In this episode of That Sober Guy Podcast, Shane sits down with fashion entrepreneur, social commerce innovator, and newly minted author Christos Garkinos, a man whose journey from Detroit to luxury fashion, Bravo TV, and running a $100M live-streaming network is impressive enough… but who's even more proud of one thing: staying sober.

Christos opens up about growing up with Greek immigrant parents, working with major brands like Disney and Virgin Megastores, pioneering the luxury resale world, and ultimately launching Covet by Christos, a massive community-driven luxury platform featured in places like Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, and The New York Times. But his latest creation might be his most personal yet: his first book, Covet the Comeback.

Together, Shane and Christos unpack why consistency matters, not just in sobriety, but in business, identity, spiritual growth, and making a comeback when life humbles you. They talk about what it means to just show up, surrender control, and let God work in places hustle alone won't fix.

• Comebacks require consistency, not perfection.
Just show up, tell the truth, and let the work compound.

• Sobriety creates space for identity, not the other way around.
When alcohol stops leading, purpose can start.

• God moves when you move.
Taking action opens doors that prayer alone can't.

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Check out Christos's new Book Covet the Comeback here:

https://www.amazon.com/Covet-Comeback-Immigrants-Success-Everything/dp/196437734X

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A new series from That Sober Guy Podcast

Life doesn't stop throwing curveballs just because you quit drinking. The bills still come in, the kids still melt down, and sometimes life just feels stale.

That's where "Sober Guy… How Do I" comes in.

Each short, no-BS episode dives into the real questions guys ask once the bottle's gone and life gets real again. Questions like:

• Sober Guy, how do I stay calm when I get a flat tire?
• Sober Guy, how do I deal with stress at work without losing it?
• Sober Guy, how do I stop comparing myself to everyone else?

Host Shane Ramer, creator of That Sober Guy Podcast, keeps it honest, hilarious, and grounded, blending personal stories, spiritual principles, and practical tools that actually work in real life. No fluff. No guru talk. Just real answers for men who want to quit drinking, lead strong, and win at life.

In this weeks epsiode, Jess from our Victory Circle mens community asked: 'Sober Guy, how do I connect with God or a higher power?' — and man, that's a big one.

💡 Takeaways You'll Get from Each Episode:

• Simple tools to keep your peace when life hits hard
• How to use recovery principles in everyday moments
• Ways to stay grateful, grounded, and strong — without the hangover

⚡ Ready to Go Further?

• 💬 Join the Victory Circle – our free men's community for accountability, support, and real conversations that help you grow.
• 📘 Grab Shane's new book, Sober Guy, How Do I… Real Answers for Men Who Want to Quit Drinking, Lead Strong, and Win at Life — available now on Amazon.
• 🔥 Apply for 1-on-1 Coaching with Shane if you're ready to level up your sobriety, mindset, and leadership.

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Life doesn't stop throwing curveballs just because you quit drinking. The bills still come in, the kids still melt down, and yes — sometimes it can be awkward being the only one at the party who's not drinking.

That's where "Sober Guy… How Do I" comes in.

Each short, no-BS episode dives into the real questions guys ask once the bottle's gone and life gets real again. Questions like:

• Sober Guy, how do I stay calm when I get a flat tire?
• Sober Guy, how do I deal with stress at work without losing it?
• Sober Guy, how do I stop comparing myself to everyone else?

Host Shane Ramer, creator of That Sober Guy Podcast, keeps it honest, hilarious, and grounded — blending personal stories, spiritual principles, and practical tools that actually work in real life. No fluff. No guru talk. Just real answers for men who want to quit drinking, lead strong, and win at life.

This week, Keith from our free online mens community The Victory Circle asks: Sober Guy, How Do I Stay Cool When Everyone's Drinking But Me?

💡 Takeaways You'll Get from Each Episode:

• Simple tools to keep your peace when life hits hard
• How to use recovery principles in everyday moments
• Ways to stay grateful, grounded, and strong — without the hangover

⚡ Ready to Go Further?

