Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most vulnerable and meaningful questions yet—from handling painful family inheritance situations to leading a business with integrity and learning to hold on to joy in the midst of grief. This episode offers wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools for staying powerful and connected during life’s hardest seasons. If you’re in a challenging time or walking alongside someone who is, this one will speak straight to your heart.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to respond with maturity and integrity during family inheritance conflicts.

• Why staying a “good son” or “good sibling” matters more than what you receive.

• How to lead a godly business that reflects Christ in culture, excellence, and kindness.

• What it looks like to grieve powerfully and ask for help without losing yourself.

• How to access joy and hope even when life feels overwhelming and dark.

Key Takeaways:

• You control your response, not the outcome: When it comes to inheritance or injustice, you can choose honor, integrity, and connection regardless of others’ decisions.

• Let your character lead your business: A godly business isn’t just about Christian language—it’s marked by the fruit of the Spirit and excellence in every interaction.

• Ask for help when you're grieving: Owning your need is a powerful step toward healing. You don't have to grieve alone.

• Joy is cultivated, not circumstantial: Don’t wait for life to go your way to choose joy. Build habits of gratitude and obedience that reconnect you to God’s presence.

• Stay connected even when it’s hard: Grief and hardship can make you want to isolate—but choosing connection, even imperfectly, is part of staying powerful.

Join the Conversation:

Have you been in a season where joy felt far away? What helped you return to hope and connection? Share your story with us at www.thekyloshow.com—we’d love to hear from you.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

In this candid Q&A from the Bethesda tour stop, Danny and Brittney respond to questions on dating, identity, and how to build relationships that are both healthy and lasting. From practical wisdom on staying true to yourself in dating to the importance of aligning your life mission with your partner’s, this episode unpacks how to keep your love on from the very start. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring someone who is, you’ll gain insight on what it means to pursue connection with clarity, confidence, and community.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why self-awareness and confidence are critical before entering a relationship.

• How to discern if you're adjusting yourself to be what someone else wants.

• The importance of building relationships within the safety of community.

• Why shared life vision and mission matter more than chemistry alone.

• How early alignment can lead to long-term unity and growth.

Key Takeaways:

• Don’t change your ticket: Choose relationships where your life mission and calling are already aligned—you’re heading the same direction.

• Be confident in who you are: Healthy relationships start when both people know, like, and are developing who they are in Christ.

• Stay in community: Surround yourself with trusted people who can speak into your relationships and help you stay grounded.

• Chemistry fades—clarity lasts: Compatibility rooted in purpose and values is more sustainable than just emotional or physical connection.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever changed your “ticket” to make a relationship work? What’s one area of your identity that you’re learning to love and protect? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and keep the conversation going.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

In this powerful continuation from Bethesda, Danny and Brittney tackle real-life questions from a live audience about conflict, connection, and covenant. Through raw and insightful stories—from car ride disconnection to navigating orphan mindsets and newlywed advice—they highlight the courage and humility it takes to lead in relationships. Whether you’re married, mentoring others, or healing from disconnection yourself, this episode will challenge you to protect connection, prioritize self-awareness, and embrace the path of growth and reconciliation.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How listening better than someone is talking changes the emotional climate of a relationship.

• Why hurt often masquerades as anger—and how to respond with compassion.

• What to do when someone is stuck in self-protection or an orphan mindset.

• Why curiosity and self-awareness are keys to thriving in marriage.

• How to use five simple words to communicate emotional truth and protect connection.

Key Takeaways:

• Listening is an act of protection: When you slow down and truly understand what someone is feeling, you create safety and open the door to healing.

• Self-justification is the enemy of connection: Owning your part, even when it’s uncomfortable, is the path to deeper trust.

• Curiosity transforms conflict: When you stop blaming and start getting curious—about yourself and others—you create space for growth.

• Connection must be protected at all costs: React to disconnection like your couch is on fire—drop everything and deal with it.

