“When good men get their wants and needs met, the whole world benefits.”

Meg’s off holding it down at her feminine leadership retreat, so I’ve got the mic today with one of the most solid brothers in men’s work, Traver Boehm from Man Uncivilized.

We went straight in.

No tiptoeing, no ‘be nice so everyone’s comfortable’ shit.

We’re talking about how men lose themselves trying to please women, how to stop living as a servant to the queen, and what it actually takes to reclaim your mission.

We got into the initiations that strip you back to your bones, the kind you don’t buy a ticket for, and why they’re the making of you if you’ve got the balls to stay in them.

This is about remembering who the fuck you are and leading your life like it matters.

🔥Here’s What We Dive Into:

• The epidemic of men living as “servants to the queen” instead of sovereign leaders
• Why your ego’s dream life might burn you to the ground, and how to find what your soul actually wants
• The terrifying leap from control to purpose, and why it’s magnetic as hell
• How to step into your full power without destroying the people around you
• Dark nights of the soul as sacred gateways, not tragedies
• What real initiation looks like (hint: it’s not a weekend workshop)
• Why the medicine of an initiation has to be integrated back home
• The role of elders and how to rebuild real community around them
• Finding joy even in the middle of your deepest tests
• The dangerous gift: being willing to risk your identity for something bigger

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“If we don’t reconnect as lovers, everything else suffers.”

A plan is nice, until real life shows up.

This episode started with a strict schedule: record the podcast, tick the boxes, get it done.

Instead, tech failed, parenting drained us, and the space between us felt heavy.

What happened next? We scrapped the plan, chose each other, and everything changed.

We talk about the slow creep of disconnection in busy seasons, why intimacy is the first thing to go when you’re in survival mode, and the kind of generosity that doesn’t always look like doing more…it looks like pausing, softening, and letting the truth of the moment lead.

It’s messy, honest, and proof that sometimes the most productive thing you can do for your relationship is to stop everything and reconnect.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Why intimacy drops to the bottom of the list in survival seasons (and how to bring it back)
• The “truth of the moment” vs. the plan you thought you had
• Using sex as reconnection, not avoidance
• The unspoken generosity in letting your partner have space without punishment
• Breaking cycles of reactivity before they spiral
• Choosing depth over staying “on schedule”
• What happens when you’re willing to sacrifice the plan for real connection

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“There’s a reason brotherhood feels confronting: it won’t let you stay the same.”

This one’s for the men who are tired of playing a role.
And for the women who are tired of watching them pretend.

In today’s episode, I sat down with my brother, Nick Warner, a father, men’s facilitator, and one of the most grounded, embodied leaders I know. We get into the shadow side of men’s work, the trap of emotional dumping, the chaos of Neo-Tantra, and the slow, sacred work of actually becoming trustworthy.

We talk about fatherhood as initiation, the pressure to perform polarity, and why true devotion has nothing to prove.

This isn’t about masculine aesthetic.
This is about leadership, when no one’s watching.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• The illusion of freedom in “uncommitted” masculine identity
• Why polyamory & open relating often mask intimacy wounds
• The knight vs. king archetypes — and how men get stuck performing
• Spiritual bypassing in men’s work and Neo-Tantra spaces
• The line between sacred vulnerability vs. emotional collapse
• What real devotion looks like in fatherhood and marriage
• How brotherhood humbles and forges the masculine path
• The question that ends the performance: Who do you serve?

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“If we don’t define roles with love, we inherit them with resentment.”

We got fired up by a viral reel floating around online recently…

A young man was proudly sharing how he wants to “provide” for his woman—so she can spend her days going on “hot girl walks” and avoid life’s challenges.

Sweet, right?

Kind of…

Because in the same breath, he spoke about how men desire a woman who is “relaxed” and “calm” at the end of the day.

Aka:

“I’ll provide for you… as long as you behave.”

“I’ll give you a comfortable life… as long as you make mine easy.”

That’s not real provision.

That’s control disguised as care.

That’s conditional love dressed up as devotion.

So yeah… we had a LOT to say. And we recorded a whole episode unpacking it.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Why that viral reel about “providing for a woman” sparked something in us
• Self-serving provision vs. provision rooted in devotion & love
• When providership can be used to control a woman
• The difference between financial provision & emotional provision
• What a deep woman is truly yearning for
• How we personally navigate gender roles in our relationship
• And so much more.

