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Stalker Vampires and Book Boyfriends: Our Toxic Media Obsessions

Stalker Vampires and Book Boyfriends: Our Toxic Media Obsessions

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In this episode we explore how media influences our perceptions of relationships and sexuality from childhood through adulthood, examining everything from Disney movies to influencer culture and book boyfriends.

• Disney princess narratives set unrealistic gender-specific expectations about love and relationships from childhood
• Social media and influencers present carefully curated relationship content that hides the real work behind healthy partnerships
• Dating apps have created a superficial culture based on appearance and overwhelm of choice
• Media commonly portrays toxic relationship dynamics like the anxious-avoidant dance as romantic and desirable
• Romance novels and "book boyfriends" create fantasy standards that real partners struggle to match
• Diverse relationship representation in media is slowly improving but still has significant gaps
• Porn access restrictions in various states raise questions about censorship, sex education, and ethical content creation

We'd love to hear your thoughts! Email us at podcast@validlove.org with your feedback and experiences with media influence on relationships.


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