• Simple words bring powerful clarity: Words like “ouch,” “yikes,” and “ugh” help you name what’s happening inside and move toward reconnection.

Join the Conversation:

Which part of this episode challenged you most? Do you need to slow down and listen better, or have the courage to speak your truth in love? We’d love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and let us know how you're keeping your love on.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

This week on The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney take us to Vancouver, Washington, where they respond to powerful audience questions about family disconnection, political disagreements, and parenting through transition. Whether it's a daughter using "boundaries" to cut off relationship, a seventeen-year-old disrupting family game night, or a holiday skipped because of political differences, the heart of this episode is about restoring connection without compromising your values. With wisdom, laughter, and plenty of real talk, Danny and Brittney offer practical tools for loving your people without losing yourself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The difference between boundaries and punishment in relationships.

• How fear drives disconnection—and how love casts it out.

• Why adult children sometimes distance themselves and how to rebuild trust.

• What to do when siblings in the same home become strangers.

• How to build a culture of respect in your home through shared family values.

Key Takeaways:

• Boundaries keep the door open for reconciliation. Punishment shuts it.

• When a child disconnects, start by asking: “Do I have a mess to clean up?”

• Family time is a culture you create, not an obligation you force.

• Your job isn’t to control your adult kids—it’s to become a trusted friend.

• Clarifying your family values (like a “Family Creed”) helps everyone know what’s expected and what matters most.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a "boundary" that felt more like rejection? Or maybe you're a parent learning to navigate new dynamics with adult children. We'd love to hear from you—join us at www.thekyloshow.com and tell us how you're learning to keep your love on.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

Whether you’re single, parenting adult children, or recovering from relational pain, this episode is packed with wisdom for staying powerful in the face of disconnection. Recorded live at Eden Church in Newcastle, Washington, Danny and Brittney answer real audience questions about singleness, narcissism, motherhood, boundaries, and healing from toxic relationships. They share stories, scriptures, and practical tools for cultivating healthy identity, confronting manipulation with courage, and protecting connection without enabling dysfunction. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to build strong relationships without losing themselves.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why the KYLO 5 is essential—especially when you’re single.

• How to create joy-filled, life-giving relationships that align with your purpose.

• What real boundaries look like when dealing with manipulative or toxic adult children.

• How to differentiate between your role and God's role in your child's life.

• Why Jesus is the ultimate model of healthy boundaries.

Key Takeaways:

• Singleness isn’t waiting—it's preparation: Cultivating self-love, healthy community, and clear boundaries now sets the stage for healthy connection later.

• Love isn’t enabling: Setting boundaries with someone you love—even your child—isn’t cruelty, it’s wisdom.

• You are not your child’s savior: Your job is to love them, not rescue them. Trust Jesus to be who only He can be.

• Boundaries aren’t rejection: They’re protection—for you, and for the relationship.

• Jesus had perfect boundaries: He never violated another person’s will, even in crisis. He honored self-control and invited ownership.

Join the Conversation:

Have you had to set a hard boundary with someone you love? How did you stay connected without being controlled? We’d love to hear your story. Connect with us online or submit a question at www.thekyloshow.com.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

What do you do when your feedback is met with stonewalling, shutdowns, or accusations? In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney return with more live Q&A from their tour stop in Newcastle, Washington, tackling tough questions about feedback, conflict, narcissism, and relational disconnect. Through personal stories and real-life coaching moments, they offer wisdom for navigating relationships where feedback feels impossible and disconnection seems inevitable. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a one-sided relationship or struggled to confront dysfunction in love, this episode will equip you to stay powerful, connected, and courageous.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• What to do when someone resists or shuts down your feedback.

• How to stay calm, clear, and connected when emotions run high.

• Why asking “What did you hear me say?” is a game-changer for clarity.

• The difference between repentance and self-justification in broken trust.

