• #23 What If Your Ego Isn't Who You Really Are? - Klaus Nielsen
    May 1 2025

    Welcome to the Doubtless Podcast! 🎙️ Join me, Coach and Psychologist Julian, as I chat about understanding the ego, overcoming doubt, and finding your true self. In this episode, we talk about the structure of the mind, how childhood experiences shape us, and the impact of social media. We also explore what it means to live selflessly and the benefits of meditation. Plus, hear some personal stories and practical tips to help you live a more calm and confident life. Tune in and let's grow together on this journey!


    00:00 Introduction to the Doubtless Podcast

    00:39 Exploring the Ego: True Self vs. False Self

    01:25 The Structure of the Mind

    03:12 Cultural Identity and Personal Experiences

    04:59 The Influence of Childhood on Identity

    09:40 Modes of Nature: Goodness, Passion, and Ignorance

    11:15 The Western Obsession with Passion

    13:38 The Trap of False Ego and the Path to True Happiness

    33:33 The Journey from Misery to Monkhood

    49:01 The Impact of Social Media on the Mind

    56:10 The True Value of Charity

    56:23 Finding Inner Fulfillment

    57:25 The Power of Meditation

    01:00:28 Essence of Meditation Techniques

    01:14:13 Avoiding the Trap of False Ego

    01:20:15 Understanding Real and False Ego

    01:27:46 The Mind as a Servant, Not a Master

    01:41:42 The Importance of Positive Energy

    01:46:03 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections


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    1 hr and 48 mins
  • #22 Overcome Doubt As A Marketeer | Domingo Leal | Doubtless Podcast
    Jan 16 2025

    In this episode of the Doubtless Podcast, I dive into the journey of Domingo, a successful marketeer who has transformed moments of doubt and insecurity into a flourishing career. Domingo recounts how he fell into marketing, the obstacles he encountered, and what has kept his passion for the field alive for over a decade. We explore his experiences hosting large events, managing stress, and making life-changing decisions. Domingo also shares his current projects and sheds light on overcoming challenges and staying motivated. Join us for an authentic conversation filled with valuable insights to help you turn your doubts into confidence.


    Doming is a marketing and business consultant and mentor with a passion for personal growth, building communities and helping people. Born in Seville (Spain) he lived in the UK for over 10 years, where he grew up professionally and personally. In 2020, he relocated to Spain, from where he works with companies from all over the world while he helps to grow the local entrepreneurial ecosystem through events and different initiatives.


    00:00 Introduction to the Doubtless Podcast

    00:33 Domingo's Journey into Marketing

    04:00 Challenges and Doubts in Hosting Events

    05:57 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

    09:23 Reflecting on Career and Personal Growth

    11:51 Making Long-Term Decisions

    13:10 Navigating Family Expectations

    22:04 Embracing Identity and Authenticity

    28:38 Cultural Influences and Personal Growth

    32:09 Making Life-Changing Decisions

    34:01 Overcoming Challenges and Seeking Support

    36:44 Balancing Work and Personal Life

    38:07 Current Projects and Future Plans

    47:04 The Importance of Asking for Help

    54:46 Reflections on Family and Personal Growth

    01:00:09 Conclusion and Final Thoughts



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    IG: https://www.instagram.com/domingoleal/

    Email: domingo@the-marketingcoach.com


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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • #21 My Girlfriend Did A Darkness Retreat; She Is Different Now | TDP
    Jan 2 2025

    In this special episode of the Doubtless Podcast, I get to interview my girlfriend right after her transformative four-day darkness retreat. We'll dive deep into why she felt drawn to this intense experience, how she prepared, and what the journey was like from start to finish. She shares her vivid hallucinations, confronting the darkest parts of her consciousness, and ultimately uncovering profound insights about control, people-pleasing, and the true nature of evil. Stick around for the entire conversation to discover how she navigated this life-changing experience and what she learned about herself. It's a rollercoaster of emotions and realizations that you won't want to miss!


    00:00 Introduction to the Doubtless Podcast

    00:33 Special Episode: Girlfriend's Darkness Retreat

    01:12 Preparation for the Darkness Retreat

    05:25 Entering the Darkness: First Impressions

    10:09 Confronting the Unknown: Hallucinations and Insights

    23:42 Realizations and Reflections in the Dark

    35:58 Losing Track of Time: The Third Day

    01:00:49 Deep Meditations and Archetypes

    01:04:39 Embracing the Archetype of the Carefree Self

    01:06:01 The Sacred Rebel: A New Possibility

    01:08:32 The Natural Flow of Rebellion and Creation

    01:10:41 Listening to the Soul: A Journey of Discernment

    01:15:27 Confronting the Dark: A Deep Dive

    01:18:35 The Scariest Experience: Facing True Evil

    01:29:30 Integration and Reflection: Returning to Light

    01:53:28 Post-Retreat: Navigating the Real World

    02:02:29 Final Thoughts and Takeaways


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    IG: https://www.instagram.com/carolinagreno/

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    2 hrs and 6 mins
  • 4 Key Strategies to keep Your Screen Time low
    Dec 19 2024

    Ever struggled with keeping your screen time in check or worried you can't maintain good habits long term? This episode is just for you! I share four powerful mental strategies that have helped me personally: remembering your 'why,' viewing changes as experiments, celebrating small successes, and managing expectations. Inspired by books like 'Digital Minimalism,' I explain how to make sustainable changes to improve your daily life. Tune in for practical tips and words of encouragement to help keep you on track!


