“When good men get their wants and needs met, the whole world benefits.”

Meg’s off holding it down at her feminine leadership retreat, so I’ve got the mic today with one of the most solid brothers in men’s work, Traver Boehm from Man Uncivilized.

We went straight in.

No tiptoeing, no ‘be nice so everyone’s comfortable’ shit.

We’re talking about how men lose themselves trying to please women, how to stop living as a servant to the queen, and what it actually takes to reclaim your mission.

We got into the initiations that strip you back to your bones, the kind you don’t buy a ticket for, and why they’re the making of you if you’ve got the balls to stay in them.

This is about remembering who the fuck you are and leading your life like it matters.

🔥Here’s What We Dive Into:

• The epidemic of men living as “servants to the queen” instead of sovereign leaders
• Why your ego’s dream life might burn you to the ground, and how to find what your soul actually wants
• The terrifying leap from control to purpose, and why it’s magnetic as hell
• How to step into your full power without destroying the people around you
• Dark nights of the soul as sacred gateways, not tragedies
• What real initiation looks like (hint: it’s not a weekend workshop)
• Why the medicine of an initiation has to be integrated back home
• The role of elders and how to rebuild real community around them
• Finding joy even in the middle of your deepest tests
• The dangerous gift: being willing to risk your identity for something bigger

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“If we don’t reconnect as lovers, everything else suffers.”

A plan is nice, until real life shows up.

This episode started with a strict schedule: record the podcast, tick the boxes, get it done.

Instead, tech failed, parenting drained us, and the space between us felt heavy.

What happened next? We scrapped the plan, chose each other, and everything changed.

We talk about the slow creep of disconnection in busy seasons, why intimacy is the first thing to go when you’re in survival mode, and the kind of generosity that doesn’t always look like doing more…it looks like pausing, softening, and letting the truth of the moment lead.

It’s messy, honest, and proof that sometimes the most productive thing you can do for your relationship is to stop everything and reconnect.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• Why intimacy drops to the bottom of the list in survival seasons (and how to bring it back)
• The “truth of the moment” vs. the plan you thought you had
• Using sex as reconnection, not avoidance
• The unspoken generosity in letting your partner have space without punishment
• Breaking cycles of reactivity before they spiral
• Choosing depth over staying “on schedule”
• What happens when you’re willing to sacrifice the plan for real connection

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“There’s a reason brotherhood feels confronting: it won’t let you stay the same.”

This one’s for the men who are tired of playing a role.
And for the women who are tired of watching them pretend.

In today’s episode, I sat down with my brother, Nick Warner, a father, men’s facilitator, and one of the most grounded, embodied leaders I know. We get into the shadow side of men’s work, the trap of emotional dumping, the chaos of Neo-Tantra, and the slow, sacred work of actually becoming trustworthy.

We talk about fatherhood as initiation, the pressure to perform polarity, and why true devotion has nothing to prove.

This isn’t about masculine aesthetic.
This is about leadership, when no one’s watching.

🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into:

• The illusion of freedom in “uncommitted” masculine identity
• Why polyamory & open relating often mask intimacy wounds
• The knight vs. king archetypes — and how men get stuck performing
• Spiritual bypassing in men’s work and Neo-Tantra spaces
• The line between sacred vulnerability vs. emotional collapse
• What real devotion looks like in fatherhood and marriage
• How brotherhood humbles and forges the masculine path
• The question that ends the performance: Who do you serve?

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