• Healing from Within: How Clostridia Affects Brain Development in Children with Autism
    Sep 25 2025
    Lara is joined by Vicky Finlayson from Happy Healthy Unicorn to discuss the impact of Clostridia, a type of bacteria found in the gut, on children with autism and other neurodevelopmental disorders. Vicky explains how Clostridia can contribute to various symptoms by disrupting the microbiome and affecting brain health, particularly through the inhibition of dopamine processing. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding the underlying causes of these symptoms, the significance of proper testing, and the necessity of laying a strong foundation for health before addressing bacterial imbalances. Vicky shares inspiring success stories of children who have shown remarkable improvements through dietary changes and targeted interventions, emphasising the need for patience and consistency in the healing journey. This episode aims to empower parents with knowledge and practical strategies to support their children's development and well-being. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Clostridia: Clostridia is a type of bacteria found in the gut, with both commensal and pathogenic forms. Pathogenic forms, such as Clostridium difficile, can contribute to various symptoms seen in children with autism and other neurodevelopmental disorders. Impact on Brain Health: Clostridia can inhibit the enzyme dopamine beta-hydroxylase, which is crucial for converting dopamine into norepinephrine. This disruption can lead to an excess of dopamine, affecting behaviour, attention, and cognitive functions, and potentially exacerbating symptoms of ADHD and autism. Role of Diet and Gut Health: A poor diet, particularly one high in refined carbohydrates, can deplete beneficial gut bacteria, allowing Clostridia to thrive. Addressing dietary habits and improving gut health is essential for managing clostridial infections and their associated symptoms. Importance of Testing: An organic acids test is recommended for accurately identifying Clostridia and its toxins. However, it is crucial to lay a solid foundation of health through diet and lifestyle changes before conducting tests, as an unhealthy state can allow Clostridia to return. BEST MOMENTS "Clostridia is like one big player in that... it's part of the picture typically for our kids." - Vicky "It's actually the toxins that Clostridia produces that can be the most harmful thing." - Vicky "If you think dopamine is meant to degrade naturally into norepinephrine and it doesn't do that, the clostridia will block that enzyme." - Vicky "If you do it in that order, it creates sustained healing." - Lara HOST BIOLara Barnes a successful woman in tech found herself managing behavioural, learning and speech difficulties with her son, she learn functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and build his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents needing to understand how to help their children and show them what can be done to change little lives to allow them to shine and be their best version. SOCIAL/IMPORTANT LINKS https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/ www.braindevelopment.co.uk GUEST BIO Vicky, founder of The Happy Healthy Unicorn, is mum to her inspiring autistic daughter, Rose. With a BSc in Human Biology, she initially planned to work as an NHS dietitian, but her daughter’s needs changed her path. Immersing herself in research on autism and neurodevelopment, she focused on root-cause healing and whole-person care. Rose’s transformation shaped Vicky’s mission: combining scientific knowledge, lived experience, and empathy to support families. Today, she provides compassionate, science-backed guidance through The Happy Healthy Unicorn. ⁠The Happy Healthy Unicorn - Autism, Nutrition⁠
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    34 mins
  • Empowering Parents: Strategies to Address Autoimmunity and Support Neurodiverse Children
    Sep 18 2025
    DESCRIPTION Lara and Vicky explore the connection between autoimmunity and autism, discussing how parental autoimmune conditions may influence a child’s neural development. Vicky explains how the immune system can mistakenly attack the body’s own cells, with autoantibodies potentially crossing the placenta and affecting the developing brain. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these mechanisms without blame, instead focusing on practical steps for healing. Parents will learn about the roles of inflammation, nutrition, and therapies in managing autoimmune conditions and improving outcomes for children with autism. This episode empowers families with knowledge, hope, and actionable tools for positive change. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Autoimmunity: The immune system may attack healthy cells, which can influence brain development if present during pregnancy. Link to Autism: Research suggests parental autoimmunity may increase autism risk, as autoantibodies can affect the fetal brain. Diet & Nutrition: Removing gluten, addressing deficiencies (like vitamin D), and focusing on whole foods can improve outcomes. Personalised Healing: Every child’s path is unique—families benefit from tailored care and supportive practitioners. BEST MOMENTS “If we do have an autoimmune condition… we can pull back inflammation in ourselves.” – Vicky “These autoantibodies will cross the placenta and impact the child’s brain.” – Vicky “You can’t have an autoimmune condition without huge inflammation.” – Vicky “If you have an autoimmune condition, get gluten out of your diet. It’s kryptonite for you.” – Vicky HOST BIOLara Barnes, a successful woman in tech, found herself navigating behavioural, learning, and speech challenges with her son. She discovered functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and strengthen his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents who want to understand how to help their children thrive and become their best selves. GUEST BIOVicky, founder of The Happy Healthy Unicorn, is mum to her inspiring autistic daughter, Rose. With a BSc in Human Biology, she initially planned to work as an NHS dietitian, but her daughter’s needs changed her path. Immersing herself in research on autism and neurodevelopment, she focused on root-cause healing and whole-person care. Rose’s transformation shaped Vicky’s mission: combining scientific knowledge, lived experience, and empathy to support families. Today, she provides compassionate, science-backed guidance through The Happy Healthy Unicorn. The Happy Healthy Unicorn - Autism, Nutrition SOCIAL LINKS TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/ Website: www.braindevelopment.co.uk
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    44 mins
  • Food Chaining and Mindset Shifts: A Journey to Healing Through Nutrition
    Sep 11 2025
    In this episode of the Brain Development Podcast, hosts discuss the challenges parents face with picky eaters, particularly in children with neurodiversity. They welcome Vicky Finlayson from Happy, Healthy Unicorn, who shares her insights on the gut-brain connection and the importance of a healthy diet for improving behaviour and learning outcomes. Vicky emphasises the need for a tailored approach to dietary changes, highlighting strategies such as food chaining and the significance of mindset in the process. The conversation also touches on the addictive nature of certain foods and the impact of gut health on emotional regulation and overall well-being. Listeners are encouraged to embrace small, manageable changes and to seek creative ways to make food enjoyable for their children, fostering a positive relationship with eating. KEY TAKEAWAYS Mindset Matters: Parents' emotional states significantly impact their children's willingness to try new foods. Approaching mealtime with calmness and no attachment to the outcome can help children feel more secure and open to change. Gradual Changes: Transitioning a child's diet should be done in stages, especially for those with strong food preferences. Small, manageable changes, such as altering the shape or texture of familiar foods, can help ease the child into a more diverse diet. Food Addiction Awareness: Many common foods, particularly those high in gluten and dairy, can be addictive due to their effects on the brain. Recognising this can help parents understand the importance of removing these foods to promote better health and behaviour in their children. Gut Health is Crucial: A healthy gut microbiome is essential for overall well-being, including mood regulation and immune function. Parents should focus on nourishing their child's gut with a variety of whole foods to support brain development and reduce inflammation. BEST MOMENTS "If your child was addicted to heroin, would you keep giving him the heroin? Or would you just remove it and go through the withdrawal, which you will get? But actually to help them for the greater good." - Vicky "Your mindset in this is so important. If you are serving food from a place of desperation, fear, and anxiety, your child is so sensitive because they have neuroception." - Vicky "The way I like to liken this... is that if you imagine your child's gut as like this beautiful garden... you have to have vegetables and you have to have diversity." - Vicky "You can actually break it down. And I think that's what you've really taught me." - Lara HOST BIO Lara Barnes a successful woman in tech found herself managing behavioural, learning and speech difficulties with her son, she learn functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and build his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents needing to understand how to help their children and show them what can be done to change little lives to allow them to shine and be their best version. SOCIAL/IMPORTANT LINKS https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/ www.braindevelopment.co.uk
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    29 mins
  • Building Better Brains: Dr. Michael Trayford's Comprehensive Approach to Neurodevelopment
    Sep 4 2025