    00:00 Introduction: Overcoming Screen Time Challenges

    00:48 Four Key Principles for Sustaining Habits

    00:53 Principle 1: Remembering Your Why

    02:18 Principle 2: Seeing Things as Experiments

    04:15 Principle 3: Celebrating Your Successes

    05:15 Principle 4: Keeping Expectations in Check

    06:43 Final Encouragement and Resources


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    8 mins
  • Emotions Keep You Glued To Your Phone: Here Is How To Stop Your Phone Addition | Part 4 of 5 | TDP
    Dec 5 2024

    In this episode, I open up about my struggles with phone addiction and share effective strategies to regain control over our emotions. We'll explore why emotions trigger our phone usage and discuss practical tools like breathing exercises and physical activities to manage these triggers. By understanding our emotional responses, we can develop healthier coping mechanisms and minimize our reliance on our phones. Tune in to learn how to use your breath to relax, the power of movement, and get ready for the next part of our series on maintaining these positive changes long-term.


    00:00 Introduction: The Lab Rat Analogy

    00:36 Understanding Emotional Triggers

    01:36 The Phone as a Coping Mechanism

    03:38 The Role of Emotions in Our Behavior

    05:03 The Impact of Modern Society on Our Emotions

    06:31 Recognizing and Addressing Phone Addiction

    07:51 Breathing Techniques for Emotional Management

    13:17 Physical Activities to Release Emotions

    16:40 Conclusion and Next Steps


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    19 mins
  • 5 Essentials to Break Free from Social Media and Phone Addiction
    Nov 21 2024

    In this episode, we dive into five powerful tools to help you cut down on phone time and break habitual phone use. We discuss the principle of friction and how increasing it can deter phone use, starting with deleting unnecessary apps. We go on to share personal experiences and introduce other strategies like phone-free zones, eliminating notifications, and setting app limits. Stay tuned for next week's episode on dealing with emotions that drive phone addiction.


    00:00 Introduction and Purpose

    01:04 Understanding Friction and Phone Habits

    03:58 Tool 1: Deleting Unnecessary Apps

    06:53 Tool 2 & 3: Phone-Free Zones and Times

    07:43 Tool 3: Eliminating Notifications

    08:55 Tool 4: Setting App Limits

    10:27 Commitment and Experimentation

    12:47 Conclusion and Next Steps


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    16 mins
  • Motivation: The Key to Break Your Phone Addiction for Good | Part 2 of 5
    Nov 7 2024

    Ever felt the cycle of wanting change but slipping back into old habits? You're not alone! Join me, a coach & psychologist, in this episode where I share my personal journey of overcoming screen addiction and offer powerful techniques to sustain motivation. Learn how I identified the negative impacts, created a compelling vision for my life, and discovered the tools that helped me regain control over where I spend my time. Ready to break free from your phone's grip? Tune in now!


    00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Change

    00:56 Understanding Motivation and Sustaining Change

    01:42 Personal Story: A Turning Point in Peru

    03:44 Identifying Negative Consequences

    07:53 Creating a Vision for Positive Change

    10:08 Imagining Your Ideal Day

    15:02 Conclusion and Next Steps


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    18 mins
  • How to Stop Being Glued to Your Phone | Part 1 of 5
    Oct 24 2024

    Ever feel like your phone is taking over your life with endless scrolling and constant notifications? Tune in as a psychologist guides you through the maze of screen addiction and introduces BASE, a powerful framework for better phone habits. This episode is all about self-awareness: track when you grab your phone, the apps you can't resist, and the emotions behind it all. Discover how to identify your phone habits and emotional triggers to start transforming your relationship with your devices. Ready to reclaim your time and focus? Let's get started!


    00:00 Introduction: The Phone Habit Dilemma

    00:45 The Impact of Screen Addiction

    01:16 Psychological Insights and Personal Journey

    02:18 Introducing the BASE Framework

    03:10 Step 1: Awareness and Boot Up

    08:42 Step 2: Application Usage

    10:03 Understanding Your Screen Time

    10:52 The Role of Emotions in Phone Usage

    11:19 Tracking Your Emotions

    11:56 Coping Mechanisms and Habits

    13:07 The Importance of Tracking

    14:13 Preparing for Change

    15:54 Action Steps and Homework

    17:42 Final Thoughts and Next Steps


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    18 mins