Send us a text

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of 'marriage identity' and how it evolves with our individual growth. We explore how our personal journeys and transitions, such as career changes and material pursuits, shape our collective identity as a couple. We discuss the importance of aligning individual identities with the collective identity of the marriage and the challenges that come with it. We share our experiences and reflections on breaking old patterns, embracing new roles, and making conscious choices that align with our true selves. From reevaluating traditional roles to prioritizing intimacy and shared activities, we explore the dynamic nature of relationships and the continuous growth and evolution required to maintain a fulfilling marriage. Join us as we uncover the secrets to transforming our marriage and living a soul-aligned life together.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

“We’re On the Same Team—Even When We Forget”

In this episode, we get real about what it takes to shift from me vs. you into us vs. the problem—and why “Same Team Energy” might just save your marriage.

We talk about:
🤝 What “Same Team Energy” actually means in day-to-day marriage
💬 How small misunderstandings spiral when you forget you’re on the same side
🧠 Mindset shifts that help you navigate conflict without keeping score
❤️ Why intimacy and connection depend on seeing each other as allies
⚡ How to repair faster after disagreements and move forward together

This isn’t a highlight reel—it’s our real marriage, in real time, with real tension. If you’ve ever caught yourself treating your partner like the enemy, this conversation will help you reset and reconnect.

We’re still learning it. We’re still living it.
And we believe “Same Team Energy” can change everything—starting today.

🎧 Listen in and let’s grow together.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

Embracing Change and Overcoming Obstacles: Our Journey Towards Personal and Relational Growth

In this episode, we explore the importance of responding to life's callings and stepping outside of our comfort zones. We share our experiences traveling to Tennessee, and reflecting on our personal and relational growth.

We discuss the importance of recognizing old patterns, the concept of expansion and freedom, and the necessity of trying on new experiences. Because there really are no rules.

By sharing our journey, we highlight the significance of communication, the role of children in life changes, and the idea of creating a life without limits. Throughout our travels and conversations, we emphasize the belief in infinite possibilities and the need to be comfortable with discomfort to achieve personal and relational growth.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

What if you could completely restart your marriage with the person you love - burning away all the past baggage and creating something entirely new?

As we approach our 15-year anniversary, we're about to do something radical: completely burn down our current marriage to rebuild it from scratch. In this raw and vulnerable episode, we reveal Phase One of our revolutionary three-phase relationship transformation method that we'll be living out in real-time.

🔥 What You'll Discover:

• Why we're willing to "burn down" a GOOD marriage to create something extraordinary
• The critical first phase: Shadow work, resentments, and uncomfortable truths
• How to write an "obituary" for your current relationship
• The power of letting go completely before rebuilding
• Why comfort might be your relationship's biggest threat

⚠️ Warning: This isn't surface-level relationship advice. We're getting uncomfortably honest about the deep work required for true transformation - and we're doing it live, with you watching.

Whether your relationship is thriving or struggling, this episode will challenge everything you think you know about love, commitment, and what's possible when two people are willing to risk everything for something greater.

Ready to transform your relationship? Join the waitlist for our upcoming program in the show notes below.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

Cheating isn’t always about sex. In this brutally honest episode, we break down the uncomfortable truths around infidelity—from emotional affairs to unresolved insecurities, unmet needs, and the real reasons people cheat.

We explore why cheating is often a self-betrayal before it’s ever a partner betrayal, the role emotional disconnection plays in long-term relationships, and why truth-telling, boundaries, and regular renewal are essential in modern marriage.

Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or want to protect your relationship from silent drift, this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting insights.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why cheating starts as an internal split, not a physical act
- Why unmet emotional needs are more dangerous than you think
- The red flags you might be ignoring before infidelity happens
- The difference between physical vs. emotional cheating—and why both matter
- How the “10 Year Marriage” model creates space for honest renewal and truth-telling
- Why the betrayed partner isn’t always innocent—and what accountability really looks like

This is one of those episodes that might trigger you—and that’s the point. The conversations you’re afraid to have? They’re the ones that save your relationship.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

Dave and Angie share a deeply personal story about Dave's return to his Long Island hometown after 13 years—and the profound realization that changed everything. What started as a trip to show their kids where Dave came from became a powerful lesson about growth, identity, and why you can't go back to who you used to be.

In This Episode

Dave's emotional journey returning to Long Island after 13 years
Why their kids' reaction wasn't what he expected
The moment Dave realized he was doing it for himself, not them
How growth changes your perspective on everything—including your past
The fantasy football test for relationship health
Why harboring resentment toward your former self is toxic
The parallel between outgrowing places and outgrowing people

Memorable Quotes
"You can't go back to that, right? But there's beauty in it because that made you who you were."
"If you don't change that perspective, you're just setting yourself up for failure."
"If a marriage is only looking backwards, you got some fucking problems."
"Some people die at 25 and live until 70."
"I didn't realize how much I was harboring resentment to myself... resentment of holding on to something that had run its course."

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

Exploring Trust, Surrender, and Growth Through Equine Therapy

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of equine therapy and its impact on both personal development and relationships. Sharing a recent experience at an equine therapy retreat in Oregon, we discuss how horses can mirror our emotions and behaviors, leading to profound insights and shifts. From the initial connection with the horses to facing challenges and breakthroughs, we highlight the importance of trust, surrender, and support in fostering growth and healing. We also emphasize the value of shared experiences in strengthening our marriage and the importance of integrating new learnings into daily life. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability, courage, and the journey of self-discovery.

What started as a weekend of slowing down turned into a deep dive into trust, surrender, personal growth, and what it truly means to support your partner through transformation.

From confronting discomfort in group dynamics to the life-altering moment Dave sat eye-to-eye with a 1,400-pound horse, this episode explores the emotional intensity and relational insights that come when you leave your comfort zone and do the work—together.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
🐴 How equine-assisted leadership cracked open emotional walls
❤️ Why supporting your partner’s breakthrough is sometimes more important than having your own
🧠 The exact moment Dave experienced full surrender (and how it changed his nervous system)
👥 What it really looks like to hold space for your spouse—especially when things get tense
⚡ How couples can turn conflict, discomfort, and emotional triggers into next-level intimacy
🧭 Why shared experiences (not shared chores) are the key to a connected, fulfilling marriage

Whether you’re craving deeper connection, navigating stress in your relationship, or curious about equine therapy and nervous system healing, this episode delivers truth, vulnerability, and practical takeaways.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube

Send us a text

Lessons from a Teenager: Insights into Marriage and Personal Growth

What can a 13-year-old’s breakup teach us about emotional maturity, identity, and intimacy in adult relationships? In this deeply reflective episode, Dave and Angie Tina open up about watching their daughter navigate her first heartbreak—and how it mirrored patterns many adults still struggle with in dating, love, and marriage.

This episode isn’t just about parenting—it’s about partnership.
It explores the difference between love and significance, the danger of losing yourself in relationships, and how emotional validation often disguises itself as love.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
🔑 How early relationships shape our sense of self-worth
❤️ Why we often confuse attention with connection
🪞 The hidden cost of seeking significance over love
🧠 What it really means to “lose yourself” in a relationship
🚩 The invisible patterns we carry from teenage love into adult marriage
💬 Why you can’t build a fulfilling relationship without first building you

Whether you’re a parent, a partner, or someone healing from past patterns, this episode invites you to reflect on what your relationships are truly rooted in—and whether they’re serving the love you want or the validation you’ve been chasing.

Join The Waitlist For The 10 Year Marriage Program For Couples:
JOIN HERE

Check Us Out On Our Social Media:

Instagram

TikTok

YouTube