    Lara welcomes Dr Michael Trayford, a board-certified chiropractic neurologist and neurofeedback specialist, to discuss innovative approaches to addressing the neurological challenges faced by neurodiverse children. Dr Trayford shares insights from his extensive experience at Apex Brain Centres, emphasising the importance of understanding root causes rather than merely treating symptoms. The conversation delves into various diagnostic tools, including QEEG scans, and explores the significance of neuroplasticity in rehabilitation. Dr Trayford highlights the effectiveness of intensive treatment models and the integration of physical, neurological, cognitive, and metabolic interventions to foster meaningful change in patients. The episode also touches on the critical role of diet, environmental factors, and collaborative care in optimising brain health and function. KEY TAKEAWYS Holistic Approach to Neurodiversity: The focus is on understanding and addressing the root causes of neurological and cognitive challenges rather than merely treating symptoms. This involves a comprehensive evaluation of a child's history, lifestyle, and neurological function. Importance of Intensive Treatment Models: An intensive treatment model, where patients undergo immersive therapy sessions, is emphasised as more effective for neuroplasticity and rehabilitation compared to traditional weekly sessions. This approach allows for more significant and rapid improvements in cognitive and behavioural outcomes. Role of Diagnostic Tools: Advanced diagnostic tools such as QEEG and sLORETA imaging are crucial for understanding brainwave activity and identifying areas that require intervention. These tools help tailor treatment plans based on individual brain function and needs. Integration of Multiple Disciplines: Bridging the gap between mental health and neuroscience is essential for effective treatment. Collaboration with various healthcare providers, including psychologists and nutritionists, enhances patient outcomes by addressing both neurological and metabolic factors. BEST MOMENTS "My purpose is to help empower parents to understand how they can build their child's brain from the bottom up to invoke change." – Lara "We fancy ourselves neurological foundation builders... if you don't have proper neural communication, there's really just only so much improvement that you can have." – Dr Trayford "Neuroplasticity dictates we will continue to be able to be mouldable until we're done." – Dr Trayford "If we're not addressing the metabolic, we are missing the boat in a big, big way because it's guilty until proven innocent." – Dr Trayford HOST BIO Lara Barnes, a successful woman in tech, found herself managing behavioural, learning, and speech difficulties with her son. She learnt functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and build his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents seeking to understand how to help their children, showing them what can be done to change little lives, allowing them to shine and be their best version. TikTok Instagram LinkedIn Website
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    53 mins
  • Empowering Parents: How Primitive Reflexes and Sensory Input Can Change Lives
    Aug 28 2025
    Lara speaks with Jen, a mother navigating the challenges of raising her son Will, who was born with a cleft lip and palate and later received an autism diagnosis. Jen shares her unique journey, detailing the struggles they faced, including Will's early feeding issues and communication delays. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and addressing underlying developmental factors, such as primitive reflexes and sensory processing, to foster Will's growth. Jen discusses the transformative impact of working with Lara, including the implementation of sensory inputs and exercises that have significantly improved Will's speech and social interactions. This episode serves as an inspiring reminder for parents that there are alternative pathways to support their children's development beyond conventional diagnoses. KEY TAKEAWAYS Understanding Primitive Reflexes: The discussion highlights the importance of primitive reflexes in child development. These reflexes should integrate by the age of 12 months, and retained reflexes can hinder a child's progress. Exercises to integrate these reflexes can help children develop essential motor skills and coordination. Holistic Approach to Diagnosis: The conversation emphasizes that a diagnosis, such as autism, should not be the end of the journey. Instead, it encourages exploring various avenues, including sensory input, dietary changes, and developmental assessments, to understand and support the child's unique needs. Sensory Input and Its Impact: Utilizing sensory tools, such as the ResiMax and specific sound frequencies, can significantly aid in a child's development. These tools help stimulate the brain and integrate reflexes, leading to improved focus and calmness. Importance of Lab Testing: Conducting lab tests, such as organic acid tests, can provide valuable insights into a child's gut health and nutritional deficiencies. Understanding these factors can guide dietary adjustments that may alleviate symptoms and improve overall well-being. BEST MOMENTS "I always, always believed that there was more to go on and to look into and really, like, I wanted to tap into who he actually is rather than his restrictions." - Jen "I was so desperate and so overwhelmed I thought this is the priority right now I am gonna put everything else to one side." - Jen "You can actually see what's going on inside the brain. You can see those alpha, beta, delta waves." - Lara "It was like another boost of hope of like, you know, this child will be able to do all the things." - Jen HOST BIO Lara Barnes a successful woman in tech found herself managing behavioural, learning and speech difficulties with her son, she learn functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and build his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents needing to understand how to help their children and show them what can be done to change little lives to allow them to shine and be their best version. GUEST BIO Jen is a warrior mum, mum to Will, both born with a cleft lip and palate. Their account @dontgetlippyuk was created to share their experience and the impact this condition has. As Will was growing, Jen noticed that Will was missing or delayed with achieving developmental milestones, along with having a speech delay. Wondering how much of their medical journey had impacted Will and wondering what was next, Jen started looking at ways to support development and progress. Through a friend, Jen met Lara. Listen in to understand the journey. www.braindevelopment.co.uk https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/
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    36 mins
  • Toxins in Pregnancy and Child Development: What Parents Need to Know
    Aug 21 2025
    In this episode of the Brain Development Podcast, Lara is joined by Jinal and Vicky to discuss how parents can prepare for a healthy pregnancy and reduce risks linked to child development and neurodiversity. The conversation highlights: The impact of oral health during pregnancy, including how hormonal changes affect the gums and the risks of untreated dental issues. The role of the gut microbiome and why balancing it through diet and lifestyle is vital for both mother and child. Why monitoring copper and folate levels before conception matters for brain health and development. The value of genetic testing (SNPs) in identifying predispositions and taking proactive steps. How environmental toxins influence pregnancy and the importance of creating a safe, healthy “nest” for your child. Packed with practical strategies, this episode empowers parents to take actionable steps toward improving their health—and their future children’s well-being. Key Takeaways Oral Health: Hormonal shifts increase risks of gum disease, which is linked to pregnancy complications. Gut Health: A balanced gut supports neurodevelopment and resilience in children. Copper & Folate: High copper can deplete zinc, while improper folate supplementation may affect cell methylation. Genetic Insights: SNP testing helps parents make informed preconception choices. Best Moments "During pregnancy, ovarian hormones change the oral microbes, leading to more inflammation." – Jinal "If you have very high copper levels, it doubles during pregnancy and may harm your child." – Vicky "I’d advise you to remove any root canal-treated tooth—there’s no way to guarantee it’s bacteria-free." – Jinal "Taking folic acid throughout pregnancy strips the cell of methyl, leading to adverse outcomes." – Vicky Guest Bio – Vicky Vicky, mum to her autistic daughter Rose, holds a BSc in Human Biology. Originally pursuing a career as an NHS dietitian, her journey shifted when navigating her daughter’s complex needs. She founded The Happy Healthy Unicorn to support families with root-cause healing, blending science, lived experience, and compassion. Inspired by her daughter’s progress, Vicky now helps parents restore health—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Host Bio – Lara Barnes Lara Barnes, a successful woman in tech, turned to functional neurology after facing her son’s behavioural, learning, and speech challenges. By reshaping his brain development, she saw transformative results. Through the Building the Brain Podcast, she guides parents toward practical solutions to help their children thrive. Social / Important Links TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/⁠ Website: ⁠www.braindevelopment.co.uk⁠ Guest Website: ⁠https://thehappyhealthyunicorn.com/⁠
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    56 mins
  • Healing Beyond Medications: Exploring the Role of Nutrition, Trauma Management, and Supportive Care in Autism Recovery
    Aug 14 2025
    DESCRIPTION Lara welcomes Jinal, a dentist and mother of an 11-year-old son with ASD, PANDAS, ADHD, and ODD, to share her inspiring journey of healing and empowerment. Jinal recounts challenges from her son’s traumatic birth and early health issues to behavioural regressions and the limits of conventional therapies. Alongside Vicky, a naturopathic nutritionist specialising in neurodevelopmental disorders, they explore understanding each child’s unique needs, the role of nutrition and environment, and the importance of trauma management. Jinal stresses parental intuition and finding supportive practitioners who genuinely care. The episode highlights hope, resilience, and the power of individualised approaches to healing. KEY TAKEAWAYS Empowerment Through Knowledge: Parents should trust their intuition and understand their child’s unique needs rather than rely solely on conventional advice. Holistic Healing: Addressing nutrition, clean air, and trauma is key for children with neurodevelopmental disorders, acknowledging the link between emotions and health. Individualised Plans: No one-size-fits-all; each child’s symptoms, gut health, and environment must guide care. Supportive Practitioners: Ongoing, invested support matters more than high-profile names without personal care. BEST MOMENTS "I have been to my rock bottom but please don't lose