Inspired by Brent Drever’s Rivr Notes newsletter, The Consequences of Yes, this episode explores how the simple act of overcommitting can quietly reshape our lives. We dig into the connection between workaholism and perfectionism—the constant pressure to do more, be more, and never let anything drop. It’s a conversation about how the drive to say “yes” can lead to burnout, strained relationships, and even serious health scares. But it’s also about the power of boundaries, the importance of letting go, and the freedom that comes from finally learning to say “no.”

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Inspired by Brent Drever’s Rivr Notes newsletter, this episode explores the subtle but powerful shift from “I have to” to “I get to.” It’s a small change in language—but one that can completely reframe how we approach challenges, routines, and responsibilities. Our Rivr Guides unpack how this mindset shift opens the door to gratitude, presence, and even joy in the everyday. It’s a conversation about perspective, personal growth, and finding meaning in the moments we often overlook.

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Inspired by Brent Drever’s Rivr Notes newsletter, this episode of Rivr Conversations explores what happens in the wake of the truly unexpected—a skiing accident, a broken neck, and a sudden shift from independence to vulnerability. It’s a conversation about resilience, yes—but more importantly, it’s about community. We’ll dive into how people show up when it matters most, what it means to lean in without being asked, and why allowing others to help might be one of the strongest things we can do. From crisis to connection, this episode is a reminder that even when the road ahead is uncertain, we don’t have to walk it alone.

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If you’d like to hear more about my story, I encourage you to check out my TEDx talk, Everyone has a story to tell, what’s yours? | Brent Drever | TEDxVail (~7 minute video), where I dive deeper into the power of community and friendship. It’s a reminder that even in our most vulnerable moments, we are never truly alone.