Episodes

  • 467: The #1 Reason You're Stuck – And How to Fix It Fast
    Nov 12 2025

    If you're ready to take the wheel and make your dream life a reality, take the Next Era Quiz. https://schoolofselfimage.com/quiz-pod

    Tell me if this sounds familiar: You wake up, think the same thoughts, feel the same emotions. Another week goes by, and nothing's really changed. You tell yourself you're confused, that you just need clarity.

    But what if you're not confused at all?

    In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason you're stuck (hint: your brain thinks it's protecting you), the two versions of you fighting for control of your life, and five surprisingly simple ways to finally break free – including why doing the opposite of what your brain tells you is the secret nobody talks about.

    Because the woman you're becoming isn't waiting for clarity – she's ready to grab the wheel and create a completely new road.

    Here's what we cover:

    • Why feeling "stuck" isn't confusion, but your brain clinging to the familiar

    • The two drivers within you: the fearful, contracted self and the brave, higher self

    • Five steps to stop spinning your wheels and break free from mental and emotional ruts

    • The power of decision, and why clarity comes after you choose a direction

    • How to create momentum through new thoughts, environments, and style

    • Ways to trust your higher self, embrace change, and steer toward your next era

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

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    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    15 mins
  • 466: Want More Out of Life? Start Doing Less
    Nov 5 2025

    If you're ready to step into aligned energy and start thriving, take the Next Era Quiz: https://schoolofselfimage.com/quiz-pod

    Most women believe that working harder = a guaranteed win. But what if you're putting in the hours, checking the boxes… but nothing seems to click?

    In this episode, I'm sharing how doing less actually gets you MORE – and it's about matching your energy with your self-image. You'll learn the three types of energy women usually operate from and where you need to focus in order to welcome your next era of success.

    Here's what we cover:

    • Why effort alone can't create success, and how your energy determines your results

    • The link between self-image and energy, and how misalignment keeps you stuck

    • The three energy states that shape your results

    • How fear-based energy blocks creativity, confidence, and genuine connection

    • The power of aligned energy: where action meets flow and attraction feels effortless

    • Simple ways to shift your energy, realign your self-image, and step into your next era

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    25 mins
  • 465: Champagne Living: How to Sparkle without Spending
    Oct 29 2025

    If you're ready to step into a richer way of being, join us inside the School of Self-Image membership: https://schoolofselfimage.com/membership-pod/

    Many women feel that a magical and expansive life requires money – the luxury bags, the designer clothes, unlimited bank accounts. But here's the truth: your sparkle isn't bought, it's embodied. This is the essence of what I call Champagne Living.

    In this episode, I'm revealing the core essence of Champagne Living – cultivating an abundant self-image – and the six ways it transforms your life. You'll discover how this single mindset shift, choosing to see the beauty and joy regardless of external circumstances, opens you up to bigger opportunities.

    Because an abundant self-image isn't about waiting for a certain dollar amount. It's knowing, deep in your bones, that you are worthy of life's finest experiences. That your shine is already here, waiting to be expressed.

    Here's what we cover:

    • The true meaning of Champagne Living and how it turns the ordinary into magic

    • How an abundant self-image frees you from chasing, comparing, and wanting

    • Why your shine shouldn't be postponed by your present reality

    • Everyday ways to embody sparkle through presence and gratitude

    • Why inner abundance becomes a magnet for expansion

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    12 mins
  • 464: What Is A High Value Woman (And How to Become One)
    Oct 22 2025

    If you are ready to stop performing and start becoming, explore The Self-Image Method, my signature process to upgrade how you see yourself and step into the highest expression of who you are: https://schoolofselfimage.com/pod-sim

    Most advice about becoming a high-value woman is surface-level: wear this, say that, wait three days to text back. But true high-value energy is not about tactics or performing to get the man, the job, or the money. It is a state of being. It is how you carry yourself, how you see yourself, and how you show up when no one is watching.

    In this episode, we redefine what it really means to be a high-value woman and how to embody that energy from the inside out. You will learn the three layers of value (intrinsic, perceived, and lived), how to shift your mindset, build self-trust, raise your standards, and create habits that reflect your worth without chasing approval or validation.

    Here's what we cover:


    •The true meaning of value and why most women misunderstand it


    •The difference between appearing high value and being high value


    •How to strengthen your intrinsic, perceived, and lived value


    •The daily habits that build confidence, self-respect, and self-trust


    •How to master your emotions and create powerful personal boundaries


    •Ways to celebrate yourself and invest in your own growth

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonyaleigh

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    16 mins
  • 463: Elevate Your Self-Image With These 4 Daily Steps
    Oct 15 2025

    Get The Self-Image Method today:

    https://schoolofselfimage.com/pod-sim

    If you're ready to become the woman of your dreams in a sustainable way, this podcast shows you how.

    In this episode, I'm sharing four simple ways to raise your self-image and elevate your life. You'll learn how small, intentional steps create lasting change and why embracing failure encourages growth and self-confidence.

    I'll also talk about the power of awareness, how your choices are the building blocks that shape you into who you want to be, how repetition turns your chosen vibe into your natural state, and why deciding how you want to feel will make you unstoppable.

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    Tonya Leigh is a Master Self-Image Coach, former critical care nurse, and the visionary founder of the School of Self-Image – a global movement for women ready to stop playing small and start living boldly.

    Her life changed one night at 2AM, when a doctor asked her a single, powerful question: "Who do you want to be?"

    That moment sparked a reinvention that took her from the ICU to sipping champagne in Paris, from burnout to building an international brand that has helped thousands of women redefine success, style, and self-worth.