hope… anybody else can also come out of it." – Jinal "We're all experts in our own children… not resisting that intuition." – Vicky "Our bodies are amazing… we just need to find the way to heal ourselves." – Jinal "Every child is different. The cookie-cutter protocols just don't work." – Jinal HOST BIO Lara Barnes, a successful woman in tech, faced behavioural, learning, and speech challenges with her son. Learning functional neurology, she transformed his symptoms and built his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast helps parents understand how to change little lives so children can shine. GUEST BIO Vicky, mum to Rose, her autistic daughter, has a BSc in Human Biology and a passion for the human body. Initially on track to be an NHS dietitian, life changed when her daughter’s needs grew complex. She immersed herself in autism, neurodevelopment, and root-cause healing—combining science and compassion. From this came The Happy Healthy Unicorn, a supportive space for families seeking more than vague answers. Rose’s progress inspired Vicky to heal herself and now guide other families physically, emotionally, and spiritually. SOCIAL LINKS TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/⁠ Website: ⁠www.braindevelopment.co.uk⁠
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    1 hr and 55 mins
  • The Methylation Cycle Explained: Key Insights for Parents of Autistic and ADHD Children
    Aug 8 2025
    In this episode of the Brain Development Podcast, Lara explores the intricate subject of methylation and its vital role in supporting the health and development of neurodiverse children, including those with autism, ADHD, and OCD. She is joined by Vicky from The Happy Healthy Unicorn, who breaks down methylation using the analogy of interconnected cogs, highlighting its role in activating neurotransmitters and hormones. Vicky explains that many autistic children are under-methylated, which can significantly impact their brain function and behaviour. She warns of the potential risks associated with high-dose folate supplementation without understanding a child’s unique biochemical needs. Drawing from her training with the Walsh Institute, she shares practical strategies to support methylation through gut health, digestion, and proper nutrient absorption. This conversation aims to equip parents with both knowledge and hope, demonstrating that with targeted interventions, meaningful improvements in a child’s wellbeing and behaviour are achievable. Key Takeaways: Methylation Basics: Methylation is a critical biological process involving methyl groups that are essential for the functioning of neurotransmitters, hormones, and other systems. Under-methylation is common in neurodiverse children, especially those with autism. Gut Health Matters: A healthy gut is crucial for producing B vitamins needed for methylation. Issues like poor digestion, low zinc, or imbalanced gut flora can disrupt this process, so gut health must be prioritised. Nutrition is Key: Diets rich in protein, vegetables, and essential nutrients support effective methylation. Children who are under-methylated often struggle with carbohydrate-heavy or low-protein diets, impacting nutrient absorption. Personalised Approaches: Each child is unique. Tailored, gradual dietary and lifestyle changes are more effective than drastic overhauls, reducing stress and increasing long-term success. Best Moments: "Methylation is like a load of cogs... turning together to achieve a specific outcome." – Vicky "In someone with an autism diagnosis, typically they are under-methylated, which means that they don't create enough of the methyl groups." – Vicky "If you think about the methyl group... when he puts his cape on, his uniform, that he would have methyl and then he'd have this superpower." – Vicky "If you can't digest protein, you're not gonna access methionine, which is an essential part of your methylation cycle." – Vicky Host Bio: Lara Barnes, a successful woman in tech, found herself navigating her son’s behavioural, learning, and speech challenges. This journey led her to study functional neurology and brain development, ultimately transforming her son's life. Through the Building the Brain Podcast, Lara empowers parents with insights on how to support their children’s development and unlock their potential. ⁠ TikTok ⁠ Instagram ⁠ LinkedIn ⁠Website Guest Bio: Vicky is the founder of The Happy Healthy Unicorn and mum to her inspiring autistic daughter, Rose. With a background in health sciences and a BSc in Human Biology, she originally planned to become an NHS dietitian. However, her journey changed course when her daughter’s needs deepened following the birth of her second child. Driven to understand autism and neurodevelopment, Vicky immersed herself in research and training, focusing on root-cause healing and whole, person care. The Happy Healthy Unicorn was born from this journey, a compassionate, science-backed space for families seeking more than vague advice and waitlists. Rose's transformation inspired Vicky’s mission. Through supporting her daughter, Vicky uncovered deep insights into her own health and healing. Today, she guides other families with a blend of scientific knowledge, lived experience, and heartfelt empathy. ⁠Website ⁠Book a Consultation
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    41 mins