a culture where people feel safe, valued, and ready to collaborate.

    The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where you can thrive.

    Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team.

    CONNECT:
    Website
    Facebook
    Twitter
    LinkedIn
    YouTube Channel

    Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld:

    LinkedIn: Dr. Lola Gershfeld
    Instagram: @drlolaemc

    Connect with Polina Marian:

    LinkedIn: Polina Marian
    Instagram: @livewithfivekids

    Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and workplace conflicts. She is the author of Emotional Connection, The Connected Culture, and her latest book, ...

    Show More Show Less
    19 mins
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