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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

By: A.J. Mahari
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 A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

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  • Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization

    Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization
    Jun 29 2025
    Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization

    Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more personal responsibility for yourself - not how anyone with BPD treated you terribly. It is important to get into a healing and recovery journey in therapy to break the trauma bond, learn to focus more on yourself, and to stop externalizing out your needs that can't be met by a person with BPD. Codependent needs that you need to learn how to meet internally for yourself.

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    22 mins
  • BPD Sudden Shocking Discard Ex is Alone Now What Can You Do?

    BPD Sudden Shocking Discard Ex is Alone Now What Can You Do?
    Jun 21 2025
    BPD Sudden Shocking Discard BPD Ex is All Alone Now What Can You Do?

    BPD sudden shocking discard is devastating and leaves many an Ex of someone with BPD worried that their Ex wife or Ex husband with Borderline Personality or Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend with BPD may be all alone and what can you do to help them? Why do you still want to help them?

    https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions
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    https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more
    https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcast


    This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:
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    22 mins
  • Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent

    Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent
    Jun 21 2025
    Wanting to Make Amends to a BPD Ex is Codependent

    BPD Ex wanting to make amends to Borderline is codependent. Whether you are struggling with alcoholism in AA and wanting to make amends or substance abuse program recovery and wanting to make amends or not, just generally want to make amends to a BPD Ex itis highly NOT recommended that you do so. Maybe you feel guilty that you so hurt an Ex with BPD just by going no contact.

    It is not in your best interest at all to try to make amends to a BPD friend, Ex, or if you were their favorite person because it is Codependent action that isn't going to help you take care of you.
    Why is trying to make amends to a Borderline Ex, or in any relationship type Codependent and too risky for you?


    https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions
    https://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk - After Hours
    https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more
    https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcast


    This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:
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    28 mins

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