This one’s big. Let’s go there.

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“Without lineage, a man becomes a wanderer in his own body.”

This one’s a rite of passage in itself.

Jacob sits down with Kale Kaalehaki, cultural revivalist, father, and co-founder of Sacred Souls, to speak on what most modern men are missing, not breathwork, not biohacks, not six-packs… but belonging.

Together, they unpack why grief is the doorway to manhood, how routine without reverence keeps us hollow, and what it truly means to return to land, lineage, and life as sacred.

This one’s for the men who’ve trained, regulated, achieved, and still feel hollow.

This one’s for the ones ready to come back to land, to ritual, to story, to fire.

To what was never supposed to be forgotten.

If you’ve ever felt like your nervous system was regulated but your soul still felt lost, this conversation is the fire you didn’t know you needed.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Why the “self-made man” is a myth rooted in disconnection
• The spiritual condition of modernity, and why most men are culturally orphaned
• The difference between initiation and rite of passage (and why both matter)
• How routine without ritual leaves men spiritually starving
• Parenting, grief, and the unexpected initiations of fatherhood
• Sacred reciprocity: reclaiming relationship with land, air, and water
• Why nervous system work isn’t enough without soul confrontation
• The return to songs, stories, offerings—and building true belonging

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“When a woman starts performing in her relationship, she stops being seen.”

Every word in this episode is a mirror for the woman who quietly wonders, “Do I still matter?”

Meg & Jacob crack open part two of one of their most tender, triggering, and transformational convos yet what it means for a woman to want to matter, deeply, not just in her business or family but in her relationship.

We’re diving into the difference between being needed vs. being chosen, why female significance is not the same as attention-seeking, and how the fear of being too much makes women shrink their wildest longings.

You’ll hear the real-time reflections from their own partnership, including the raw moment Meg almost gave up, and how they found each other again not in roles, but in real presence.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, under-chosen, or like you have to “earn” your seat in love… this one is going to go straight to your heart.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• The difference between being significant and being useful
• Why female longing is sacred—not dramatic or needy
• The silent heartbreak of becoming "just the mom" in a relationship
• Jacob’s reflection on what most men miss when their woman starts to pull away
• How to feel chosen again without begging for attention
• Why a man’s leadership must include emotional devotion
• What it actually means to see, hold, and re-choose your woman daily

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“The superwoman archetype is killing us. We rise when we let ourselves be supported.”

This one’s a rewire for every ambitious mama out there.

In this powerful episode, Meg is joined by the radiant Cait Scudder, leadership mentor, mother of three, and creator of The Millionaire Mother brand, for a truth-packed convo on what it really takes to lead in business while raising kids without burning out or betraying yourself.

They go deep into the unseen mental load mothers carry, the nervous system capacity required to lead, and why we need to stop pretending we’re doing this alone. Kate shares her story of rebranding her entire business after her second baby, building home systems that actually work, and what it looks like to embody the matriarch archetype.

🔥 Here's what we dive into:

• Why you don’t have to choose between your babies and your business
• Releasing the "superwoman" myth and rewriting what success looks like
• Masculine vs. feminine energy in motherhood + business
• Why nervous system bandwidth is the foundation for sustainable leadership
• The mindset shift from “good girl” to matriarch
• Home SOPs, rhythms, and the sacred structure behind her success
• Why receiving support is the most powerful gift you can model for your kids
  
  

If you’ve ever felt like you had to do it all to be a good mom, this episode is your permission slip to do it differently.

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"Devotion to love will ask you to put down the sword and pick up presence."

In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real and raw story straight from our recent road trip, baby meltdowns, car seat chaos, and all the feelings. What unfolded was a powerful reflection on devotion, forgiveness, and the quiet ways resentment creeps into relationships.

We’re talking about the difference between preference and truth, how to stay connected in discomfort, and why letting go is sometimes the most loving thing you can do.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a power struggle, holding onto the small stuff, or feeling like you need to be right… this one’s for you.

🔥 Here’s what we get into:

• Why forgiveness isn’t about words—it’s an energy
• How holding onto "small things" kills intimacy
• The truth about letting go without repressing yourself
• The difference between preference and truth in love
• Why your nervous system holds the key to deeper connection
• How devotion shifts the dynamic from “winner/loser” to interdependence
• Parenting, power struggles, emotional triggers… all of it.

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