Every marriage is an ongoing story with its own highs and lows, joys and difficulties. Depending on which season we are in, we may start to see marriage as the best thing that has ever happened to us or the source of our angst.

If you’ve been following our journey for a while, you know that my husband Mark and I share openly about the struggles as well as the victories in our marriage. God has used every obstacle we’ve encountered to grow us in so many ways.

The truth we hope you walk away with today is that marriage is actually our ultimate invitation to grow. If we allow it, God will use our marriage to shape us into someone who is deeper, healthier, and more rooted in Christ. Our guest believes wholeheartedly that if we are willing to examine the stories of our past that are influencing the present, we can write a new story for the future.

Dr. Dan Allender has a long history in the therapy world. As the author of over two dozen books and the founder of The Allender Center, he believes that true healing and restoration occur when we courageously step into our stories of pain.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The value of vulnerably stepping into each other’s pasts
• Why it’s important to disrupt destructive patterns
• One of the key factors to resolve any conflict
• And more!

These principles have proven so beneficial in our marriage. We hope this conversation helps you write a new story for your own relationships.

Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/dan-allender-248

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