• 💬 Join the Victory Circle – our free men's community for accountability, support, and real conversations that help you grow.
• 📘 Grab Shane's new book, Sober Guy, How Do I… Real Answers for Men Who Want to Quit Drinking, Lead Strong, and Win at Life — available now on Amazon.
• 🔥 Apply for 1-on-1 Coaching with Shane if you're ready to level up your sobriety, mindset, and leadership.

Listen now, laugh a little, and learn how to not let life's flat tires wreck your day — or your sobriety.

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Join "The Victory Circle", our FREE Sober Guy Mens Community at https://www.thatsoberguy.com/offers/SvjjuEQ2/checkout

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🎙️ Sober Guy, How Do I...

A new series from That Sober Guy Podcast

Life doesn't stop throwing curveballs just because you quit drinking. The bills still come in, the kids still have melt downs, and yes sometimes you wake up to a flat tire… again… and start questioning your luck, your patience, and your entire neighborhood construction crew.

That's where "Sober Guy, How Do I" comes in.

Each short, no-BS episode dives into the real questions guys ask once the bottle's gone and life gets real again. Questions like:

• Sober Guy, how do I stay calm when things just aren't going my way?
• Sober Guy, how do I deal with stress at work without losing it?
• Sober Guy, how do I stop comparing myself to everyone else?

Host Shane Ramer, creator of That Sober Guy Podcast, keeps it honest, hilarious, and grounded, blending personal stories, spiritual principles, and practical tools that actually work in real life. No fluff. Just real answers for men who want to quit drinking, lead strong, and win at life.

💡 Takeaways You'll Get from Each Episode:

• Simple tools to keep your peace when life hits hard
• How to use recovery principles in everyday moments
• Ways to stay grateful, grounded, and strong — without the hangover

⚡ Ready to Go Further?

• 💬 Join the Victory Circle – our free men's community for accountability, support, and real conversations that help you grow.
• 📘 Grab Shane's new book, Sober Guy, How Do I… Real Answers for Men Who Want to Quit Drinking, Lead Strong, and Win at Life — available now on Amazon.
• 🔥 Apply for 1-on-1 Coaching with Shane if you're ready to level up your sobriety, mindset, and leadership.

Listen now, laugh a little, and learn how to not let life's flat tires wreck your day — or your sobriety.

Join "The Victory Circle", our FREE Sober Guy Mens Community at https://www.thatsoberguy.com/offers/SvjjuEQ2/checkout

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We're living in the age of the Reset. Klaus Schwabb calls it the "Great Reset". But were not talking about Klaus Schwabb or his quote that you will "own nothing and like it".

Although some of the following are great things to try, we're also not talking about a reset by cold plunges, breathwork, ice baths. red light therapy or gratitude journaling, either.

We're talking about the one "reset" that's actually changing lives, quitting alcohol.

In this episode, Shane dives into why so many high-performing men, business owners, leaders, and entrepreneurs, are walking away from the "work hard, play hard" lifestyle and choosing clarity, peace, and purpose instead.

You'll hear why Reset Culture is more than just a trend, it's a movement of men who are tired of feeling burned out, anxious, and disconnected… and ready to build a new kind of success story that doesn't come with a hangover.

Expect truth, humor, and a few gut punches along the way.
(And probably a joke or two about how we used to think tequila was self-care.)

• Why high-achievers are trading late nights for early mornings

• The surprising link between alcohol, anxiety, and ambition

• How sobriety gives you an unfair advantage in business and life

• The difference between numbing out and leveling up

• Why "peace" is the new "flex"

1. Do a Personal Reset Audit:
   Ask yourself — "Am I using alcohol to escape or to elevate?"
   Be honest. That answer can change your life.

2. Find Your Crew:
   You can't build momentum in isolation. Join The Victory Circle, our free sober men's community, where high-performing men connect, share wins, and stay accountable.

3. Get Real Support:

👉 Join The Victory Circle (Free Community)

👉 Apply for 1-on-1 Coaching

That Sober Guy, the number #1 Men's Sober Podcast since 2014 – Helping men quit drinking, take back control, and build the life they were meant to lead.

