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Secure attachment forms the foundation for a child's healthy development and shapes how they view themselves, others, and the world. We explore the four key attributes caregivers need to foster secure attachment: being present, attentive, attuned, and responsive.

• A secure attachment relationship is defined as one that's "free from danger or risk," creating a healthy and safe space for children
• Secure attachment forms when caregivers consistently respond to a child's needs, showing them they are important and valued
• Children with secure attachment develop a "secure base" that allows them to explore the world confidently, knowing they have a safe place to return to
• Crying at daycare drop-offs can actually indicate healthy attachment – the child wants to be with you and knows you'll return
• Being physically and emotionally present is the foundation for all other aspects of secure caregiving
• Attentiveness means paying close attention to what your child is doing and learning from their behaviors
• Attunement is the ability to accurately read and interpret your child's signals beyond surface behaviors
• Responsive caregiving teaches children that they matter and that seeking help is valuable
• Play accelerates attachment building – according to Dr. Karyn Purvis, it can cut healing time in half for children from difficult backgrounds
• Securely attached children develop powerful internal messages: "I am important," "Others are helpful," and "The world is safe"

Join us next week as we discuss avoidant attachment and continue our exploration of attachment styles.

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