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6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship

So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs:

1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate It

You’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.

2. You’ve Healed from Past Relationships

You don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new.

3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional Intimacy

Monogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond.

4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”

You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty.

5. You’re Ready to Grow with One Person

You understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.

6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

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Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.

Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.

Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.

Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real.

📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:
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What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?

This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.

From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity.

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