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Apparently, choosing not to drink now makes you controversial.

In this episode, Shane dives into the cultural weirdness around sobriety — why quitting alcohol freaks people out more than drinking too much, how clear-headed men are suddenly being called "radical," and what this says about masculinity, culture, and freedom in 2025.

From The Guardian's recent article "Mocktails for MAGA: Why the US Right Is Turning Sober" to the growing trend of men reclaiming their focus, faith, and families, Shane breaks down why a simple glass of sparkling water can now spark a political debate.

You'll laugh, shake your head, and probably think twice about why society celebrates dysfunction and ridicules discipline.

Because here's the truth, sobriety isn't extreme. It's clarity. It's leadership. It's power.
And in a world that glorifies chaos, staying sober might just be the most rebellious move you can make.

• Don't let culture define your character — "normal" isn't always right.

• True masculinity isn't about how much you can drink, but how much you can carry.

• Staying sober isn't weakness — it's the foundation of real freedom and clarity.

If you're ready to level up your mind, health, and leadership:

👉 Join our free men's community — The Victory Circle — where sober, high-performing men are redefining what strength looks like.

Or if you're ready to go deeper, apply for 1-on-1 coaching and build a system to help you quit drinking and win long-term.

Links are in the show notes below.

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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/oct/09/trump-maga-alcohol-drinking

Today on That Sober Guy Podcast, we're joined by a legend in the speaking and performance world, Joel Bauer. This dude has trained some of the most elite speakers, presenters, and marketers on the planet to monetize their life experience and create real influence, both on and offline. If you've ever seen someone captivate a room and thought, "How the hell do they do that?" - there's a good chance Joel's fingerprints are somewhere in their training.

But here's where it gets real, Joel's not just about stage presence and sales. He's lived through and witnessed the dark side of addiction up close, and he's got some powerful wisdom for men who know they've got that "addictive personality" wiring. Instead of letting it wreck your life, Joel breaks down how to redirect that same intensity into something that actually serves you, your business, your relationships, your health, and your purpose.

And, of course, we have a few laughs along the way, because if you can't laugh at the insanity of this crazy life, what's the point?

A couple of key takeaways from today's episode:

1. Your "addictive" tendencies aren't a curse, they're untapped potential when harnessed with the right structure and intention.

2. Influence isn't about what you sell, it's about the truth you're willing to share and the transformation you've lived.

If this episode hits home for you, don't go it alone. Join our free men's community, The Victory Circle , where high-performing men connect, share wins, and stay accountable on the path to sobriety, strength, and purpose.

Or if you're ready to go deeper, reach out for 1-on-1 coaching and let's build a plan to help you quit drinking and get your fire back.

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Are men drinking themselves out of masculinity? In this episode of That Sober Guy Podcast, we break down how alcohol quietly strips away the very things men pride themselves on - strength, drive, sex drive, and mental toughness.

From the "beer belly badge of surrender" to the not-so-funny reality of whiskey D, we'll dive into the science and the everyday impact booze has on your body, brain, and relationships. We'll also get real about why many men reach for the bottle to feel confident or tough, and how that short-term crutch is often the thing eroding their long-term manhood.

This isn't about chest-thumping caveman masculinity. It's about the grit, focus, discipline, and clarity that make men leaders, fathers, husbands, and high performers — and why alcohol is the biggest enemy of all four. Expect some laughs, some uncomfortable truths, and a wake-up call that might just change the way you think about your next drink.

Actionable Takeaways:

1. Ask yourself: Is alcohol fueling my manhood or stealing it? Be brutally honest.
2. Replace one "manhood killer" (nightly drinking) with one "manhood builder" (a workout, journaling, cold shower, or just showing up present with your family).

If you're ready to sharpen your edge, join our free men's community — The Victory Circle — where other guys are quitting drinking and leveling up together. Or, if you want deeper support, reach out for 1-on-1 coaching and let's build your strongest, clearest, most powerful self.

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