    At the heart of her work is the Self-Image Method® – her signature framework for identity reinvention. With this step-by-step process, women learn how to align their mindset, style, and surroundings with the woman they are becoming.

    Tonya's philosophy is simple yet life-changing: a woman's life always rises to the level of her self-image. And with her signature blend of elegance, mindset, and practical tools, she has become the go-to mentor for women who crave more – and are ready to create it.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoolofselfimage/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    #selfimage #unlockyourhigherself #transformation

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    13 mins
  • 462: 5 Things That Don't Belong in Your Next Era
    Oct 8 2025

    Join us in the School of Self-Image: https://schoolofselfimage.com/membership-pod/

    If you've been feeling a pull for something fresh and exciting in your life, this conversation is your sign to make that change.

    In this episode, I'll be sharing the five things you must release in order to welcome your Next Era. You'll learn how evolution comes naturally for our creative core and why transformation is more about refinement than repairing what's "broken."

    I'll also talk about why creating space matters in your expansion, why past stories and external validation aren't the be-all and end-all, why the people and places you choose can make or break your growth, and how setting standards allows the new you to emerge.

    Download the FREE Self-Image Manifesto:

    https://schoolofselfimage.com/manifesto

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    Tonya Leigh is a Master Self-Image Coach, former critical care nurse, and the visionary founder of the School of Self-Image – a global movement for women ready to stop playing small and start living boldly.

    Her life changed one night at 2AM, when a doctor asked her a single, powerful question: "Who do you want to be?"

    That moment sparked a reinvention that took her from the ICU to sipping champagne in Paris, from burnout to building an international brand that has helped thousands of women redefine success, style, and self-worth.

    At the heart of her work is the Self-Image Method® – her signature framework for identity reinvention. With this step-by-step process, women learn how to align their mindset, style, and surroundings with the woman they are becoming.

    Tonya's philosophy is simple yet life-changing: a woman's life always rises to the level of her self-image. And with her signature blend of elegance, mindset, and practical tools, she has become the go-to mentor for women who crave more – and are ready to create it.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoolofselfimage/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    19 mins
  • 461: The Power of Self-Image and Why It Shapes Everything
    Oct 1 2025

    Join us in the School of Self-Image: https://schoolofselfimage.com/membership-pod/

    If you're ready to become the woman you've dreamed of, journaled about, and caught glimpses of in quiet moments, this episode is for you.

    In this episode, I'm showing you how to redefine your self-image and why it matters in every area of your life. You'll discover the one question that sparked my reinvention journey and how you can use it to evaluate and transform your internal setting.

    I'll also break down the self-sabotage cycle and how to overcome it, why shifting your story changes your behavior, how your new identity changes your world, and why one small step aligns you closer to your dream self.

    Download the FREE Self-Image Manifesto:

    https://schoolofselfimage.com/manifesto

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    Tonya Leigh is a Master Self-Image Coach, former critical care nurse, and the visionary founder of the School of Self-Image – a global movement for women ready to stop playing small and start living boldly.

    Her life changed one night at 2AM, when a doctor asked her a single, powerful question: "Who do you want to be?"

    That moment sparked a reinvention that took her from the ICU to sipping champagne in Paris, from burnout to building an international brand that has helped thousands of women redefine success, style, and self-worth.

    At the heart of her work is the Self-Image Method® – her signature framework for identity reinvention. With this step-by-step process, women learn how to align their mindset, style, and surroundings with the woman they are becoming.

    Tonya's philosophy is simple yet life-changing: a woman's life always rises to the level of her self-image. And with her signature blend of elegance, mindset, and practical tools, she has become the go-to mentor for women who crave more – and are ready to create it.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoolofselfimage/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

    #selfimage #changeyourstory #identityalignment

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    14 mins
  • 460: How to Become Unrecognizable in 90 Days
    Sep 24 2025

    Join us in the School of Self-Image:

    https://schoolofselfimage.com/membership-pod/

    If you're looking for a total transformation over the next 90 days, this is for you.

    In this podcast, I'm sharing the seven steps I've used to reinvent my self-image. I'll walk you through how I've shifted my limiting beliefs into expansive ideas to become an elevated, confident, and unstoppable version of myself.

    You'll discover what it takes to be unrecognizable and why the benefits outweigh the discomfort, how transformation is both external and internal work, and why your choice today will allow you to welcome the new year strong.

    Did you enjoy this episode? Subscribe to the podcast and leave a 5-star review!

    You can also listen to this show on YouTube and on all your favorite podcast platforms.

    Tonya Leigh is a Master Self-Image Coach, former critical care nurse, and the visionary founder of the School of Self-Image – a global movement for women ready to stop playing small and start living boldly.

    Her life changed one night at 2AM, when a doctor asked her a single, powerful question: "Who do you want to be?"

    That moment sparked a reinvention that took her from the ICU to sipping champagne in Paris, from burnout to building an international brand that has helped thousands of women redefine success, style, and self-worth.

    At the heart of her work is the Self-Image Method® – her signature framework for identity reinvention. With this step-by-step process, women learn how to align their mindset, style, and surroundings with the woman they are becoming.

    Tonya's philosophy is simple yet life-changing: a woman's life always rises to the level of her self-image. And with her signature blend of elegance, mindset, and practical tools, she has become the go-to mentor for women who crave more – and are ready to create it.

    How to Connect with Tonya Leigh

    Website: https://schoolofselfimage.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/schoolofselfimage/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TonyaLeighOfficial/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonyaleighofficial/

    Pinterest: https://ph.pinterest.com/tonyaofficial/

    Twitter: https://x.com/tonyaleigh

    YouTube: https://schoolofselfimage.com/yt-tl

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    19 mins