• How to approach accusations of narcissism in a culture that overuses the term.

Key Takeaways:

• Don’t confuse judgment for feedback: True feedback is sharing your experience, not labeling or controlling the other person.

• Safe connection takes time: If someone has never experienced feedback as love, they may need consistent safety before they engage.

• Stay powerful, even when others aren’t: You get to choose self-control, honor, and clarity, regardless of how the other person responds.

• Build trust with repetition: Healing relational dynamics takes practice, courage, and time—not a one-time conversation.

• Repentance isn’t promises—it’s change: When trust is broken, words don’t restore it—consistent changed behavior does.

Join the Conversation:

Have you ever struggled to give feedback to someone who wouldn’t receive it? What helped you stay connected and powerful? Let us know by leaving a review or connecting on socials.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

When fear, anger, and disconnection enter a relationship, it’s easy to slip into control, self-protection, or power struggles. In this episode of The KYLO Show, Danny and Brittney answer live audience questions from the KYLO Show Tour and talk about the battle to stay connected even when emotions run high. They share personal stories about rebuilding trust in marriage, navigating conflict with respect, and overcoming deception in relationships. If you want to create a culture of love, accountability, and healthy communication, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to stay courageous when building trust in a wounded relationship.

• Why connection—not control—should be your goal in conflict.

• Practical ways to manage fear and anger without damaging connection.

• How to recognize and respond to deception without breaking relationship.

• Why feedback, accountability, and a listening posture protect healthy connection.

Key Takeaways:

• Connection heals fear: Staying connected in the middle of conflict is more powerful than rushing to fix or control the situation.

• Courage builds trust: Committing to connection, even when you feel hurt or scared, transforms relationships over time.

• Self-awareness is key: Recognizing your own fear, anger, or self-justification is critical to building safe, lasting connection.

• Feedback protects growth: Inviting honest feedback and staying accountable to others helps you stay out of deception and isolation.

Join the Conversation:

Where have you experienced the power of connection in the middle of conflict? We’d love to hear your story! Share with us on social media, leave a review, or send us a message.

Stay Connected:

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

We’re back with part two of The KYLO Show live from our tour stop in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho! While Brittney was still down for the count with the flu (we missed her!), our good friend and Resolute Church pastor Katie Ann Browning returns to co-host alongside Danny.

This episode goes deep into the heart of parenting teens without power struggles, shame, or fear. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, powerless, or unsure how to parent in a way that cultivates connection without losing authority—this one’s for you.

We also explore how healing our own shame is essential to raising emotionally healthy kids—and how to stay anchored in love, even when your kid says, "You suck."

• Why connection—not control—is your superpower in parenting

• How to handle disrespect and scary behavior without losing your peace

• Tools for breaking power struggle cycles with your kids

• Why your own healing journey is crucial to raising whole, healthy children

• The role of shame, and how it sabotages both parenting and marriage

• Fear fuels control. When we’re disconnected from our kids, fear takes over—and controlling them becomes our default.

• Connection is the goal, not control. Staying relationally connected through conflict is more powerful than punishment.

• You’re not powerless. You don’t control your child—but you do control access, resources, and your response.

• Shame blocks love. If you struggle to receive love or extend it, shame is likely at the root. Do the inner work—it’s the best gift you can give your family.

• Repetition builds character. Inner healing matters, but tools and practice are what carry you through real-life conflict.

• Use phrases like “I know,” “Probably so,” and “Nice try” to avoid power struggles

• Establish connection before correction

• Practice calm, confident boundaries with natural consequences

• Stay close in the middle of scary choices to build long-term trust

• Do the inner healing work to break shame cycles before they get passed down

• Loving Your Kids on Purpose by Danny Silk

• Imperfect Parenting by Brittney Serpell

• Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk

• Unpunishable by Danny Silk

• The Way of the Dragon Slayer by Danny Silk

Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com

Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose

Instagram: @brittneyserpell