In this raw and powerful episode, we sit down with international dressage rider Abi Lyle, who opens up about her incredible journey to the Olympics—from childhood dreams to riding under the global spotlight.

Abi shares the highs and lows of life in the dressage world, her deep LOVE (like Jenny-level love!) for Carl Hester, and how social media plays a role in her equestrian career—from motivational messages to the... less polite DMs. It's candid, funny, and full of the passion that drives her sport.

But this conversation takes a deeper turn as Abi bravely speaks about surviving coercive control and abuse from convicted murderer Jonathan Crewswell, the heartbreaking loss of her brother, and her current sobriety journey.

This is a story of grit, healing, and rediscovery. Abi’s voice is one of strength and clarity, and we’re honored she chose to share it on the podcast.

Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of domestic abuse, grief, and addiction. Please take care while listening.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, here are resources that can help:

• Coercive Control - Refuge

• Coercive Control - Women’s Aid

• Coercive Control – Victims First (Berkshire, Buckinghamshire, Oxfordshire)

TOUR COMING SOON 16th and 17th of Jan 2026

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This week on Shut Up and Ride, it’s just Simon and Jenny—no guests, just pure, unfiltered horse chat. We’re diving into your listener questions, covering everything from tricky training scenarios to stableyard scandals. And yes… we’re playing Shag, Marry, Avoid—horse-world edition. Think famous riders, disciplines, and maybe even a few controversial equines (you’ve been warned).

It’s chaotic, it’s hilarious, and probably a little too honest. Saddle up for an episode full of laughs, opinions, and total nonsense. Just the way we like it.

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The One With Simon’s Assets, Ben’s Funeral Fiasco & That Heath Ryan Video
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The gang's back together! Ben, Simon, and Jenny reunite in this packed episode full of honesty, humour, and heart.

We kick off with Simon’s, er, assets making a surprise appearance (you’ll never look at a pair of breeches the same again), before diving into Ben’s emotional goodbye to his grandparents—and how their funeral somehow turned into a full episode of The Vicar of Dibley.

Then things get serious as we discuss the controversial video of Heath Ryan whipping a horse. We don’t hold back, and we openly invite Heath to join us on the pod to talk, listen, and—hopefully—help drive change for the welfare of our horses.

Finally, Jenny opens up about her personal experience with perimenopause: the brain fog, the emotional rollercoaster, and why more women in our sport need to feel seen and heard.

This episode is a rollercoaster—raw, ridiculous, and real. Saddle up.

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In this episode, Jenny Rudall and Simey Grieve welcome the brilliant (and at times hilarious) Michael Duffy, international show jumper and all-round good sport. From growing up in a horsey household to navigating the competitive show jumping circuit, Michael takes us behind the scenes of his life in the ring—and out of it.

They chat about everything from natural talent vs hard work, mental resilience, and the evolution of riding styles, to the commercialisation of the sport and what the future might hold. But it’s not all serious—Michael’s sharp wit shines through, especially in a brilliantly relatable “What’s Annoyed You This Week” segment that will have horsey listeners nodding (and laughing) in agreement.

Honest, insightful, and properly funny—this is one you don’t want to miss.

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More great content from Ben and Simon plus Nina Barbour talks horses, shows & vision

Ben and Simon are running the show this week while Jenny's off working — the lads kick things off with their usual mix of mischief and musings — from questionable golf references to the chaos of show season prep.

In the second half, they’re joined by the legendary Nina Barbour, founder of Bolesworth, who brings both wit and wisdom to the conversation. From the challenges of running one of Britain’s top show venues to her upcoming ride in the Magnolia Cup for charity,

Nina shares a great 'what's annoyed you' this week, where Ben also vents about being judged while out with his baby, and Simon has a few words about Badmonton Horse Trials.

Expect laughs, honesty, and some cracking insights into the equestrian world.

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Nashville Nightmares, Eventing Ethics & the Weight of Loss

In this week’s episode of Shut Up and Ride, Simon and Jenny sit down for a candid catch-up that’s equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. Jenny spills the tea on her outrageous escapades in Nashville – from questionable karaoke to cowboy boot blisters – and Simon can barely keep it together.

But it’s not all laughs. The duo tackles a controversial topic in the equestrian world: when riders experience near-disasters in eventing, should they be allowed to carry on? They dig into the tough questions around rider responsibility, safety, and the ongoing conversation about horse welfare.

Finally, they reflect on something deeper – the grief of losing horses and people we love, and how those losses shape us both in and out of the saddle.

An episode full of laughs, thought-provoking debate, and honest emotion – don’t miss it.

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Amberley Snyder on Resilience, Rodeo, and Why You Should Love the Horse First

In this powerful episode of Shut Up and Ride, Ben and Jenny sit down with the incredible Amberley Snyder—barrel racing champion, motivational speaker, and living proof that resilience knows no limits.

Amberley shares the story of her life before and after the accident that changed everything, and how she fought her way back into the saddle against all odds. Jenny can’t contain her excitement over Amberley’s Yellowstone cameo, while Ben is left speechless by the sheer strength and determination she radiates.

This is more than a conversation—it's a reminder that no obstacle is too great when your passion leads the way.

Tune in for an unforgettable story of grit, grace, and the unbreakable spirit of a true rider.

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Influencer, icon, absolute riot — the one and only Silly Prune joins the pod and it’s easily one of the funniest episodes we’ve ever recorded.

From roast-level banter to accidental truths, nothing is off-limits — especially when it comes to poor Simon, who gets lovingly dragged and famously labelled a “slut and a national treasure” within the first five minutes.

️ In this chaos-filled ep:
We deep-dive into Hannah's life in and out of the saddle (and online)
Call out equestrian nonsense with zero filter especially Ben!
Talk influencer pressure, real-life vs. Insta-life
And maybe overshare a bit too much.... well Ben is on the beer!

This episode is loud, unfiltered and absolutely hilarious — just the way we like it.

Hit play now — and prepare to cry-laugh your way through it.

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